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I am Pisces, My Lover is Pisces

I am Pisces, My Lover is Pisces

This is a joining of souls which defies the limits of space and time. In short, your union with your Pisces can be a spiritual experience. Both of you are creative, imaginative, and spiritual in your approach to the world. You both are highly intuitive and sensitive to the feelings of others, so this too, bodes well for your future together.

The only down side is a worldly one: Neither of you thinks making lots of money is important. With two non-materialists in one household, one of you will hopefully attract a benefactor so you can feed your little ones. Without an anchor of practicality, you both could drift out to sea. Pisces' ruler is Neptune, ruling mists and gasses; clear reality is just not something either of you enjoys dealing with. It would be best if one of you has some important earth planets elsewhere in your chart to bring some realism to this union. Neither of you likes structure, so you will have a very flowing lifestyle, free from any defined routine. Creative people like you two don't work by the clock.

The pace of the modern world wears you both out, so take time away to rest and recharge near watery places. Your need for peace and harmony at home is identical, thus, you respect and defend one another's solitude. Both of you help others through charitable or philanthropic work, so you could enjoy volunteering together. While you like to spend time at home with family, both of you also like to take in a wide range of cultural activities: from art or photography exhibits to concerts and dance performances.

Sexually, you reach beautiful heights of passion you never dreamed were possible. You intuitively know what your partner is feeling, and you touch him or her in all the right places. Sex is spiritual in its intensity -- a true joining of souls.

Yes, this is a dream union if one of you can add a practical touch. This is a magical blend of two fish swimming together in the river of life.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

Your Aquarius lover seems aloof, mysterious and inaccessible. This is attractive to you in the beginning but can signal heartbreak as your relationship progresses. Aquarius is a fixed sign, and therefore sometimes stubborn, while you are a mutable sign and therefore flexible. Guess who will have to give more in this relationship?

You will enjoy Aquarius' sparkling intellect and mastery of technical subjects, but your Aquarius needs a great deal of space to explore the world. Their sharp minds make wild, idiosyncratic leaps -- at times on the level of genius. But they can also be argumentative. Your lover could be the charismatic leader of many people, but still not strong on one-to-one relationships. After a while, you may begin to ask yourself if all that glitters is really golden. Is the relationship worthy of all the sacrifices you're your Aquarius is happy to have you make? Aquarius are objective, rational, and analytical, so they will never fully understand your strongly emotional and romantic nature.

In bed, Aquarius are inventive, innovative, and actually quite thrilling. Sooner or later, though, you may doubt that good sex alone can fuel the relationship. As your lover skips off on another quest, leaving you home alone again, you may just start packing your bags. If you stay together it is because you each have an equally strong need for space, and you, Pisces, have developed a healthy self-esteem from your own accomplishments. Aquarius can add to your life by explaining the mysteries of nature, science, and technology, but they may never be able to comprehend your soul.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Pisces, My Lover is Capricorn

This is a brilliant blend of Capricorn ambition and Pisces vision. Your Capricorn lover will give you excellent financial and career advice and will be behind you 100% as you rise to new heights of achievement. Capricorns are practical and determined, and you will benefit from your lover's bottom-line focus. Capricorn's sense of humor is a joy to be around. Both of you enjoy home and family, and your Capricorn partner will be able to bring in substantial income, becoming the family's key provider.

The only thing about your lover that you aren't sure you like is his or her emphasis on the material world. Capricorns need to run with the right crowd and they have to have all the appropriate props in place: wardrobe, house, car, etc. Whether they admit it or not, Capricorns are status conscious. Pisces, on the other hand, don't have an upwardly mobile bone in their bodies. They feel keeping up with the Joneses is a waste of time. Such things are all too superficial and worldly. Pisces are much more spiritual and soulful than this. This difference between you can lead to some interesting scenarios.

Example: As a couple you get a tax windfall of $2,500. You want to buy a new camera or a special lens to further your creative photography. Or, more likely, you want to lend your friend the cash because her deadbeat ex-husband hasn't sent her any child support in months and she's broke. But your Capricorn wants to pay the membership fee for a new country club where he or she can make friends with some influential people. What to do? How can you reconcile these differing values?

Capricorn's earth element and your water element blend beautifully and make a fertile combination. The sum total of your relationship is gentle support and caring. In bed, things should be great. Capricorns are delightfully slow and thoughtful in their approach. Your Capricorn will love your imaginative style and your deeply spiritual approach to the relationship.

Can a goat and a fish find happiness? Absolutely.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Sagittarius

This can be a tough match, if only because Sagittarius are so direct, and Pisces are so diplomatic in the way they approach communication. Your Sagittarius can come across uncaring, too blunt, and even deliberately hurtful. When confronted with these feelings, Sagittarius may respond by saying, "Well, you asked, didn't you?" Arguments go around and around on this topic between Pisces and Sagittarius and can eventually kill the relationship. Sagittarius is a fire sign and Pisces a water sign; therefore this match is not compatible by classical astrological standards.

What you will appreciate, though, is your Sagittarius' love of education and his or her penchant for deep philosophical discussion of a wide range of issues concerning the human condition. You will also adore your partner's need to travel far and wide. However, your tendency to worry will bewilder your optimistic Sagittarius, and you'll wonder how he or she can maintain such an outlook in the face of terrible odds. This could irritate you, as will Sagittarius' criticism of your flaws.

Your partner has an athletic bent, something which Pisces lack. Perhaps your Sagittarius can interest you in working out at the gym, so you can shape up and get fit. Or you could interest your partner in more gentle-to-the-body sports, such as swimming. Anything too strenuous or competitive will probably turn you off. Perhaps you two will agree not to participate in sports together but to do other things instead.

Sexually, Sagittarius are playful and humorous (a plus), but your lover may lack the emotional intensity you crave. If your Sagittarius doesn't make less-than-funny jokes during lovemaking like, "Am I dreaming or are you gaining weight?" you might be able to continue the relationship. Just be prepared to let some of the typical Sagittarius commentary roll off your back.

Sagittarius is known as the bachelor sign, so be forewarned. Freedom is very important to Sagittarius. Sagittarius have a deep psychological need to avoid having to "report" to someone else, and this is what makes them worry about commitment. In fact, they're often quite loyal. Pisces is not always into commitment either, so this relationship may work for you. On the plus side, both of you are mutable signs, which means you are flexible people at heart. Intellectually, you really hit it off with Sagittarius. This match takes work, because you must turn the other the other cheek when your partner becomes too blunt. If your union succeeds, it is because you have been willing to put in a great deal of effort.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Pisces, My Lover is Scorpio

Hold your Scorpio lover close -- this person is a true soul mate. Scorpios share Pisces' depth of feeling and emotion, and both signs rely on intuition. Scorpio lights up your house of higher thought, so together you can explore the serious questions in life, such as: Why are we here? What is the role of religion? Is it possible to have more than one true love? Scorpio is especially spiritual, something Pisces appreciate.

Scorpios will be loyal and discreet -- another plus to Pisces -- and their feelings of love go awesomely deep. Sexually, this can be a thrilling match, for Scorpio likes the fact that Pisces expect a near-religious experience from making love. Scorpios can get into jealous rages, however, so if you aren't sure you want this person to be your one-and-only, delay sex as long as you can. Once in bed with a Scorpio, he or she will expect total fidelity from you from that day forward.

Your intense and mysterious lover needs privacy -- something you can relate to well. Getting away to quiet places together often is a good idea. Scorpio is a water sign like Pisces, so you share the same element. Like you, Scorpios often have to return to places near water to renew themselves and prepare again to take on the world.

This person is intense, and sometimes he or she can even get a little paranoid. If your Scorpio seems withdrawn, gently press them to talk to you. Scorpios sometimes don't exactly know what it is that is making them churn inside. Expressing his or her disjointed feelings may help your lover make sense of the situation. However, don't expect getting your Scorpio to talk to be an easy task; opening up a Scorpio is like uprooting a giant redwood tree. Yet Pisces' delicate sensitivity always lets them know when to press forward and when to hold back.

Scorpios are a confident sign and will urge you to stand up for yourself. They go crazy when they see others take advantage of their Pisces. Financial shrewdness is also a strong asset of Scorpios, something Pisces will benefit from learning. Your union with Scorpio therefore, will bolster the sides of you that need strength.

If you are up to Scorpio's intensity this can be an invigorating pairing. Scorpio will expand your entire spectrum of feeling. My bet is you'll love it, and your Scorpio will too.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

Libra is ruled by gentle Venus and therefore your lover is refined, polished, sophisticated and elegant. This personality profile mixes well with Pisces, even though this is not a classic astrological pairing. Libra is an air sign and Pisces is water, so if you play your cards right, you will have a bubbly union.

Libras are very social and like to go out all the time. But Pisces are self-reliant and need to spend time alone in reflection and meditation; Libras think Pisces spend far too much time alone. If you are willing to respect and go along with each other's needs, this could be a fun match. Libras adore cultural activities and fine restaurants, which will get you out and about. Libras know the hottest clubs and like to dress fashionably. Pisces base their satisfaction on emotional and spiritual contentment rather than on material gain or social competition, so they can take or leave Libras' gregarious lifestyle. For example, Pisces might like to dabble in the cocktail circuit now and then and will even benefit from all the contacts a Libra brings into his or her life, but Pisces may not want to spend as much time out and about as a Libra. After a long day, a cozy night at home reading or watching TV to unwind sounds good to Pisces.

Another possible hitch in the relationship from your perspective is the Libra tendency to over-analyze things. You trust your emotions more than Libras trusts theirs, so conflicts could arise when your Libra asks you to justify your position -- how do you explain your gut instincts to someone so supremely logical? Also, Libras can be a little bossy, but this is asserted in a charming, diplomatic way. Pisces read others' motives perfectly, and although you can see through Libras' veil of gentility, you appreciate their effort not to be too brash about pursuing their own agenda. Thus, you often let them have their own way. If you disagree, you will be sensitive to one another's positions, and diplomatic Libra will likely not hurt your feelings. Libra, symbolized by the scales, cares about finding a fair solution, something strongly in your favor.

Happily, Libra lights up your house of physical love and things could be hot, hot, hot in bed. Pisces are not likely to let the physical part of your relationship overtake the other areas. You need an emotional partner in life, and if your bubbly Libra can slow down long enough to give you the nurturing you need, this could be a great match.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Virgo

I am Pisces, My Lover is Virgo

Virgo comes six months away from Pisces in the zodiac. Such a placement means your lover will either complete you or compete with you. So Pisces, it's all or nothing with your Virgo. Virgos can provide some badly needed structure and a strong sense of organization to Pisces' sometimes scattered, busy life. Virgos are amazed by Pisces' creativity and loves to be around it. This match can be described as: Left Brain (Virgo) meets Right Brain (Pisces). Virgos are talented with precision, discriminating taste, and verbal ability. Pisces have vision, intuition, and the ability to read gestures, moods, body language and symbols. Each sign has what the other one lacks, but there could be problems.

Virgos are idealists and perfectionists. Since they see the world with crystal clarity, they notice flaws that everyone else has missed; therefore, Virgos are felt to be highly critical. Pisces see beauty and acceptance in everything, so Virgo's heavy criticism can be hurtful to gentle Pisces. A self-protective Pisces response could be a silent shrug of the shoulders, which Virgos find maddening. A Virgo's earthy practicality could sometimes seem too intense and real for Pisces to bear, but a little dose of reality could benefit Pisces in the long run; Virgos get concerned that Pisces are too impressionable.

Virgos' need to be productive is strong, and they will worry about deadlines and work still to be done. This can put a damper on their sexuality, but Pisces know how to charm and distract dutiful Virgos. Once in the proper mood, Virgos can be ardent lovers -- this sign rarely does anything half-heartedly. Luckily, your Virgo's talent for communication only makes the sex better.

This is either a dream match or a dreadful match -- love could last a lifetime or just a few months, and you will know fairly soon which category you fall in! Sensitivity to each other's needs will help make love stay around.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Leo

I am Pisces, My Lover is Leo

Leo is a highly creative sign and so is Pisces, so don't underestimate how dynamic this match can be. You like Leos' generosity, strength and moxie, and they adore your gentle sensitivity and vision. Together, these signs can make an amazing contribution to the world, especially in terms of the arts and literature. Leos can inspire the courage that Pisces need to develop within themselves. In return, Pisces give Leos a lesson in subtlety -- something the Lion often misses.

Leos, however, need plenty of adoring attention. Pisces are so self-sacrificing that your Leo might take advantage of your Pisces' good nature. Pisces are a mutable and therefore a flexible sign. But Leos are a fixed sign, and can sometimes seem arrogantly stubborn. Pisces give more than Leos do, yet Leos are loyal and very generous. Your Leo will shower you with gifts and frequent nights on the town, so life will certainly be fun. Leos like to spend money and Pisces don't really notice material things, so neither is likely to have an urge to save -- which is something to watch!

Sexually, Leos want to be adored and Pisces are often happy to comply. Pisces, the more low-key and submissive sign, enjoy a powerful and confident partner, while Leos will love the romantic rituals, which attend to the tiniest erogenous zones, imaginative Pisces can create.

Fire sign Leo and water sign Pisces are not a classic match. The problem is that Leos like to get their own way, something Pisces don't care about much. What's wrong? Too often Pisces' point of view will be disregarded. Not wanting to make a big deal over every issue, Pisces can lose their individuality in this match. Sticking up for their feelings will help Pisces remain equal partners. So be prepared to make a little bit of an effort with your Leo!

I am Pisces, My Lover is Cancer

I am Pisces, My Lover is Cancer

This is a match made in heaven. Both of you are water signs, so you both feel emotion on a very deep level. You have a delicate touch with one another's feelings, and would never be insensitive if criticizing the other. Cancer's need for home and family is comforting and satisfying for Pisces. Your need for creativity and self-expression will inspire your Cancer lover, and you will share a magical blend of romance, sentimentality and enchantment.

Cancer and Pisces will create a private, safe haven together against the bustling world. Since stressful, busy times could bruise you both, you will find comfort together by taking time out near water, which you both love. Vacations with one another to locales where there is a beautiful view of the sea or a lake to paddle in could be the way to block out everyday cares, refresh your relationship, and take time to enjoy one another.

Cancers tend to be wise with money and like to invest, something that doesn't interest Pisces. They also know how to find bargains better than any of the other signs. Your Cancer could be good for your financial future!

Cancers are usually more moody than Pisces. At times their sulkiness could get you down, especially if you feel you may have slighted them in some way you can't quite figure out. Keep in mind that Cancers are delayed reactors -- they will respond to incidents that took place days or even weeks earlier. This could be the source of your confusion, Pisces. Getting a Cancer to talk when he or she is out of sorts will help dissolve the problem. You will have to gently pry open your Cancer's shell, though, which is not always easy. Intuitive Pisces feel their lover's pain as if it's their own, so Pisces know when to inquire and when to leave Cancer alone. Both signs are excellent listeners, shoulders to cry on, and sounding boards for advice. This strengthens the bond between you two enormously.

Sexually, you both intuitively know what the other one needs and wants at a given moment -- you each know what the other is feeling. Because of this intuitive link, Pisces and Cancer raise lovemaking to a truly high art.

You both are water signs, and water cleanses, refreshes, purifies, and stirs the emotions. This match can produce the kind of love great literature is written about.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Gemini

I am Pisces, My Lover is Gemini

You are a water sign and your Gemini is air. Air and water make bubbles, so this could be a lively pairing, as long as you take care that certain things don't sabotage your love. This is not a classic astrological pairing.

Gemini need plenty of stimulating conversation and lots of variety. Gemini also like to be out of the house a great deal, whether they're seeing friends on weekend jaunts, or checking out new exhibits, plays, or cyber cafes in town. When Gemini aren't out, they are home reading one of their dozens of periodicals and books. As a Pisces, you may become exhausted just thinking about all this frenetic activity. That much interaction with people could frazzle you. If your Gemini can understand why you don't want to go together to the beach this weekend -- because you want to stay home and work on your manuscript, pottery, painting, whatever -- then things will be fine.

When confronted with a problem, Gemini like to analyze and intellectualize. Pisces are guided by their feelings, though, and will rely on instinct. Sometimes facts might not tell the whole story, so don't feel you have to justify your intuition to your Gemini. There is no one right way to answer life's questions. Anyway, time will prove your hunches are almost always right.

This can be a stimulating match, because a Gemini will bring a world to you that you would never see otherwise. You both are mutable signs, so you bend and sway together when the wind blows and are not likely to be brittle or break.

Sexually, Gemini need to hear loving words prior to and during lovemaking so be as creative and talkative as you like. They will adore you for reading erotic passages from a book to them in bed. You will teach your lover to get in touch with his or her deepest feelings and to start to understand the hidden symbols and codes of the Universe, rather than read only what can be seen on the surface.

This combination has the possibility of being an exciting relationship, full of creativity, ideas and information, new friends, and places to go. It's worth a try!

I am Pisces, My Lover is Taurus

I am Pisces, My Lover is Taurus

Lucky for you, Taurus are sensuous, earthy, practical, and great in bed. They adore your nurturing, visionary qualities and are inspired by your love of helping others.

One small problem may be that Taurus are quite materialistic and you most definitely are not. An earth sign, Taurus like to have and hold the fruits of their labors. Pisces get the greatest joy from creativity and philanthropy, so you might not understand why your Taurus instinctively amasses wealth, objects and toys. However, Taurus' drive to build a good nest egg will be good for your future, for Pisces don't usually place much emphasis on such things.

For Pisces, love is ethereal and spiritual. For a Taurus, being in love means making love -- a lot. Taurus emphasize the power of touch but do not necessarily have a strong spiritual experience when making love. This puzzles you, for your approach is so different. But as long as you feel your partner loves you deeply, and this is not just a "roll in the hay" for him or her, your relationship will work out fine. Casual sex offends your deep sensibilities and snuffs out your spiritual ardor. But Taurus take their time making love, enjoying the experience with all their senses, so compatibility could be very strong between you. You may even enjoy their possessive streak - "to have and to hold" is something Taurus take literally.

Taurus will remain loyal, steadfast, reliable, and true blue. As a Pisces, this may be the one quality you value over all others.

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

Your Aries lover likes to take the lead, and this could be fine with you, Pisces. You like your lover's spunk and can-do attitude. Aries like your vision and sensitivity.

In classic astrological terms, this is not considered an ideal match -- Pisces is a water sign, Aries is fire. In the literal sense, water puts out fire. You may find your lover too self-absorbed, reckless or impetuous. Aries are not known for their ability to reflect on life's deeper meaning or even to think before they act, which could annoy you. You want your Aries to plan more; your Aries wants you to stop worrying. Yet Aries are more reality-driven than you are, and your partner may reveal a great deal of truth to you. The Aries direct way of speaking could hurt your feelings -- Aries have little time for diplomacy and empathy, which can make trouble for a sensitive Pisces.

Sexually, Aries are inventive, exciting lovers. But since they regard sex as mainly recreation, while you feel that it is the ultimate expression of true love, you may not be happy. Be aware that, even in love, Aries have such strong pioneer instincts, they can be fickle, or even promiscuous, which will bring the end of your union. New sensations and experiences are important to Aries, so you can bewitch them by using your rich Pisces imagination and talent for play.

If you can get over those obstacles, this match will be a happy one. You will like their fresh ideas and enthusiasm, and they will respect your caring, sympathetic nature.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

Aries are clever, enthusiastic, and sparkling with new ideas--a sure hit with Aquarius. Since Aries are always starting new ventures, they're never clinging vines, something you appreciate in a lover. You're an air sign and Aries is fire, so the pairing of your two signs produces terrific energy. Both of you value honesty and open communication, something that will keep your relationship going over the long haul.

In bed, your Aries is confident, inventive, and not intensely emotional (and neither are you). Nor is either of you possessive or prone to jealousy. Since you are ruled by the innovative planet Uranus, you value spontaneity and innovation, and will greatly enjoy the sparks that can fly between you and your Aries lover!

If you love an Aries, continue. Life will be fun, that's for sure. You value objectivity and rationality in matters of the heart, so you will find great compatibility with your Aries lover.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Taurus

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Taurus

This is not an easy match, unless you have some extra earth signs in your horoscope to compensate. Both Taurus and Aquarius are fixed signs, a tough combination because neither of you is likely to budge from your position. Pure stubbornness could kill your union.

There are other difficulties: Sexually, Taurus is a very tactile sign that needs reassurance and frequent demonstrations of love, whereas you don't need lots of affectionate displays. Taurus are creatures of comfort -- sensuous and deeply sexual in orientation -- and although you enjoy sex, it isn't the be-all and end-all of your life. After the initial passion of your relationship cools off, you could feel your Taurus demands too much from you. Taurus are also prone to being possessive, something you don't appreciate because you value your space. You have your projects, your experiments, and your goals, and you may find a Taurus won't understand your focus on the world outside of this relationship. Passive resistance is a Bull's specialty, and this could put more pressure on your relationship when your Taurus finds no other way to get your attention.

Though Taurus' strong practicality, reliability, and steadfastness may have been what drew you to one another initially, these qualities may not continue to impress you later on. You may find life with a Taurus boring. Taurus have a strong conservative streak, and you -- a true futurist -- are just the opposite. In politics, you may not see eye to eye.

Furthermore, your lover may not understand your desire to innovate and your conceptual take on issues; Taurus don't spend time analyzing things like you do. In terms of lifestyle, Taurus like to stay home and surround themselves with all kinds of comforts, while you need to go out and get stimulated by the big, bad world.

If you love a Taurus, it is obvious that you have come to enjoy the very best Taurus traits. In turn, your lover has apparently learned to enjoy and encourage your individuality, your liberal views, and your need to help others. It has been said that Aquarius belong to the world, not to one person; his or her role is to lead others and light the path to a better society. If your relationship is working, apparently you have found that rare Taurus that will push you to reach for the stars, even if it means giving up some time with them.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Gemini

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Gemini

This sparkling, zany paring could not get any better. Both of you are intellectual air signs, so conversation, good books, travel, jokes, parties, a rich social life, and a host of other activities are sure to spice up your time together. Ask an Aquarius why he or she married a Gemini and the answer is quick and easy: 'For fun!' Good answer. One wise psychologist said more couples should forget all reasons to get married except one: In the end, is your time together fun? This psychologist would approve of you and your Gemini!

Communication between you two is so superb that it knocks you out, and you both often need to scoot out of town together to chill out. Both of you have quick minds and are fast-paced thinkers -- others sometimes have trouble keeping up with you! You have many friends that you enjoy introducing to your sweetheart, and thus, your circle of friends and acquaintances will widen considerably with this union. But you'll be best friends, too.

In bed, you'll adore the playful, inventive qualities of Gemini; their penchant for talking dirty in your most intimate moments will drive you wild. An open relationship might appeal to you, but be careful -- one of you could get hurt, much to the surprise of both. Gemini is up-to-the-minute on trends, but too liberal a sexual situation is probably not a good idea for either of you. Neither of you is deeply sentimental (unless a water sign is placed strikingly in one your charts), so you don't need nights of moonlight and roses to get in the mood. But remember to schedule a few enchanted evenings anyway, just for the thrill of it!

Your relationship has the promise of a four-star, solid gold union, so hold on to one another. The trust you share, your mutual respect, and your enjoyment of being together can stand the test of time.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Cancer

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Cancer

Can Cancer, an emotional water sign, find true love with Aquarius, a rational, objective air sign? Not easily. You will find Cancer's need to stay at home difficult. Long after they have attended to their children's needs, they want to lavish even more time on family, and this could drive you to distraction. Just one more Sunday with your in-laws and you'll scream! Cancers will want to know why you aren't more interested in maintaining your roots and you will ask why they're so attached to the past.

Cancers need lots of attention -- something you don't often have time to give -- for your sign usually directs your energy out toward the world at large. If you love a Cancer, direct it outward to the world during the day, but save quality time for your tender Cancer in the evenings. They will honor you with their fidelity and will nurture you tenderly and compassionately. They will also cook you amazing dinners, create and maintain all kinds of fun family traditions, and provide you with the old-fashioned kind of home life you didn't think still existed. Be careful, because your unsentimental nature is very different from your romantic partner's, and you could unconsciously hurt your Cancer's feelings. The hardest part of this relationship is maybe having him or her plead with you to spend more time at home.

If you want this union to last, you will have to work at it. Your sensibilities are quite different, but if you want it to happen, it will!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Leo

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Leo

Leo is 180 degrees away from Aquarius in the zodiac, indicating that you two will either snap together like two jigsaw puzzle pieces or else kill each other. There is no in-between! My bet is you will find an ideal mate with Leo. Fire sign Leos like the air element you provide to the relationship, for it makes their fire burn brighter. You like Leo's attachment to luxury and culture, even though you wouldn't indulge nearly as much on yourself if you were left to your own devices.

Leo's generosity and sense of fun is good for you both, and your partner admires your strong intellectual logic. One problem is that you are both fixed signs. This may mean that if you hold opposing views, you may attempt to stare each other down and wind up at an impasse. Unless one of you develops some flexibility, this ride together could go nowhere.

Leo's are rather patrician, and think of themselves as having attained some sort of social status that maybe they haven't quite earned. Social classes and snobbery drive democratic Aquarius up the wall, so if this gets out of control, it could be something that has to be discussed honestly. You march to a different drummer, and approval from others is something you have never needed. Understand, though, that Leos need respect and admiration from others nearly as much as they need oxygen. Leos will never be able to give this up, so don't even try to change them. All you can do is try to keep their expectations realistic -- with your objective point of view this shouldn't be too hard.

Leos' egos are strong, and they will need lots of attention from you, which could be another problem. It is not that you have a big ego too -- you don't -- but it's the time that it takes to cater to their needs that could be troublesome. You lose yourself in your projects for extended periods, much to your partner's dismay.

Sexually, your Leo is expressive and warm, bringing all kinds of luxuries into the bedroom to coax you into the mood, using fragrant flowers and the best champagne. Your Leo has a playful, dramatic style, which will be fun. Be aware, however, that your need to be a bit aloof will not sit well with a Leo. Leos feel that passion is one of the best parts of life, and they expect not only your presence but your enthusiastic participation, too. Here you may benefit from your association, for Leos are right. Sometimes you are a tad too serious and work-obsessed!

You both have an adventurous view of the world, so things could be good between you, despite a few bumps along the way. If you can dream it, you can make it happen. Do some creative fantasizing, Aquarius!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Virgo

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Virgo

Virgo is precise and orderly, but Aquarius is quite comfortable in semi-chaos. Your sign rules genius and creativity, but in the creative process there is waste and discord. This can be hard for your lover to accept.

The hardest part of the Aquarius/Virgo union is that it lacks romantic abandon and sexual passion, from both your side and theirs. Virgo is ruled by cerebral, objective Mercury, and you are ruled by objective, idiosyncratic Uranus. You are an air sign and Virgo is earth, so while you may initially like their practical, "rooted" point of view, it is doubtful that this will continue throughout the years. Luckily, Virgo will not demand too much time from you, for they are busy people too -- Virgo is the original workaholic. You will appreciate their industriousness, but they won't understand your need to shock, upstage, or otherwise assert your idiosyncratic streak. Virgos are fairly conservative and need some level of social approval.

The success potential here is a really tough call, but like any other relationship, you can make it work if you give it an honest try. Perhaps you both have other planets in your charts that will make your relationship sparkle, which could be the case. Virgo admires Aquarius' service to the community, their mastery of highly technical subjects, their vision of the future, and their charismatic leadership style. In turn, Aquarius respects Virgo's no-nonsense, practical outlook and productivity. Virgo is more flexible than you are -- they roll with the punches more readily. Your Virgo lover could help you keep track of all the details so that almost nothing slips between the cracks. When couples are busy, one of the partner's organizational ability can be a great asset. If you develop a measure of fame in your life, Virgo would be your ideal behind-the-scenes manager (where they are happiest) in order to organize your schedule, meet with accountants, negotiate the finer points of your contract, set a realistic budget, traffic your orders, and suggest ways in which you can fix the flaws in your plan. Don't underestimate the power of having a Virgo on your side.

Take your time if you are dating a Virgo, and make sure you like the fit. If none of the down sides of this relationship seem to apply, you apparently have planets in your charts that override this Sun sign outlook. In that case, move forward with confidence!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

This is a sassy, exciting pairing of two similar souls, sure to be a hit. You both enjoy lots of social activity, and neither would expect the other to wait at home in the traditional sense. In fact, ordering dinner in several times a week will be the only way to handle the busy schedule you both lead! Your coupling is thoroughly modern.

But even the best relationship demands that the partners accommodate each other. In your case, be mindful that Libras care about social acceptance, while you don't give a fig about it. Ruled by idiosyncratic Uranus, Aquarius' job in life is to press forward and to make all kinds of new discoveries. In doing so, you will run up against the Establishment at times. This frightens Libra, for this Venus-ruled sign's job is to bring opposing forces together. They want to be popular and will go out of their way to bring harmony to relationships. You can see how your roles differ; in many ways, Aquarius is a sign of extremes. Libra's friends are likely to be in the arts, yours in the sciences; nevertheless, your friends mix well. And Libras entertain beautifully, so your parties would be much-talked-about affairs!

Libras like to be married, but Aquarius like space and freedom; commitment doesn't come quickly or easily. Sexually, you link up in a heavenly way, with plenty of fun, wit and experimentation. You will enjoy Libra's use of perfume or cologne (female or male, this sign is a fragrance wizard) and their refined, cultured personal style. Libra takes good care of their physical appearance well into old age. Your Libra will enjoy your quixotic and playful approach to sex.

Your Libra is the romantic of the two of you, so let him or her take the lead for some starlit evenings. Physically, you are on the same plane, but you aren't as emotional as a Scorpio, a Pisces, or a Cancer. However, your Sun sign lights up Libra's house of true love, so the bond remains very strong here, even though to the outside world you may appear to have a cool, detached, and analytical relationship. Your Libra lights up your house of deep philosophical thought and distant travel.

This match gets a four-star rating. If things go wrong, it isn't because you aren't suited to one another. Both of you are air signs -- like-elements get along great together. In your case, you both know how to communicate clearly, objectively, and you share an overriding quest for truth. You will have a rich, busy, and noisy life together. Sounds like fun!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Scorpio

This is not an easy match at all -- you are so fundamentally different. Aquarius have lots of friends but use a light touch with all relationships and need plenty of space. Scorpios need privacy and have a few friends with whom they share intense emotional loyalty and devotion. You two come at life from different directions. Aquarius says to Scorpio, "Why do you need to get inside my head so deeply?" You need some detachment, because you feel safer that way. To get too close is to get dependent, or to lose some of your sense of self. Scorpio says to Aquarius, "Why can't you let down your guard? Why can't you get in touch with your deepest emotions and allow yourself to be vulnerable with me?" You probably fell in love with Scorpio's mystery and their incredible emotional depth (even if you can't begin to match it).

Scorpio lights up your solar house of fame, so your Scorpio lover will be very good for your career; they have shrewd advice for you, since they are highly instinctive. Because they are so smart financially, they can give you solid advice in these matters, too. When you are going into any kind of negotiation, ask your Scorpio for help; here again, they know exactly what to do. If you fell in love with your agent, manager, or other advisor who helped you become successful, he or she might be a Scorpio. Marriage is different, however, for you must both be able to reach the same emotional base.

Sexually, Scorpio will want to experience the kind of passion operas are written about, but you aren't always sure you can scale those Wagnerian heights. It may seem like so much work that you get bewildered by Scorpio's expectations. Scorpio could find you too cool and detached, or worse, discover you're thinking about other things right when he or she wants you to be focused on lovemaking! Scorpios are also quite possessive and sometimes jealous, and you've got plenty of friends of both sexes. As long as your Scorpio doesn't feel threatened, this should be okay with them.

I have seen incompatible signs link up beautifully, as long as both parties are aware of what the other expects and needs. Ask your partner what he or she wants most, and listen closely. This is one relationship you are going to have to work hard at.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Sagittarius

This is a juicy, sweet relationship, and it should get even better in time. Both of you share a bright, idealistic view of a world where anything is possible. You are concerned with social issues, new technology, and planning for the future, and your lover is oriented toward learning and the educational process. Sagittarius' role is to take the knowledge of mankind and make sense out of it. You are sure to have some lively debates with a Sagittarius! If you disagree, neither of you gets overly upset; you both respect individuality. Generally, you are the more fixed in your ways, while your Sagittarius is much more flexible -- boding well for your future together.

Sagittarius need to travel and you like your time alone too, so you may agree to take separate vacations at times. Careful: Out of sight could mean out of mind. Neither of you finds commitment appealing, so you might date casually for a long time before you decide to tie the knot. You'll both need assurance that you won't be sacrificing your independence.

Sexually, you are a near-perfect match. But hopefully, your Sagittarius partner won't be as honest about the less-than-ideal stuff in bed as he or she will invariably be about what's great ("Well, I've had better." Ugh!). Your lover is a fire sign and you are air, and therefore highly compatible, but the Sagittarius directness can be hard to take for any sign. They can be surprised at the taken-aback reactions to their open commentary. Your Sagittarius will respond that you wanted to know, didn't you, and will let you know exactly how he or she feels. The honesty-to-a-fault of Sagittarius takes getting used to. But you and your Sagittarius aren't the types to let your emotions run riot or hold grudges, so somehow you'll work things out.

Two signs apart in the zodiac form a "sextile," which is considered an opportunity aspect in astrology. This means your lover will help create opportunities for you to do things of value. Specifically, your Sagittarius lights up your house of friendship and social causes, so he or she could be a strong helpmate in an altruistic quest of yours. Certainly, your Sagittarius will bring you plenty of new contacts and a close friend or two. He or she may also urge you to become a member of certain organizations that ultimately turn out to be good for you.

Neither of you is domestic, so if you can hire help for weekly maintenance, do it early in your relationship. Someone has to be minding the store, and with your schedules, it can't be you or your partner! So if you are in love with a Sagittarius, press forward, Aquarius. You've got a good match here.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Capricorn

This match will work well only if you have some important water or earth planets somewhere in your chart. This is because your sign follows Capricorn in the zodiac. The sign that immediately follows another sign is very different in many ways, because it makes up for what the prior sign lacks. Capricorns ask Aquarius why they put so much emphasis on future planning. Capricorn rules history and the past, and so your lover enjoys old movies, browsing for antiques, and reflecting on the museum dinosaur collection. You, on the other hand, are anxious to get back to your web surfing, or over to your local electronics store to look at the new and faster computers. Capricorns would rather spend their money on a rare document or an old, valuable quilt; your orientations are very different.

Still, this does not doom the relationship as long as you enjoy your differences. You probably enjoy the fact that your lover is rooted in reality and is practical and hard working. Capricorns care about their reputations, but at times their social consciousness will irritate you. Aquarius don't try to keep up with the Joneses, but your lover might think your blase attitude isn't quite respectful. They will enjoy your freewheeling thinking, though (especially because it is so alien to them) and your experimental approach to life.

Capricorns are basically more materialistic than Aquarius, but this could be helpful to you, since your partner will have the patience to set up your retirement portfolio and make it grow. You may not see the need for all this now, but later in life you'll be happy for it. If your situation is such that the Capricorn depends on you to support him or her for a period of time (say, after your children are born), you could experience the most difficulty; your Capricorn is ambitious and will want to see progress in your career, both in status and salary. You are not entirely self-oriented -- your role is to work for the good of the organization -- and your plans tend to be long-term. So a Capricorn's influence could be good or bad, depending on how you feel about the input. Your lover may have to learn to live without immediate gratification from your career.

Sexually, earth signs like Capricorn are sensual and tactile. You are less so, so you will either get with the program or hear some complaints. Still, I think you will find ways to satisfy your partner, because you receive information and feedback so well. You're a good communicator, and you approach sex like anything else in your life -- as something that can be analyzed and improved. Aquarius is the sign of the objective scientist who draws up a hypothesis and then observes carefully, taking in data and finding out if the thesis can be proven. This approach may be too cool for Capricorn, who aches for you to show more animal passion!

We are all more than our Sun sign -- the stars suggest, but do not dictate, how we act. Love and understanding can override most problems, so know where the difficulties are (not always an easy task) and face them head-on. Use your magical power of communication, Aquarius. You can make this relationship work well if you try.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aquarius

Wow! What a combination! Two very unique individuals paired off in love! If you have fallen for another Aquarius, it is because you see so much of yourself in him or her. I feel your natural respect for others winning here, and thus, this match has a strong chance for success.

Both of you have strong opinions and views on life, and both of you can be stubborn at times. But none of this seems to faze either of you. You and your lover want to hear a wide variety of views, and you value each other's analytical streak. Tolerance comes easily to you both.

You may decide to volunteer together for a worthy cause or political party, for both of you want to do something good for society. Whether it is getting the lead paint out of the local elementary school or campaigning for freedom of speech, neither of you can sit back and watch people (or the planet) suffer and decline. You both also feel strongly about human rights and are likely to be activists in this area as well. This pairing could create the kind of bond that sets the world on fire the way Evita and Juan Peron did.

Sexually, the only problem may be that you both are such good friends that passion could die down too quickly. You will have to keep fanning those fires to keep sex lively. Aquarius never hesitate to buy interesting new toys to liven things up (whereas other signs would be mortified to be seen, even by total strangers, walking into those shops), so use your lively, experimental attitude and you'll keep your lover enchanted.

In summary, your relationship rates an enthusiastic A+!

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Pisces

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Pisces

Signs that are next to one another in the zodiac are very different from one another, making up for what the previous one lacks. So be aware, your Pisces lover isn't anything like you, yet this could be the major reason you're attracted to him or her. How you fare is going to depend on you.

Pisces' capability for close relationships and their compassion with those around them may have led you to them. You both are sensitive to suffering, but you express it differently. Pisces will help others on a one-on-one basis, because they are more private people. You, on the other hand, might not spend the afternoon grocery shopping for an elderly neighbor, but you'll set up an organization to help all the elderly folks in town. You both have different approaches, but sensitivity is your common denominator.

You are likely to encounter turbulence with Pisces over your different levels of emotional intensity. Pisces gives all to the relationship, so if you get involved with your work and you don't call when you say you will, or you seem preoccupied, your Pisces will be upset.

Sex is important to Pisces too, but they want it to be a mystical experience -- a meeting of two souls. You may or may not be up to this expression, for your approach is more affectionate and recreational than spiritual. Equally important to Pisces are your expressions of praise, attention, reassurance, and general pride in him or her before you ever get them into bed. In case you think you can get away with faking your feelings, think again -- Pisces is a master of reading body language. If you aren't willing to give your partner what they crave, Pisces won't be in this relationship long. Pisces feel everyone has the right to ardent passion from their lover, not just once in a while but every time. This can be fantastic or dreadful news, depending on your personality. Be aware: They're not kidding.

But let's say you are more than willing to work with your partner to give them what they want most. You will have a loyal, caring partner who will encourage you every step of the way. You will be amazed how your Pisces seems to read what you're thinking -- many are downright psychic. Individuals who are lucky enough to have a Pisces behind them often scale heights of fame and fortune. Once a Pisces believes in you, there isn't anything he or she wouldn't do or sacrifice on your behalf.

If they are taken advantage of, Pisces will continue to stay, and give, for a while. Then suddenly, the Fish's self-preservation impulse kicks in, and at that point the Fish swims away, without warning, never to return. This sudden change is often the biggest shock for Aquarius. Although they generally expect the unexpected from life, there are no warning signals at all from a betrayed Pisces. Pisces does not like confrontation. Rather than fight, they leave. Be aware of this tendency and put your considerable skills of communication to good use before this happens.

Remember to be kind, gentle, and above all warm to your Pisces. The natural Aquarius coolness can be hurtful. This match is a draw -- win or lose, it's up to you!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Pisces

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Pisces

This mixture of earth (you) and water (your lover) could be the start of something great! Reel in your Fish, for he or she has hidden assets you will understand in time. Capricorn, you are a "no-nonsense" person; you pride yourself in your ability to come up with ideas that have a solid base in reality. Your lover, on the other hand, seems to be all dreams and emotions, at least on the surface.

In a way you're right. But where you go wrong is characterizing their intuition as "wacky." You will discover it has an amazing success rate! Pisces will come to you with hunches, prophetic dreams, and ideas with no particular basis in fact or particular reason to be true. Yet strangely, Pisces are almost always right.

What you truly don't understand is Pisces' lack of materialism. Pisces may not only seem different from you, but different from your friends, too. Your ambition is to buy a beautiful new car, an expensive piece of jewelry, or a membership in a country club. But when you talk about it, your Pisces just shrugs and says, "Okay, you could do that if you want" and walks away without enthusiasm. But tell them that you're planning to be rich enough someday to build a library in a poor neighborhood or add a wing onto a hospital, and you'll have his or her total attention. Pisces want to relieve suffering in others. They also need to create, so perfect gifts for them are the tools to make this easier, like a camera, a laptop computer (for their stories and poems), or paints and canvases.

Pisces are also much more romantic than you, and you will enjoy your Pisces tender attentions. Tread easily when you speak to your Pisces, and always be sure to build him or her up a little; Pisces often lack self-confidence and can always use a pat on the back. The reason for this is that they are not very self-aware. Continually focusing on others makes them lose track of their own considerable talents.

When making love, you should groove right on the same level. Pisces expect sex to be the ultimate non-verbal expression of true love. If you don't care deeply for them and really just want a roll in the hay, they'll know it in a nanosecond and swim away. But if you are sincere, you can take this relationship to levels you have never before experienced. Pisces inhabit a world that is ethereal and spiritual. If they bring you to their world, you may never want to come back.

How do I rate this pairing? A "9" or a "10"! Go for it!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aquarius

Do opposites attract? Often. Do they stay together? Sometimes, but in this case your differences might be too great. The outcome of this match will depend on what you see and what you get.

Are you appalled or thrilled by your Aquarius mate's anti-establishment views and penchant for rocking the boat? While this may seem exciting at first, Capricorns are traditionalists at heart. Aquarius have none of your natural caution about ripping apart the status quo. At times your lover's interests will seem too trendy and flighty, like he or she is always ready to pick up the movement of the moment. Even if your lover isn't like that, Aquarius are a great deal cooler in temperament than you are. Their view is one of objectivity, not emotion. In time you may long for someone more stable, demonstrative and cuddly -- something your lover may never be.

There are other differences. In your heart of hearts, you are class-conscious; you want to live in the right neighborhood, wear the right clothes, and send your kids to the right school. Aquarius aren't into this at all, for inside they have the most democratic of hearts, and they live a life to match their beliefs.

Both of you are leaders, but in different ways. You gain recognition in large, formal institutions by carefully climbing the ladder of success and dealing deftly with company politics. Your Aquarius finds satisfaction by working within groups -- not necessarily corporate -- for social good. If they are frustrated at work, Aquarius are likely to do some meaningful volunteer work, perhaps for a non-profit cause. Aquarius belong to the world, so if you were hoping for a little man or woman who would be there for you at the end of the day, think again. You may have to watch them shout from a bullhorn in front of city hall, or meet up with them at a cyber cafe.

Another difference is what constitutes a great night out. Capricorns want to check the Zagat guide and choose a four-star restaurant, Aquarius want to eat vegetarian at a little hole in the wall around the corner. Capricorns want to discuss plays and literature, Aquarius want to talk about school busing or the finer points of Java script. Capricorns adore history and objects from the past, while an Aquarius may reject all that has come before -- Aquarius live for the future.

In bed, you are very sensual and so is your Aquarius lover. But he or she is more likely than you to view sex as fun and games. You may or may not be turned on by your partner's love of adult videos and other modern turn-ons. Spiritually, Aquarius have none of the instincts toward enduring relationships that you do. Their house of love is ruled by Gemini -- a thinking sign -- so their head rules their heart. You are realistic, but highly ethical too, and any kind of promiscuity will turn you off, even if you are just dating your Aquarius.

Can you work this out? Like anything else, it's all up to you!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Capricorn

Can two practical, ambitious Goats find true love? Very possibly! The only problem with this mix is that you're both so busy so much of the time, you'll have to be diligent about scheduling time for sex! Well, not immediately, but later on. No matter how hot your passion is for one another, deep inside the Capricorn heart is an even greater need for recognition and career success. You understand this in one another, so there are no conflicts here, and each of you will encourage one another to get ahead, no matter what the sacrifice.

Herein lies the only difficulty in your union: You both are willing to forego fun together in the quest for that promotion. You're both so serious; you must make time for love and play together! Banish all signs of work from your bedroom and while you're at it, get the TV out, too (no CNN during lovemaking). After you're married and have your babies, be sure to continue to date every week. Capricorns can go into overdrive with responsibilities, for work goes directly to their hearts and souls. Once children are present, life can get a bit more complicated; but rest assured, neither of you would ever dream of letting the other one down. Having a partner you can count on means a great deal to you, and you'll have it with your Capricorn.

In short, this pairing gets a wink and a nod. There is nothing here so tough that black lace or satin sheets can't fix!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Sagittarius

Signs that follow one another in the zodiac can make for a hard match. This is because the second sign makes up for what the first one lacks. So in many ways you and Sagittarius are opposites. The biggest difference between you two is that your lover is ruled by Jupiter and is an optimist. You, on the other hand, are ruled by Saturn and are a realist. Your lover will call you a pessimist and won't understand why preparing for a rainy day is so vital. But you won't fathom how he or she could have such a pollyanna view of life.

Physically, Sagittarius likes to exercise. He or she may goad you about your "love handles," something you will either do something about with your lover's guidance or will obstinately ignore because they have infuriated and humiliated you. In any circumstance and on any issue, Sagittarius' bluntness can be hard for a polite and diplomatic Capricorn to accept.

In bed, you may find Sagittarius' trim, athletic body a turn-on. But after a while, you may ask yourself if you are compatible in any other way. In the end, your Sagittarius is a theorist and you are a doer, so you may get the job of bringing home the bacon. On the other hand, you will welcome your Sagittarius' humor and deep philosophical points of view. Your lover also enjoys an assortment of educational TV programs that feed his or her hungry mind. You actually like some of this esoteric information, so you could find some common ground.

This match is a 50/50 call. It will be hard at times, but not impossible. The success or failure of this relationship is really up to you!

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I am Capricorn, My Lover is Scorpio

This is a sensational match! You bring common sense and solid grounding to the relationship; your lover is drawn to your stability and practical nature. You're attracted to Scorpio's intense emotions and their passion for life -- and for you. Scorpio's water sign element mixes well with your earth and creates a fertile environment in which you both can grow in

Scorpios are street smart, and, when combined with your financial savvy, Capricorn, you two are a good combination. Amassing wealth is a worthy goal to you, and one you are serious about pursuing. If your other half were bent on spending your stash as fast as you make it, you wouldn't be together long. This certainly is not the problem with a Scorpio spouse. Like you, they are intensely hard workers, determined and fixed on goals. You are the more flexible one, and you will find that talking a Scorpio out of something is nearly impossible. You may admire this or find it hard to deal with, depending on the situation. You are research and fact-oriented, so you may have to get used to trusting their razor-sharp intuition. But soon you'll see that your Scorpios is right on the money nearly every time he or she has a gut feeling about something.

Outwardly, you two are reserved and discrete, so don't be concerned that your lover would ever reveal anything private to the outside world. Scorpio wouldn't dream of doing a "kiss and tell." You may have to get used to his or her periods of withdrawal while your Scorpio lover chews over something that's bothering him or her. (This is true whether you are the cause or not.) Your Scorpio may not be immediately sure what the problem is, so don't get paranoid; Scorpios need time to think. Try to gently get your lover to open up and talk -- it will help you to have a better relationship.

In bed you are awestruck by your Scorpio's flaming passion. The Scorpio's ardor can truly take your breath away and leave you wanting more! Better yet, you need not be concerned that your Scorpio will stray; Scorpios tend to mate for life. Scorpios are never wishy-washy about anything, including who they marry! Remember: Scorpio is the sign of obsession, and you're the lucky recipient of all their desire!

This pairing deserves a resounding yes! No matter what difficulties you encounter, you are likely to succeed.

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Libra

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Libra

This is not a classic astrological combination (your Sun signs are in a challenging aspect to one another), but because you share some interests, you might be able to make this work if you try. You two may have other planets in your charts that relate well to one another.

Both of you like a busy social calendar and both of you have plenty of energy, although your Libra will want to go out more than you do. Libras know just about everyone on earth and will introduce you to some amazing people. As a Capricorn, you are always looking to widen your circle of friends and contacts, so you will enjoy this quality. Your Libra lover is the essence of diplomacy and charm, an asset to you when he or she tags along with you to business functions.

Capricorn and Libra are cardinal signs, so you both are pioneers and like change. Venus-ruled Libras show their strength subtly. By use of their substantial charm, Libras have been known to be the power behind the throne.

If you experience difficulties, it will come when your Libra complains that you are away at the office too much. You may respond to your Libra that you are contributing to his or her lifestyle by earning a good living, and he or she should be more understanding. Libras are so good at networking that your sweetie might show you how to get ahead without so much sweat. Libras know how to use their charisma in any situation! Still, you might begin to wish for a more self-sufficient partner and ask yourself, "Why does he (or she) always need me there?" But Libra is the sign of partnership and marriage, and they feel incomplete without a mate to interact with on a regular basis. But since they like being married, your Libra would not leave you unless the relationship took a radical nosedive.

Another problem is that Libras are not as practical or grounded as you. You're focused, ambitious and determined. Your Libra partner may seem scattered and may not share your need for a strong, stable base. You may feel that he or she refuses to apply his or her ample talents. In time, when life inevitably adds more responsibility to your shoulders, this could frustrate or even anger you when you find you are carrying too much of the load.

Sexually, you are very much in touch with your body. While Libras are more intellectual than physical, you can bring your lover to your level of enjoyment. Good sex won't be a problem! Libras are known for keeping their good looks up far into old age, so you need not worry that your lover's appearance will decline as time goes by. And even after you're long wed, your Venus-ruled lover will continue to flirt with you and keep the fire of your heart burning bright.

This match gets a 50-50 chance of success, mainly because the Sun signs are at an obstacle angle to one another. The answer is to go slowly and get to know your sweetheart well. If after time, you decide your Libra is the one for you, proceed! You may have the right planets in your individual charts to outweigh these drawbacks!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Virgo

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Virgo

Here's a heavenly match if there ever was one! Capricorn, you've found the one love mate who won't continually ask you why you have to work so hard; your Virgo is an equal workaholic! Both of you are earth signs, making you click on a primordial level.

You two may have to trade off being the one who reminds the other to come home early or break away from the computer once in a while to enjoy some hot, earthy, sensual sex! Virgo is often depicted as the cosmic librarian, with hair pinned back tightly and glasses firmly in place. Don't kid yourself; Virgo can be one of the sexiest creatures in the Universe. Because they communicate so precisely, they know how to get sexual satisfaction -- and how to give it.

The power of your union lies in the ability you share to develop a vision of the future and make it happen. With two earth signs you've got goals, deadlines, and rewards to keep you motivated as you move closer to your ultimate goal. Security is very important to you, and with a Virgo lover, success is assured.

All in all, this pairing gets a "10," so press forward!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Leo

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Leo

This relationship isn't supposed to work by astrological terms, because you are an earth sign and your lover, Leo, is a fire sign. Earth usually puts out fire, but when you look at what makes this union tick, you see surprising similarities between the personalities of both. I think you have a good chance to make a go of your union.

Both of you like to socialize, although Leo might be a bit more exuberant and outgoing, whereas Capricorns, as a rule, are reserved. You two socialize for different reasons: You want to network to get ahead, but your Leo just wants to have fun. Both of you dress beautifully and attend all kinds of cultural functions, and your Leo will bring out the sparkle in your personality. In turn, you will ground your Leo and grip the purse strings tight when Leo forgets you two don't really have a king's ransom to keep your lover in the style to which the Lion or Lioness can become accustomed! Leos can be impractical as well as inflexible -- two factors which will get the hairs on the back of your neck to stand on end. They will find you a bit too stodgy and serious about your work. Still, if you love one another, you can work these things out.

In bed, Leo wants to feel adored and cherished, and you will be thrilled to oblige. Leo will make lovemaking festive with champagne, flowers, chocolates, luxurious sheets, and sexy gifts like lingerie. You have a healthy need for sex and so does your Leo -- even more so, in fact!

If you two have children, your Leo will be a wonderful parent -- they stay interested, involved, and willing to provide endless playful attention. You'll be a good parent, too -- Capricorns respect family and heritage -- but you will do better when the kids get a little older. By the time they're ready for college, you are in top form, having not only saved the money to send them to college, but you're also ready to accompany them to every campus to help them make their choice.

So even though your Leo's stubbornness can drive you up a wall, you do have lots in common. If you want it to work, you can make it happen!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Cancer

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Cancer

Your Cancer sweetheart is born six months away from your birthday, so he or she will be either complementary to your personality or diametrically opposed to everything you value. In short, this pairing will bring you either perfection or pandemonium. The final outcome will be up to you.

Let's look at the pros and cons. Your sign rules the fame and honors house of the horoscope; thus, you are very ambitious and hope to achieve a responsible leadership position. You do very well in big organizations and politics, things others would have difficulty accomplishing. You understand chain of command, and you like orderly hierarchies because everyone in them knows what is expected. Your sign is an earth sign and therefore very practical.

Enter Cancer, an emotional water sign very different from your own. Cancer's natural domain is the home and family. While they work hard at their jobs, they are not willing to put in the single-minded effort that you do. This could be a lovely match, however, because a Cancer will nurture you and your children and provide the kind of life you dream about but have no idea how you are going to fit it into your schedule. We won't call your work habits your lifestyle -- for Capricorn, there usually isn't much time left life outside of work!

The problems that surface between you two could relate to the time you spend away from home. Cancer cannot fathom why you find work so interesting, and if he or she becomes upset, your Cancer will get sulky and moody. You, on the other hand, consider the Cancer focus on home and family a bit obsessive, and you think they spend too much time there. If you are dating a divorced Cancer with children, this can be especially true, for they will talk about the kids nonstop and may make plans to spend time with them that make you feel left out.

Capricorns are family-oriented too, and you will willingly visit your in-laws now and then, for you see benefit in upholding tradition and are interested in family lineage. You especially like talking with old-timers about life when they were young. Hearing history first-hand is exciting to you -- you could become the family biographer. Cancer would help you here, maybe by assisting you as you try to find old family photographs.

You are more practical than your partner and have talents for finance. But your Cancer is no spendthrift; they save money, bargain-hunt, and treat their income wisely. This is a good area of common ground.

Cancers are more emotional than you and may find your detached, earthy nature a bit too cool. Cancers like frequent displays of affection. When it comes to sex, however, you are both sensitive. In fact, it is hard to match the lovely emotional warmth of a Cancer. Cancers want to see fireworks when they make love, so woe unto you if you wear your wristwatch. They want your complete attention, and rightly so! Your Cancer will love you with an intensity that will thrill you. I suppose some Capricorns may find this kind of love smothering, but they are in the minority.

My bet is this relationship will be a strong and healthy one, where each of you gives exactly what the other lacks.