I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

This can be a tough match, if only because Sagittarius are so direct, and Pisces are so diplomatic in the way they approach communication. Your Sagittarius can come across uncaring, too blunt, and even deliberately hurtful. When confronted with these feelings, Sagittarius may respond by saying, "Well, you asked, didn't you?" Arguments go around and around on this topic between Pisces and Sagittarius and can eventually kill the relationship. Sagittarius is a fire sign and Pisces a water sign; therefore this match is not compatible by classical astrological standards.

What you will appreciate, though, is your Sagittarius' love of education and his or her penchant for deep philosophical discussion of a wide range of issues concerning the human condition. You will also adore your partner's need to travel far and wide. However, your tendency to worry will bewilder your optimistic Sagittarius, and you'll wonder how he or she can maintain such an outlook in the face of terrible odds. This could irritate you, as will Sagittarius' criticism of your flaws.

Your partner has an athletic bent, something which Pisces lack. Perhaps your Sagittarius can interest you in working out at the gym, so you can shape up and get fit. Or you could interest your partner in more gentle-to-the-body sports, such as swimming. Anything too strenuous or competitive will probably turn you off. Perhaps you two will agree not to participate in sports together but to do other things instead.

Sexually, Sagittarius are playful and humorous (a plus), but your lover may lack the emotional intensity you crave. If your Sagittarius doesn't make less-than-funny jokes during lovemaking like, "Am I dreaming or are you gaining weight?" you might be able to continue the relationship. Just be prepared to let some of the typical Sagittarius commentary roll off your back.

Sagittarius is known as the bachelor sign, so be forewarned. Freedom is very important to Sagittarius. Sagittarius have a deep psychological need to avoid having to "report" to someone else, and this is what makes them worry about commitment. In fact, they're often quite loyal. Pisces is not always into commitment either, so this relationship may work for you. On the plus side, both of you are mutable signs, which means you are flexible people at heart. Intellectually, you really hit it off with Sagittarius. This match takes work, because you must turn the other the other cheek when your partner becomes too blunt. If your union succeeds, it is because you have been willing to put in a great deal of effort.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

This is a juicy, sweet relationship, and it should get even better in time. Both of you share a bright, idealistic view of a world where anything is possible. You are concerned with social issues, new technology, and planning for the future, and your lover is oriented toward learning and the educational process. Sagittarius' role is to take the knowledge of mankind and make sense out of it. You are sure to have some lively debates with a Sagittarius! If you disagree, neither of you gets overly upset; you both respect individuality. Generally, you are the more fixed in your ways, while your Sagittarius is much more flexible -- boding well for your future together.

Sagittarius need to travel and you like your time alone too, so you may agree to take separate vacations at times. Careful: Out of sight could mean out of mind. Neither of you finds commitment appealing, so you might date casually for a long time before you decide to tie the knot. You'll both need assurance that you won't be sacrificing your independence.

Sexually, you are a near-perfect match. But hopefully, your Sagittarius partner won't be as honest about the less-than-ideal stuff in bed as he or she will invariably be about what's great ("Well, I've had better." Ugh!). Your lover is a fire sign and you are air, and therefore highly compatible, but the Sagittarius directness can be hard to take for any sign. They can be surprised at the taken-aback reactions to their open commentary. Your Sagittarius will respond that you wanted to know, didn't you, and will let you know exactly how he or she feels. The honesty-to-a-fault of Sagittarius takes getting used to. But you and your Sagittarius aren't the types to let your emotions run riot or hold grudges, so somehow you'll work things out.

Two signs apart in the zodiac form a "sextile," which is considered an opportunity aspect in astrology. This means your lover will help create opportunities for you to do things of value. Specifically, your Sagittarius lights up your house of friendship and social causes, so he or she could be a strong helpmate in an altruistic quest of yours. Certainly, your Sagittarius will bring you plenty of new contacts and a close friend or two. He or she may also urge you to become a member of certain organizations that ultimately turn out to be good for you.

Neither of you is domestic, so if you can hire help for weekly maintenance, do it early in your relationship. Someone has to be minding the store, and with your schedules, it can't be you or your partner! So if you are in love with a Sagittarius, press forward, Aquarius. You've got a good match here.

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Sagittarius

Signs that follow one another in the zodiac can make for a hard match. This is because the second sign makes up for what the first one lacks. So in many ways you and Sagittarius are opposites. The biggest difference between you two is that your lover is ruled by Jupiter and is an optimist. You, on the other hand, are ruled by Saturn and are a realist. Your lover will call you a pessimist and won't understand why preparing for a rainy day is so vital. But you won't fathom how he or she could have such a pollyanna view of life.

Physically, Sagittarius likes to exercise. He or she may goad you about your "love handles," something you will either do something about with your lover's guidance or will obstinately ignore because they have infuriated and humiliated you. In any circumstance and on any issue, Sagittarius' bluntness can be hard for a polite and diplomatic Capricorn to accept.

In bed, you may find Sagittarius' trim, athletic body a turn-on. But after a while, you may ask yourself if you are compatible in any other way. In the end, your Sagittarius is a theorist and you are a doer, so you may get the job of bringing home the bacon. On the other hand, you will welcome your Sagittarius' humor and deep philosophical points of view. Your lover also enjoys an assortment of educational TV programs that feed his or her hungry mind. You actually like some of this esoteric information, so you could find some common ground.

This match is a 50/50 call. It will be hard at times, but not impossible. The success or failure of this relationship is really up to you!

am Sagittarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

am Sagittarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

Drawn to another Sagittarius? It's no doubt that his or her incredible intellect, breadth, scope of knowledge, and mastery of a subject led you to your lover's side. You may have met at school, a religious retreat, or on an exotic trip. Together you will lead a life of even more study, travel, and possibly some fun athletics. Since you're both fire signs, plenty of fresh ideas will always be taking flight between you two, and there will be no shortage of enthusiasm for adventure.

Save for a rainy day? I certainly hope you will, for with two such eternal optimists, you might be too busy to think about investments or be too sure you'll never have the need for an emergency fund.

Best of all will be your life-long interest in talking with each other, taking time to philosophize, ponder social issues, and discuss the future implications of this and that. Your brain will get a flurry of stimulus; however, at times you might hanker for someone a little less like yourself. If there are some substantial earth and water planets in either of your horoscopes, you could be in luck; these could add dollops of practicality and emotion that this union might otherwise lack. You both approach love with your head more than your hearts, but that's natural and normal to you, too.

Sex? Why it's wild, lusty, and totally fantastic! Because you both like to stay in shape the old fashioned way, by hiking, biking, rock climbing, swimming, and playing tennis (instead of just going to the gym, which seems a little sterile), you both have great looking bodies. You two love the great outdoors, even when you're making love. Now, just because you're both so carefree don't be so sure no one will ever catch you "en plen aire." Careful, Sadge!

Is this a yes? Sure is!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Sagittarius

Sometimes the most interesting relationships develop when opposites attract. You're intense and shrewdly realistic, able to see through people's hidden agendas in the blink of an eye. Sagittarius are all sunny optimism, and hopelessly impressionable. This is a hard mix, because you are a fixed (somewhat intractable) water sign in love with a mutable (flexible) fire sign. If your lover's water element doesn't put out the fire in your relationship early on, you stand a good chance of success.

Primarily an intellectual sign, Sagittarius do not have your capacity for deep emotions and passion, nor your sharp intuition. They see themselves as basically objective and rational, but you understand that facts can be deceptive. You trust your gut instincts implicitly, but still you don't want to be put in the position of having to justify your instinct-based conclusions.

Sagittarius are very communicative -- virtual chatterboxes -- and they adore intellectual debates, no matter which side of the question they're on. You find all this talk wearing. If you wanted to debate everything you'd be on Crossfire or Meet the Press. But Sagittarius watch the Discovery Channel for kicks. Good grief! That's entertainment? While Sagittarius fantasize about taking a trek through Africa, you just want to chill out in your hammock at home. You'd rather unwind in front of an action drama, a murder mystery, or even the Playboy channel. But these low-brow flights of fantasy make Sagittarius leave the room in disgust. The TV remote control wars begin -- troubles, troubles.

And it gets worse: You are a compassionate water sign, but your Sagittarius is brutally honest. Your lover's comments roll over you on occasion with the subtlety of a tank; while you can take constructive, sensitive feedback, you bristle at Sagittarius' style. You want to get married, Sagittarius isn't ready. They will delay commitment as long as possible, for they have bigger things to do first. Sexually, they want a light touch without all the opera.

Okay, okay, I have laid it on rather thick. I see you're disappointed. I can hear you protest that you love your Sagittarius. Perhaps you have a lot of fire and air in your chart, which would make this union work. My advice is to know one another well before you make plans for the future. Stay together for at least a few years. What if you already know you love him or her? Then hang on. You may be relishing the differences that would drive other couples apart.

I am Libra, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Libra, My Lover is Sagittarius

This pairing has a good chance of success. Libra and Sagittarius share upbeat, optimistic personalities. Libra, you love meeting new people and go far and wide outside of your main social circle to reel in new friends and experiences. You like to party, and your Sagittarius lover likes to travel. You can each convince the other to join in these activities in a wink of an eye!

You'll have difficulty with your Sagittarius' directness. At times their compulsion for no-holds-barred honesty will require you wear a suit of ego-armor! Libra rules partnership and looks forward to marriage, so another little turbulent spot may come later, when you feel you're ready to wed: You'll sense your sweetheart still isn't quite sure. Don't take this personally. Sagittarius have to be absolutely certain they won't lose their individuality or autonomy. Once they assure themselves that won't happen, they'll be hooked. Meanwhile, your sex life should be lively and fun, and stay that way for years! Sagittarius likes making love outdoors under the stars, and that's just fine with you, as long as the risks aren't too great.

Hold on to your Sagittarius and surround him or her with love. This one could be the right one for you!

I am Virgo, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Virgo, My Lover is Sagittarius

You are both independent, so getting either of you to commit to a long-term relationship is going to be tough. As soon as one of you thinks it could be possible, the other is likely to get the jitters. Virgo, half the time you figure you'd rather live alone. Freedom-loving Sagittarius, you've met your match! They don't call Sagittarius the bachelor sign (male or female, same difference) for nothing! Of course, there are Sagittarius and Virgos who do team up beautifully, so be patient and go slowly. You could make this work if you want to!

There are up sides to this union, but down sides, too. Both of you are mutable signs, which means you both are adaptable, flexible, and keep an open mind. You will enjoy Sagittarius' eternal optimism, and their ability to take risks. Your nature is one far more cautious and steady, and you're less likely to act on impulse. This combination can be good for both of you: Sagittarius could get you to act a little more quickly and confidently, while you could get Sagittarius to think rationally before flinging himself or herself into some risky new endeavor. Being an earth sign, you rankle at exaggerations and generalities. You will urge your lover to think things through with focus and detail; your solid sense of practicality is alluring to Sagittarius.

Virgos are very polite and diplomatic, but Sagittarius' straight-talking style can be hurtful. Sagittarius keep running into problems because they're too direct with people. After a while you may get used to this, as it is innate with Sagittarius and you know they mean no offense. When it comes to spending money, you could see a real difference between you, too. Virgos like to conserve, but Sagittarius are so optimistic they see Virgos' need to squirrel money away as just plain stingy.

You're different when it comes to work, too. Your Sagittarius may announce flatly one day that he or she can't stand his or her job and has quit -- without having another job waiting in the wings. In fact, he or she may announce the need to go away on a trip to think it all through (Sagittarius loves travel). "Quit your job AND spend money on a trip?" I can hear you say in disbelief, adding, "Are you insane?" Such blind faith that things will work out is not part of Virgo's temperament and will tend to make you nervous.

Virgos are worriers, and Sagittarius are the just the opposite; they worry about almost nothing. Since your lover is ruled by Jupiter, his or her footloose style usually works -- as amazing as that sounds. By demanding so much, Sagittarius usually get what they want. Sagittarius, a fire sign, wants passion and excitement to dominate his or her life -- and it does. Whatever form that passion takes -- a fantastic career, a beautiful city to live in, or the love of their lives -- Sagittarius expect to find exactly what they seek. You need to believe in your Sagittarius and know that although this route to happiness is different from yours, it will nevertheless work out.

Both of your signs are considered intellectual, so you can be sure your conversations will always be fun and lively. You communicate about everything under the Sun in a precise, penetrating way with one another. Sagittarius like to go back to school for advanced degrees, and if your lover tells you he or she is sending in applications, you are likely to be very supportive of these goals.

When two signs' Suns are at ninety-degree angles to one another, as is the case with you and Sagittarius, it is considered a tense configuration. Called a square aspect, it means that challenges will always be present. Yet a square aspect suggests plenty of action and energy, so you both will be actively involved with trying to make the union work. Neither of you would sit back and just let things roll. This is a good thing. Your Sun falls in your Sagittarius' house of career fame. Sagittarius' Sun falls in your house of home and family, so each of you helps the other in different areas. You will be actively supportive of your lover's career, and in turn he or she will help you build the home life you want.

In lovemaking, you have different styles, which will show up right away. Your Sagittarius is enthusiastic, passionate, lusty and quick to get worked up. You are more reserved and slow to succumb at first, remaining coolly detached until you are sure. Then your Sagittarius will discover that once you are sure of his or her love -- truly sure -- you can let go as only an earth sign can, and cause the earth to move underneath the two of you. Neither one of you likes anything phony in love, and the game playing of romance doesn't fascinate either of you. If you find love with your Sagittarius, you will find a safe haven in his or her arms. Your loving, sexual energy can help smooth over your personality differences and make you forgive and forget the small stuff.

This isn't going to be the easiest of unions, but it can work if you take care. Virgo, don't be too critical of your lover. Let him or her inspire you with sports, games and travel. Sagittarius will lighten up your outlook. In turn, you will give your Sagittarius a solid sense of the practical side of any issue. This pairing can work if you want it badly.

I am Leo, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Leo, My Lover is Sagittarius

When you first met, you probably knew in the twinkling of an eye that Sagittarius was the one for you. Rarely have you felt such ease, such simpatico with another soul. Sagittarius' Sun lights up the sector of true love in your horoscope. (Does it get any better than that?) You both are bright and brilliant fire signs: full of enthusiasm, new ideas, creative insights, and a love for experimentation and adventure. Both of you are generous, optimistic and jovial, and your warmth extends not only to one another but also outward to the world. Your spirits are enticing and fun to be around.

Communication with one another is superb and together you and your Sagittarius are likely to get into some deep debates. Sagittarius like to delve into the unfathomable questions in life: "Why are we here?" "Where are we going?" Leos aren't usually given to considering the puzzles of human existence, but the Archer will stop the Lion in his or her tracks. You will find you like this provocative, brainy stimulation. Traveling far and wide is something else you'll do with Sagittarius, for he or she isn't really happy unless the future holds discovery of exciting new places. (Asking Sagittarius to stay home would be like asking Christopher Columbus to be content with a job as a postal clerk.) Leo, you'll be happy to hop on board to expand your horizons, too.

When night comes, the two of you shine brighter than the stars. Your lovemaking will be tender, soft, and playful at first and then progress into something powerful, wild, ravenous and passionate. You will want to tame your Centaur and tie the knot, but don't be too reckless or in a hurry. Sagittarius don't want to be fenced in, so give them lots of room to roam. Your Sagittarius will certainly come back to you like a homing pigeon.

Your only disagreements? They will come when your Sagittarius is too honest, too direct, and could therefore undermine your confidence unwittingly now and then. You thrive on praise, not criticism. Neither of you is very practical, but that can be managed too, if you both make an effort to figure out how your needs are going to be provided for realistically. You and your Sagittarius are sure the money will materialize, and somehow it does. You can be fixed in your opinions, but your Sagittarius is a mutable sign, which means he or she is more adaptable and likely to be the one to find a solution if you hit a standoff. You have lots of pride, but Sagittarius are unencumbered with pride and are freer to objectively assess situations. You'll soon find your Sagittarius' easy style suits you, and you'll love him or her for helping you keep face when you've gone too far in making a stand. When Leos paint themselves into a corner, Sagittarius can give them a way out. This may be their single most endearing quality to you, Leo.

Life with your Sagittarius should be glorious and golden. Be understanding of your differences, which, in all probability, are minor. This relationship stands to be so good for both of you -- and so much fun -- that it will be worth whatever energy you give it.

I am Cancer, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Cancer, My Lover is Sagittarius

This match is not the best idea. Sagittarius seem so worldly, cultured, and educated, so versed on a wide variety of topics, that it is no wonder you were mesmerized by their sparkling conversation. Your Sagittarius likes to philosophize about such truly important issues in life: Why do bad things happen to good people? Is there such a thing as Fate? Can prejudice really be eradicated? Phew! Sagittarius' job is to ask the hard questions. It is no wonder you are enraptured -- when Sagittarius talk, Cancers will love to listen. But while you are spiritual and intuitive, Sagittarius are inherently intellectual and analytical. Your lover could dismiss your gut point of view as irrelevant nonsense, even though you know it's not. Sagittarius can also get arrogant and tactless. When you tell them you are hurt, they can retort, "Again?" They may make you feel like a bleeding heart or a nutcase.

In bed you will discover how very different you really are. Your Sagittarius lover is all athletics and recreational fun, while you want to give and receive deeply moving, spiritual and emotional love. You can enjoy your Sagittarius lover, but I don't think you will feel ultimately nourished and cared for.

If you love them nevertheless, it is possible you have certain planets in your chart that are compatible with theirs. They are a mutable sign -- very flexible -- so you might also get your lover to understand your viewpoint in time. Keep trying.

I am Gemini, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Gemini, My Lover is Sagittarius

Gemini, you were probably seduced by the bright, inquisitive mind and stimulating questions of Sagittarius. Such an intellect is a magnet to you, without a doubt. Sagittarians are a fire sign, you are an air sign, and these two elements are a wonderful mix. You both love to travel frequently and discover new things, and since neither of you frets over dull practicalities, you could have lots of fun together. Study is also an important part of this mix, so if one or both of you wants an advanced degree, you know you can count on the support of your sweetheart. So important is the collection and dissemination of information to the two of you, that you may have met on a college campus or in another learning environment.

Both of you are talkers, but Gemini may have to get used to Sagittarius' disarming, honest-to-a-fault style. You both have lots of friends, and even though they may come from diverse fields, they mix well together. The parties thrown by the two of you are great!

In bed, you both are open to new ideas -- even making love in new places. Lovemaking will always stay fresh. You both have an equal need for variety in approach, so there is little chance you'll get bored, the one thing Gemini fears most in a relationship.

Hold on to your Sagittarius lover. This is an excellent example of how signs from the opposite ends of the zodiac (6 months apart), turn out to be perfect matches for one another!

I am Taurus, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Taurus, My Lover is Sagittarius

Fell for a Sagittarius? Don't expect this union to be all sweetness and light. You've got work to do and the question is whether or not your natural inertia will permit you to dig in and do it.

Your lover is ruled by Jupiter the planet of bountiful luck. You will discover your lover brims with optimism. In contrast, you are always preparing for a rainy day; you will be the staunch realist and the practical part of this twosome. Your lover could come to view you as dark and gloomy, and in turn, you may think your Sagittarius is a tad too willing to live life on the edge. As a fixedsign, you aren't likely to change your point of view, but since your partner is a mutablesign -- and therefore more adaptable -- he or she will probably curtail his or her spending to accommodate your need for a secure lifestyle. There is one area which will call for your understanding: Sagittarius need to travel occasionally and indulge their interest in study. Even though you won't always be able to fathom why this is so critically important, you will be likely to oblige your lover in this regard. Luckily, Taurus usually make good incomes. One of you is going to have to fully or partially front Sagittarius' expenses.

You are more commitment-minded, which is going to cause initial problems. You will be ready to exchange rings and vows sooner than your Sagittarius, for this is the sign of the bachelor (male or female). Individuality and freedom of movement are priorities to Sagittarius. Understand that your lover needs freedom to develop his or her full potential, not to two-time you or to be promiscuous. You, on the other hand, are very possessive, so be prepared for your Sagittarius to rebel against any demands you make. Press too hard with "to have and to hold" and Sagittarius will be out the door and running for the airport.

Your ways of expressing yourselves are different, too. You have always seen yourself as a basically rational and truthful person. But if you feel your opinion is going to offend someone, Venus your ruler, will make you think twice about blurting your thoughts out harshly. You believe some things are better left unsaid. However, Sagittarius almost never agree with this line of thinking, so you may often find yourself on the receiving end of a blunt remark that will take days to recover from. When you bring your feelings to your Sagittarius' attention, he or she will be amazed to learn that this comment hurt you so much. Sagittarius are blind to their harsh honesty. Just ask your lover's friends who had to develop the ego-armor to protect themselves. Because this person is your lover, you are more vulnerable and easily hurt, so beware. Sagittarius won't mend his or her ways (he or she doesn't even know what the problem is), so it may come down to figuring out just how many comments you can take in a given period, before you'll give up. This could be the single most difficult aspect about the Sagittarius personality for you to accept.

In matters of business and finance, you both groove on the same frequency. Working together on a business venture could be fun and profitable. Sagittarius lights up your house of joint resources and money gained, and you light up Sagittarius' house of daily work and service. The two of you are just made to work together on something! Sagittarius' intelligent, influential friends could provide the key you need to start this project, so don't hesitate to ask your beloved for help!

Sexually, your lover's firesign could spark the flaming love affair you've dreamt of. Sagittarius crave more than just a purely physical experience, but as an earth sign you are passionate and sensual but not particularly spiritual or romantic. Your earthiness prevents you from getting carried away, which is exactly what your Sagittarius wants. The lack of this extra depth of feeling will have your intellectual lover pondering what's up, but he or she may never really figure it out. You will be wondering why your sweetheart is scrutinizing your relationship so closely. If this should come up, realize that you should try to be a bit more romantic and sentimental.

There may be other planets in your individual horoscopes that make this union work, but on the surface, you can see there will be obstacles. Still, your lover will make you feel less set in your ways, and will bring zest and a sense of discovery to your all-too-routine lifestyle. You will make many new friends and see much more of the world. In turn, you will give your Sagittarius a solid foundation, with wise advice and far greater security. If you both want to give this a try, you have many rewards in store.

I am Aries, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Aries, My Lover is Sagittarius

Aries, adventure is your middle name. No wonder you and Sagittarius were drawn together! Whether you trek through the jungles of Africa together or decide to share a course of study, things will never get dull between you! This is a perfect match -- you both are fire signs, and neither of you is at a loss for ideas! You both are endlessly curious about the world around you.

At last, you have found someone who is as idealistic as you are, and lively, heated debates can spice up your time together. You could take up a cause and work together toward making the world better, or start a business and watch it go global. You do have the potential to create something meaningful here, and you'll be even more successful if you add a touch of practicality. This is not likely with just you and Sagittarius, but hanging out with earth signs like Virgo, Capricorn, or Taurus will help a lot.

Of the two of you, your Sagittarius is the more flexible one. This is lucky for you, since you like to get your way. It is no big deal for your lover to let you have it. Still, if you get a little too big for your britches, Sagittarius will let you know it, for they are outspoken and direct, and can bring someone down to size in a nanosecond. This may be the reason this union works so well -- communication is strong, swift and loving. Grudges are not harbored -- the air between you is always clear.

You both adore playing sports, pushing yourselves to strenuous limits, and getting a great workout. Exercise can be a great prelude to sex, and, since exertion never gets you tired, it only makes you hungry for more! Try this out the next time you want to bring your Sagittarius to a whole new level of hot! Both of you adore spontaneity, so you may never make it to your intended place of seduction -- you might not be able to wait. Wow! When the two of you finally slow down long enough to exchange kisses, you will find you groove on the same high frequency. Sex will always be liberating and exciting for you and Sagittarius.

But you may have to have a little talk about Sagittarius' inability to commit. You've fallen in love with the ultimate bachelor sign, so don't assume things will lead naturally to the alter. In time you might get him or her moving in that direction, but not right away, that's for sure. All things considered, this stance might be OK with you, because you aren't sure about losing your freedom either.

Romance your Sagittarius. You will adore his or her optimism and excitement. He or she will admire your vigorous "no boundaries" approach -- grabbing life with both hands. This lover is for you!