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I am Pisces, My Lover is Pisces

I am Pisces, My Lover is Pisces

This is a joining of souls which defies the limits of space and time. In short, your union with your Pisces can be a spiritual experience. Both of you are creative, imaginative, and spiritual in your approach to the world. You both are highly intuitive and sensitive to the feelings of others, so this too, bodes well for your future together.

The only down side is a worldly one: Neither of you thinks making lots of money is important. With two non-materialists in one household, one of you will hopefully attract a benefactor so you can feed your little ones. Without an anchor of practicality, you both could drift out to sea. Pisces' ruler is Neptune, ruling mists and gasses; clear reality is just not something either of you enjoys dealing with. It would be best if one of you has some important earth planets elsewhere in your chart to bring some realism to this union. Neither of you likes structure, so you will have a very flowing lifestyle, free from any defined routine. Creative people like you two don't work by the clock.

The pace of the modern world wears you both out, so take time away to rest and recharge near watery places. Your need for peace and harmony at home is identical, thus, you respect and defend one another's solitude. Both of you help others through charitable or philanthropic work, so you could enjoy volunteering together. While you like to spend time at home with family, both of you also like to take in a wide range of cultural activities: from art or photography exhibits to concerts and dance performances.

Sexually, you reach beautiful heights of passion you never dreamed were possible. You intuitively know what your partner is feeling, and you touch him or her in all the right places. Sex is spiritual in its intensity -- a true joining of souls.

Yes, this is a dream union if one of you can add a practical touch. This is a magical blend of two fish swimming together in the river of life.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

Your Aquarius lover seems aloof, mysterious and inaccessible. This is attractive to you in the beginning but can signal heartbreak as your relationship progresses. Aquarius is a fixed sign, and therefore sometimes stubborn, while you are a mutable sign and therefore flexible. Guess who will have to give more in this relationship?

You will enjoy Aquarius' sparkling intellect and mastery of technical subjects, but your Aquarius needs a great deal of space to explore the world. Their sharp minds make wild, idiosyncratic leaps -- at times on the level of genius. But they can also be argumentative. Your lover could be the charismatic leader of many people, but still not strong on one-to-one relationships. After a while, you may begin to ask yourself if all that glitters is really golden. Is the relationship worthy of all the sacrifices you're your Aquarius is happy to have you make? Aquarius are objective, rational, and analytical, so they will never fully understand your strongly emotional and romantic nature.

In bed, Aquarius are inventive, innovative, and actually quite thrilling. Sooner or later, though, you may doubt that good sex alone can fuel the relationship. As your lover skips off on another quest, leaving you home alone again, you may just start packing your bags. If you stay together it is because you each have an equally strong need for space, and you, Pisces, have developed a healthy self-esteem from your own accomplishments. Aquarius can add to your life by explaining the mysteries of nature, science, and technology, but they may never be able to comprehend your soul.


I am Pisces, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Pisces, My Lover is Capricorn

This is a brilliant blend of Capricorn ambition and Pisces vision. Your Capricorn lover will give you excellent financial and career advice and will be behind you 100% as you rise to new heights of achievement. Capricorns are practical and determined, and you will benefit from your lover's bottom-line focus. Capricorn's sense of humor is a joy to be around. Both of you enjoy home and family, and your Capricorn partner will be able to bring in substantial income, becoming the family's key provider.

The only thing about your lover that you aren't sure you like is his or her emphasis on the material world. Capricorns need to run with the right crowd and they have to have all the appropriate props in place: wardrobe, house, car, etc. Whether they admit it or not, Capricorns are status conscious. Pisces, on the other hand, don't have an upwardly mobile bone in their bodies. They feel keeping up with the Joneses is a waste of time. Such things are all too superficial and worldly. Pisces are much more spiritual and soulful than this. This difference between you can lead to some interesting scenarios.

Example: As a couple you get a tax windfall of $2,500. You want to buy a new camera or a special lens to further your creative photography. Or, more likely, you want to lend your friend the cash because her deadbeat ex-husband hasn't sent her any child support in months and she's broke. But your Capricorn wants to pay the membership fee for a new country club where he or she can make friends with some influential people. What to do? How can you reconcile these differing values?

Capricorn's earth element and your water element blend beautifully and make a fertile combination. The sum total of your relationship is gentle support and caring. In bed, things should be great. Capricorns are delightfully slow and thoughtful in their approach. Your Capricorn will love your imaginative style and your deeply spiritual approach to the relationship.

Can a goat and a fish find happiness? Absolutely.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

This can be a tough match, if only because Sagittarius are so direct, and Pisces are so diplomatic in the way they approach communication. Your Sagittarius can come across uncaring, too blunt, and even deliberately hurtful. When confronted with these feelings, Sagittarius may respond by saying, "Well, you asked, didn't you?" Arguments go around and around on this topic between Pisces and Sagittarius and can eventually kill the relationship. Sagittarius is a fire sign and Pisces a water sign; therefore this match is not compatible by classical astrological standards.

What you will appreciate, though, is your Sagittarius' love of education and his or her penchant for deep philosophical discussion of a wide range of issues concerning the human condition. You will also adore your partner's need to travel far and wide. However, your tendency to worry will bewilder your optimistic Sagittarius, and you'll wonder how he or she can maintain such an outlook in the face of terrible odds. This could irritate you, as will Sagittarius' criticism of your flaws.

Your partner has an athletic bent, something which Pisces lack. Perhaps your Sagittarius can interest you in working out at the gym, so you can shape up and get fit. Or you could interest your partner in more gentle-to-the-body sports, such as swimming. Anything too strenuous or competitive will probably turn you off. Perhaps you two will agree not to participate in sports together but to do other things instead.

Sexually, Sagittarius are playful and humorous (a plus), but your lover may lack the emotional intensity you crave. If your Sagittarius doesn't make less-than-funny jokes during lovemaking like, "Am I dreaming or are you gaining weight?" you might be able to continue the relationship. Just be prepared to let some of the typical Sagittarius commentary roll off your back.

Sagittarius is known as the bachelor sign, so be forewarned. Freedom is very important to Sagittarius. Sagittarius have a deep psychological need to avoid having to "report" to someone else, and this is what makes them worry about commitment. In fact, they're often quite loyal. Pisces is not always into commitment either, so this relationship may work for you. On the plus side, both of you are mutable signs, which means you are flexible people at heart. Intellectually, you really hit it off with Sagittarius. This match takes work, because you must turn the other the other cheek when your partner becomes too blunt. If your union succeeds, it is because you have been willing to put in a great deal of effort.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Pisces, My Lover is Scorpio

Hold your Scorpio lover close -- this person is a true soul mate. Scorpios share Pisces' depth of feeling and emotion, and both signs rely on intuition. Scorpio lights up your house of higher thought, so together you can explore the serious questions in life, such as: Why are we here? What is the role of religion? Is it possible to have more than one true love? Scorpio is especially spiritual, something Pisces appreciate.

Scorpios will be loyal and discreet -- another plus to Pisces -- and their feelings of love go awesomely deep. Sexually, this can be a thrilling match, for Scorpio likes the fact that Pisces expect a near-religious experience from making love. Scorpios can get into jealous rages, however, so if you aren't sure you want this person to be your one-and-only, delay sex as long as you can. Once in bed with a Scorpio, he or she will expect total fidelity from you from that day forward.

Your intense and mysterious lover needs privacy -- something you can relate to well. Getting away to quiet places together often is a good idea. Scorpio is a water sign like Pisces, so you share the same element. Like you, Scorpios often have to return to places near water to renew themselves and prepare again to take on the world.

This person is intense, and sometimes he or she can even get a little paranoid. If your Scorpio seems withdrawn, gently press them to talk to you. Scorpios sometimes don't exactly know what it is that is making them churn inside. Expressing his or her disjointed feelings may help your lover make sense of the situation. However, don't expect getting your Scorpio to talk to be an easy task; opening up a Scorpio is like uprooting a giant redwood tree. Yet Pisces' delicate sensitivity always lets them know when to press forward and when to hold back.

Scorpios are a confident sign and will urge you to stand up for yourself. They go crazy when they see others take advantage of their Pisces. Financial shrewdness is also a strong asset of Scorpios, something Pisces will benefit from learning. Your union with Scorpio therefore, will bolster the sides of you that need strength.

If you are up to Scorpio's intensity this can be an invigorating pairing. Scorpio will expand your entire spectrum of feeling. My bet is you'll love it, and your Scorpio will too.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

Libra is ruled by gentle Venus and therefore your lover is refined, polished, sophisticated and elegant. This personality profile mixes well with Pisces, even though this is not a classic astrological pairing. Libra is an air sign and Pisces is water, so if you play your cards right, you will have a bubbly union.

Libras are very social and like to go out all the time. But Pisces are self-reliant and need to spend time alone in reflection and meditation; Libras think Pisces spend far too much time alone. If you are willing to respect and go along with each other's needs, this could be a fun match. Libras adore cultural activities and fine restaurants, which will get you out and about. Libras know the hottest clubs and like to dress fashionably. Pisces base their satisfaction on emotional and spiritual contentment rather than on material gain or social competition, so they can take or leave Libras' gregarious lifestyle. For example, Pisces might like to dabble in the cocktail circuit now and then and will even benefit from all the contacts a Libra brings into his or her life, but Pisces may not want to spend as much time out and about as a Libra. After a long day, a cozy night at home reading or watching TV to unwind sounds good to Pisces.

Another possible hitch in the relationship from your perspective is the Libra tendency to over-analyze things. You trust your emotions more than Libras trusts theirs, so conflicts could arise when your Libra asks you to justify your position -- how do you explain your gut instincts to someone so supremely logical? Also, Libras can be a little bossy, but this is asserted in a charming, diplomatic way. Pisces read others' motives perfectly, and although you can see through Libras' veil of gentility, you appreciate their effort not to be too brash about pursuing their own agenda. Thus, you often let them have their own way. If you disagree, you will be sensitive to one another's positions, and diplomatic Libra will likely not hurt your feelings. Libra, symbolized by the scales, cares about finding a fair solution, something strongly in your favor.

Happily, Libra lights up your house of physical love and things could be hot, hot, hot in bed. Pisces are not likely to let the physical part of your relationship overtake the other areas. You need an emotional partner in life, and if your bubbly Libra can slow down long enough to give you the nurturing you need, this could be a great match.


I am Pisces, My Lover is Virgo

I am Pisces, My Lover is Virgo

Virgo comes six months away from Pisces in the zodiac. Such a placement means your lover will either complete you or compete with you. So Pisces, it's all or nothing with your Virgo. Virgos can provide some badly needed structure and a strong sense of organization to Pisces' sometimes scattered, busy life. Virgos are amazed by Pisces' creativity and loves to be around it. This match can be described as: Left Brain (Virgo) meets Right Brain (Pisces). Virgos are talented with precision, discriminating taste, and verbal ability. Pisces have vision, intuition, and the ability to read gestures, moods, body language and symbols. Each sign has what the other one lacks, but there could be problems.

Virgos are idealists and perfectionists. Since they see the world with crystal clarity, they notice flaws that everyone else has missed; therefore, Virgos are felt to be highly critical. Pisces see beauty and acceptance in everything, so Virgo's heavy criticism can be hurtful to gentle Pisces. A self-protective Pisces response could be a silent shrug of the shoulders, which Virgos find maddening. A Virgo's earthy practicality could sometimes seem too intense and real for Pisces to bear, but a little dose of reality could benefit Pisces in the long run; Virgos get concerned that Pisces are too impressionable.

Virgos' need to be productive is strong, and they will worry about deadlines and work still to be done. This can put a damper on their sexuality, but Pisces know how to charm and distract dutiful Virgos. Once in the proper mood, Virgos can be ardent lovers -- this sign rarely does anything half-heartedly. Luckily, your Virgo's talent for communication only makes the sex better.

This is either a dream match or a dreadful match -- love could last a lifetime or just a few months, and you will know fairly soon which category you fall in! Sensitivity to each other's needs will help make love stay around.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Leo

I am Pisces, My Lover is Leo

Leo is a highly creative sign and so is Pisces, so don't underestimate how dynamic this match can be. You like Leos' generosity, strength and moxie, and they adore your gentle sensitivity and vision. Together, these signs can make an amazing contribution to the world, especially in terms of the arts and literature. Leos can inspire the courage that Pisces need to develop within themselves. In return, Pisces give Leos a lesson in subtlety -- something the Lion often misses.

Leos, however, need plenty of adoring attention. Pisces are so self-sacrificing that your Leo might take advantage of your Pisces' good nature. Pisces are a mutable and therefore a flexible sign. But Leos are a fixed sign, and can sometimes seem arrogantly stubborn. Pisces give more than Leos do, yet Leos are loyal and very generous. Your Leo will shower you with gifts and frequent nights on the town, so life will certainly be fun. Leos like to spend money and Pisces don't really notice material things, so neither is likely to have an urge to save -- which is something to watch!

Sexually, Leos want to be adored and Pisces are often happy to comply. Pisces, the more low-key and submissive sign, enjoy a powerful and confident partner, while Leos will love the romantic rituals, which attend to the tiniest erogenous zones, imaginative Pisces can create.

Fire sign Leo and water sign Pisces are not a classic match. The problem is that Leos like to get their own way, something Pisces don't care about much. What's wrong? Too often Pisces' point of view will be disregarded. Not wanting to make a big deal over every issue, Pisces can lose their individuality in this match. Sticking up for their feelings will help Pisces remain equal partners. So be prepared to make a little bit of an effort with your Leo!

I am Pisces, My Lover is Cancer

I am Pisces, My Lover is Cancer

This is a match made in heaven. Both of you are water signs, so you both feel emotion on a very deep level. You have a delicate touch with one another's feelings, and would never be insensitive if criticizing the other. Cancer's need for home and family is comforting and satisfying for Pisces. Your need for creativity and self-expression will inspire your Cancer lover, and you will share a magical blend of romance, sentimentality and enchantment.

Cancer and Pisces will create a private, safe haven together against the bustling world. Since stressful, busy times could bruise you both, you will find comfort together by taking time out near water, which you both love. Vacations with one another to locales where there is a beautiful view of the sea or a lake to paddle in could be the way to block out everyday cares, refresh your relationship, and take time to enjoy one another.

Cancers tend to be wise with money and like to invest, something that doesn't interest Pisces. They also know how to find bargains better than any of the other signs. Your Cancer could be good for your financial future!

Cancers are usually more moody than Pisces. At times their sulkiness could get you down, especially if you feel you may have slighted them in some way you can't quite figure out. Keep in mind that Cancers are delayed reactors -- they will respond to incidents that took place days or even weeks earlier. This could be the source of your confusion, Pisces. Getting a Cancer to talk when he or she is out of sorts will help dissolve the problem. You will have to gently pry open your Cancer's shell, though, which is not always easy. Intuitive Pisces feel their lover's pain as if it's their own, so Pisces know when to inquire and when to leave Cancer alone. Both signs are excellent listeners, shoulders to cry on, and sounding boards for advice. This strengthens the bond between you two enormously.

Sexually, you both intuitively know what the other one needs and wants at a given moment -- you each know what the other is feeling. Because of this intuitive link, Pisces and Cancer raise lovemaking to a truly high art.

You both are water signs, and water cleanses, refreshes, purifies, and stirs the emotions. This match can produce the kind of love great literature is written about.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Gemini

I am Pisces, My Lover is Gemini

You are a water sign and your Gemini is air. Air and water make bubbles, so this could be a lively pairing, as long as you take care that certain things don't sabotage your love. This is not a classic astrological pairing.

Gemini need plenty of stimulating conversation and lots of variety. Gemini also like to be out of the house a great deal, whether they're seeing friends on weekend jaunts, or checking out new exhibits, plays, or cyber cafes in town. When Gemini aren't out, they are home reading one of their dozens of periodicals and books. As a Pisces, you may become exhausted just thinking about all this frenetic activity. That much interaction with people could frazzle you. If your Gemini can understand why you don't want to go together to the beach this weekend -- because you want to stay home and work on your manuscript, pottery, painting, whatever -- then things will be fine.

When confronted with a problem, Gemini like to analyze and intellectualize. Pisces are guided by their feelings, though, and will rely on instinct. Sometimes facts might not tell the whole story, so don't feel you have to justify your intuition to your Gemini. There is no one right way to answer life's questions. Anyway, time will prove your hunches are almost always right.

This can be a stimulating match, because a Gemini will bring a world to you that you would never see otherwise. You both are mutable signs, so you bend and sway together when the wind blows and are not likely to be brittle or break.

Sexually, Gemini need to hear loving words prior to and during lovemaking so be as creative and talkative as you like. They will adore you for reading erotic passages from a book to them in bed. You will teach your lover to get in touch with his or her deepest feelings and to start to understand the hidden symbols and codes of the Universe, rather than read only what can be seen on the surface.

This combination has the possibility of being an exciting relationship, full of creativity, ideas and information, new friends, and places to go. It's worth a try!

I am Pisces, My Lover is Taurus

I am Pisces, My Lover is Taurus

Lucky for you, Taurus are sensuous, earthy, practical, and great in bed. They adore your nurturing, visionary qualities and are inspired by your love of helping others.

One small problem may be that Taurus are quite materialistic and you most definitely are not. An earth sign, Taurus like to have and hold the fruits of their labors. Pisces get the greatest joy from creativity and philanthropy, so you might not understand why your Taurus instinctively amasses wealth, objects and toys. However, Taurus' drive to build a good nest egg will be good for your future, for Pisces don't usually place much emphasis on such things.

For Pisces, love is ethereal and spiritual. For a Taurus, being in love means making love -- a lot. Taurus emphasize the power of touch but do not necessarily have a strong spiritual experience when making love. This puzzles you, for your approach is so different. But as long as you feel your partner loves you deeply, and this is not just a "roll in the hay" for him or her, your relationship will work out fine. Casual sex offends your deep sensibilities and snuffs out your spiritual ardor. But Taurus take their time making love, enjoying the experience with all their senses, so compatibility could be very strong between you. You may even enjoy their possessive streak - "to have and to hold" is something Taurus take literally.

Taurus will remain loyal, steadfast, reliable, and true blue. As a Pisces, this may be the one quality you value over all others.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

Your Aries lover likes to take the lead, and this could be fine with you, Pisces. You like your lover's spunk and can-do attitude. Aries like your vision and sensitivity.

In classic astrological terms, this is not considered an ideal match -- Pisces is a water sign, Aries is fire. In the literal sense, water puts out fire. You may find your lover too self-absorbed, reckless or impetuous. Aries are not known for their ability to reflect on life's deeper meaning or even to think before they act, which could annoy you. You want your Aries to plan more; your Aries wants you to stop worrying. Yet Aries are more reality-driven than you are, and your partner may reveal a great deal of truth to you. The Aries direct way of speaking could hurt your feelings -- Aries have little time for diplomacy and empathy, which can make trouble for a sensitive Pisces.

Sexually, Aries are inventive, exciting lovers. But since they regard sex as mainly recreation, while you feel that it is the ultimate expression of true love, you may not be happy. Be aware that, even in love, Aries have such strong pioneer instincts, they can be fickle, or even promiscuous, which will bring the end of your union. New sensations and experiences are important to Aries, so you can bewitch them by using your rich Pisces imagination and talent for play.

If you can get over those obstacles, this match will be a happy one. You will like their fresh ideas and enthusiasm, and they will respect your caring, sympathetic nature.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

Aries are clever, enthusiastic, and sparkling with new ideas--a sure hit with Aquarius. Since Aries are always starting new ventures, they're never clinging vines, something you appreciate in a lover. You're an air sign and Aries is fire, so the pairing of your two signs produces terrific energy. Both of you value honesty and open communication, something that will keep your relationship going over the long haul.

In bed, your Aries is confident, inventive, and not intensely emotional (and neither are you). Nor is either of you possessive or prone to jealousy. Since you are ruled by the innovative planet Uranus, you value spontaneity and innovation, and will greatly enjoy the sparks that can fly between you and your Aries lover!

If you love an Aries, continue. Life will be fun, that's for sure. You value objectivity and rationality in matters of the heart, so you will find great compatibility with your Aries lover.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Taurus

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Taurus

This is not an easy match, unless you have some extra earth signs in your horoscope to compensate. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, a tough combination because neither of you is likely to budge from your position. Pure stubbornness could kill your union.

There are other difficulties: Sexually, Taurus is a very tactile sign that needs reassurance and frequent demonstrations of love, whereas you don't need lots of affectionate displays. Taurus are creatures of comfort -- sensuous and deeply sexual in orientation -- and although you enjoy sex, it isn't the be-all and end-all of your life. After the initial passion of your relationship cools off, you could feel your Taurus demands too much from you. Taurus are also prone to being possessive, something you don't appreciate because you value your space. You have your projects, your experiments, and your goals, and you may find a Taurus won't understand your focus on the world outside of this relationship. Passive resistance is a Bull's specialty, and this could put more pressure on your relationship when your Taurus finds no other way to get your attention.

Though Taurus' strong practicality, reliability, and steadfastness may have been what drew you to one another initially, these qualities may not continue to impress you later on. You may find life with a Taurus boring. Taurus have a strong conservative streak, and you -- a true futurist -- are just the opposite. In politics, you may not see eye to eye.

Furthermore, your lover may not understand your desire to innovate and your conceptual take on issues; Taurus don't spend time analyzing things like you do. In terms of lifestyle, Taurus like to stay home and surround themselves with all kinds of comforts, while you need to go out and get stimulated by the big, bad world.

If you love a Taurus, it is obvious that you have come to enjoy the very best Taurus traits. In turn, your lover has apparently learned to enjoy and encourage your individuality, your liberal views, and your need to help others. It has been said that Aquarius belong to the world, not to one person; his or her role is to lead others and light the path to a better society. If your relationship is working, apparently you have found that rare Taurus that will push you to reach for the stars, even if it means giving up some time with them.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Gemini

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Gemini

This sparkling, zany paring could not get any better. Both of you are intellectual air signs, so conversation, good books, travel, jokes, parties, a rich social life, and a host of other activities are sure to spice up your time together. Ask an Aquarius why he or she married a Gemini and the answer is quick and easy: 'For fun!' Good answer. One wise psychologist said more couples should forget all reasons to get married except one: In the end, is your time together fun? This psychologist would approve of you and your Gemini!

Communication between you two is so superb that it knocks you out, and you both often need to scoot out of town together to chill out. Both of you have quick minds and are fast-paced thinkers -- others sometimes have trouble keeping up with you! You have many friends that you enjoy introducing to your sweetheart, and thus, your circle of friends and acquaintances will widen considerably with this union. But you'll be best friends, too.

In bed, you'll adore the playful, inventive qualities of Gemini; their penchant for talking dirty in your most intimate moments will drive you wild. An open relationship might appeal to you, but be careful -- one of you could get hurt, much to the surprise of both. Gemini is up-to-the-minute on trends, but too liberal a sexual situation is probably not a good idea for either of you. Neither of you is deeply sentimental (unless a water sign is placed strikingly in one your charts), so you don't need nights of moonlight and roses to get in the mood. But remember to schedule a few enchanted evenings anyway, just for the thrill of it!

Your relationship has the promise of a four-star, solid gold union, so hold on to one another. The trust you share, your mutual respect, and your enjoyment of being together can stand the test of time.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Cancer

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Cancer


Can Cancer, an emotional water sign, find true love with Aquarius, a rational, objective air sign? Not easily. You will find Cancer's need to stay at home difficult. Long after they have attended to their children's needs, they want to lavish even more time on family, and this could drive you to distraction. Just one more Sunday with your in-laws and you'll scream! Cancers will want to know why you aren't more interested in maintaining your roots and you will ask why they're so attached to the past.

Cancers need lots of attention -- something you don't often have time to give -- for your sign usually directs your energy out toward the world at large. If you love a Cancer, direct it outward to the world during the day, but save quality time for your tender Cancer in the evenings. They will honor you with their fidelity and will nurture you tenderly and compassionately. They will also cook you amazing dinners, create and maintain all kinds of fun family traditions, and provide you with the old-fashioned kind of home life you didn't think still existed. Be careful, because your unsentimental nature is very different from your romantic partner's, and you could unconsciously hurt your Cancer's feelings. The hardest part of this relationship is maybe having him or her plead with you to spend more time at home.

If you want this union to last, you will have to work at it. Your sensibilities are quite different, but if you want it to happen, it will!


I am Aquarius, My Lover is Leo

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Leo

Leo is 180 degrees away from Aquarius in the zodiac, indicating that you two will either snap together like two jigsaw puzzle pieces or else kill each other. There is no in-between! My bet is you will find an ideal mate with Leo. Fire sign Leos like the air element you provide to the relationship, for it makes their fire burn brighter. You like Leo's attachment to luxury and culture, even though you wouldn't indulge nearly as much on yourself if you were left to your own devices.

Leo's generosity and sense of fun is good for you both, and your partner admires your strong intellectual logic. One problem is that you are both fixed signs. This may mean that if you hold opposing views, you may attempt to stare each other down and wind up at an impasse. Unless one of you develops some flexibility, this ride together could go nowhere.

Leo's are rather patrician, and think of themselves as having attained some sort of social status that maybe they haven't quite earned. Social classes and snobbery drive democratic Aquarius up the wall, so if this gets out of control, it could be something that has to be discussed honestly. You march to a different drummer, and approval from others is something you have never needed. Understand, though, that Leos need respect and admiration from others nearly as much as they need oxygen. Leos will never be able to give this up, so don't even try to change them. All you can do is try to keep their expectations realistic -- with your objective point of view this shouldn't be too hard.

Leos' egos are strong, and they will need lots of attention from you, which could be another problem. It is not that you have a big ego too -- you don't -- but it's the time that it takes to cater to their needs that could be troublesome. You lose yourself in your projects for extended periods, much to your partner's dismay.

Sexually, your Leo is expressive and warm, bringing all kinds of luxuries into the bedroom to coax you into the mood, using fragrant flowers and the best champagne. Your Leo has a playful, dramatic style, which will be fun. Be aware, however, that your need to be a bit aloof will not sit well with a Leo. Leos feel that passion is one of the best parts of life, and they expect not only your presence but your enthusiastic participation, too. Here you may benefit from your association, for Leos are right. Sometimes you are a tad too serious and work-obsessed!

You both have an adventurous view of the world, so things could be good between you, despite a few bumps along the way. If you can dream it, you can make it happen. Do some creative fantasizing, Aquarius!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Virgo

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Virgo

Virgo is precise and orderly, but Aquarius is quite comfortable in semi-chaos. Your sign rules genius and creativity, but in the creative process there is waste and discord. This can be hard for your lover to accept.

The hardest part of the Aquarius/Virgo union is that it lacks romantic abandon and sexual passion, from both your side and theirs. Virgo is ruled by cerebral, objective Mercury, and you are ruled by objective, idiosyncratic Uranus. You are an air sign and Virgo is earth, so while you may initially like their practical, "rooted" point of view, it is doubtful that this will continue throughout the years. Luckily, Virgo will not demand too much time from you, for they are busy people too -- Virgo is the original workaholic. You will appreciate their industriousness, but they won't understand your need to shock, upstage, or otherwise assert your idiosyncratic streak. Virgos are fairly conservative and need some level of social approval.

The success potential here is a really tough call, but like any other relationship, you can make it work if you give it an honest try. Perhaps you both have other planets in your charts that will make your relationship sparkle, which could be the case. Virgo admires Aquarius' service to the community, their mastery of highly technical subjects, their vision of the future, and their charismatic leadership style. In turn, Aquarius respects Virgo's no-nonsense, practical outlook and productivity. Virgo is more flexible than you are -- they roll with the punches more readily. Your Virgo lover could help you keep track of all the details so that almost nothing slips between the cracks. When couples are busy, one of the partner's organizational ability can be a great asset. If you develop a measure of fame in your life, Virgo would be your ideal behind-the-scenes manager (where they are happiest) in order to organize your schedule, meet with accountants, negotiate the finer points of your contract, set a realistic budget, traffic your orders, and suggest ways in which you can fix the flaws in your plan. Don't underestimate the power of having a Virgo on your side.

Take your time if you are dating a Virgo, and make sure you like the fit. If none of the down sides of this relationship seem to apply, you apparently have planets in your charts that override this Sun sign outlook. In that case, move forward with confidence!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

This is a sassy, exciting pairing of two similar souls, sure to be a hit. You both enjoy lots of social activity, and neither would expect the other to wait at home in the traditional sense. In fact, ordering dinner in several times a week will be the only way to handle the busy schedule you both lead! Your coupling is thoroughly modern.

But even the best relationship demands that the partners accommodate each other. In your case, be mindful that Libras care about social acceptance, while you don't give a fig about it. Ruled by idiosyncratic Uranus, Aquarius' job in life is to press forward and to make all kinds of new discoveries. In doing so, you will run up against the Establishment at times. This frightens Libra, for this Venus-ruled sign's job is to bring opposing forces together. They want to be popular and will go out of their way to bring harmony to relationships. You can see how your roles differ; in many ways, Aquarius is a sign of extremes. Libra's friends are likely to be in the arts, yours in the sciences; nevertheless, your friends mix well. And Libras entertain beautifully, so your parties would be much-talked-about affairs!

Libras like to be married, but Aquarius like space and freedom; commitment doesn't come quickly or easily. Sexually, you link up in a heavenly way, with plenty of fun, wit and experimentation. You will enjoy Libra's use of perfume or cologne (female or male, this sign is a fragrance wizard) and their refined, cultured personal style. Libra takes good care of their physical appearance well into old age. Your Libra will enjoy your quixotic and playful approach to sex.

Your Libra is the romantic of the two of you, so let him or her take the lead for some starlit evenings. Physically, you are on the same plane, but you aren't as emotional as a Scorpio, a Pisces, or a Cancer. However, your Sun sign lights up Libra's house of true love, so the bond remains very strong here, even though to the outside world you may appear to have a cool, detached, and analytical relationship. Your Libra lights up your house of deep philosophical thought and distant travel.

This match gets a four-star rating. If things go wrong, it isn't because you aren't suited to one another. Both of you are air signs -- like-elements get along great together. In your case, you both know how to communicate clearly, objectively, and you share an overriding quest for truth. You will have a rich, busy, and noisy life together. Sounds like fun!