I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aries

Your Aries lover likes to take the lead, and this could be fine with you, Pisces. You like your lover's spunk and can-do attitude. Aries like your vision and sensitivity.

In classic astrological terms, this is not considered an ideal match -- Pisces is a water sign, Aries is fire. In the literal sense, water puts out fire. You may find your lover too self-absorbed, reckless or impetuous. Aries are not known for their ability to reflect on life's deeper meaning or even to think before they act, which could annoy you. You want your Aries to plan more; your Aries wants you to stop worrying. Yet Aries are more reality-driven than you are, and your partner may reveal a great deal of truth to you. The Aries direct way of speaking could hurt your feelings -- Aries have little time for diplomacy and empathy, which can make trouble for a sensitive Pisces.

Sexually, Aries are inventive, exciting lovers. But since they regard sex as mainly recreation, while you feel that it is the ultimate expression of true love, you may not be happy. Be aware that, even in love, Aries have such strong pioneer instincts, they can be fickle, or even promiscuous, which will bring the end of your union. New sensations and experiences are important to Aries, so you can bewitch them by using your rich Pisces imagination and talent for play.

If you can get over those obstacles, this match will be a happy one. You will like their fresh ideas and enthusiasm, and they will respect your caring, sympathetic nature.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aries

Aries are clever, enthusiastic, and sparkling with new ideas--a sure hit with Aquarius. Since Aries are always starting new ventures, they're never clinging vines, something you appreciate in a lover. You're an air sign and Aries is fire, so the pairing of your two signs produces terrific energy. Both of you value honesty and open communication, something that will keep your relationship going over the long haul.

In bed, your Aries is confident, inventive, and not intensely emotional (and neither are you). Nor is either of you possessive or prone to jealousy. Since you are ruled by the innovative planet Uranus, you value spontaneity and innovation, and will greatly enjoy the sparks that can fly between you and your Aries lover!

If you love an Aries, continue. Life will be fun, that's for sure. You value objectivity and rationality in matters of the heart, so you will find great compatibility with your Aries lover.

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aries

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aries

If you are in love with an Aries, you've got a very tough road ahead, because your orientation is so different. Still, anything is possible, so let's have a look at where the trouble spots could be.

You are a traditionalist at heart, Capricorn, and do your best work within large, structured organizations. Capricorns understand chain of command, and you enjoy all the perks that having a good job in a big company brings. Aries, however, don't want to work for anyone but themselves. Their ability to walk on the razor's edge -- waiting for overdue shipments, raising venture capital, blazing through crises -- could drive you mad. You want a rather settled life -- they don't care. You will feel the outside tension at home, too. They express themselves best by creating new projects, and their role is to be innovators. Aries, by temperament, are meant to be a bit self-absorbed, and this is another trait you could find hard to take. But a Capricorn wants and needs social approval, so if your Aries makes it, no one will be prouder than you. You will shout their successes from the rooftops!

This coupling could be better suited to a business partnership than a romance because you both are such workaholics. Both of you are driven to succeed, which could hold you together, even though this is not a classic astrological love match. These two Sun signs form an aspect denoting obstacles.

In bed, both of you enjoy sex, but you are the more tactile and sensual. Aries likes anything done quickly, but in bed, this isn't always the best way to go! Just making the effort at getting in sync should show immediate results.

Your Aries is an enthusiastic dreamer, full of ideas and grand schemes. He or she isn't always realistic, but will remain firmly focused on the goal he or she has set. You may enjoy being the anchor in the relationship, offering sound financial advice and practical solutions. If you stay together you can build something substantial. This is a hard match to call, since so much of the relationship's final outcome will be up to you.

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aries

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aries

Fire with fire burns brightly through the night. Sounds like the beginning of a great poem or novel, doesn't it? It could also be the beginning of a great relationship! Both of you are fire signs, so you share each other's basic element. Because you both need much of the same things out of life, you know how to satisfy each other, too.

Adventure, risk, and passion are what you're after. "Why should life be dull?" you ask. Indeed, it needn't be! You'll supply the ideas for exciting foreign travel and advanced studies, and your Aries lover will contribute ideas for new business ventures. Both of you overflow with enthusiasm, optimism and joie de vivre. Living a practical life has never appealed to either of you because it just sounds so dull. Lively conversations about your shared philosophies and strong, successful friendships with business and academic types will mark your social life together.

Since you both do everything wholeheartedly, it isn't surprising that in bed, the heat you generate remains turned on high throughout your relationship. You both get bored easily, so it's likely one or both of you will be feeling imaginative at bedtime and will add the necessary spice to your lovemaking.

Commitment and the resulting chance of losing some of your individuality and freedom scares you both; you may be slow to tie the knot. Each of you will allow the other the time you need to make up your mind or to work out a way to make this marriage suit your robust personalities.

This is a four-star pairing. Aries is one sign that understands what makes you tick.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aries

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aries

You both are so strong-minded, much of your relationship could be spent attempting to gain the upper hand! This could be a slightly better business partnership than a love relationship because both of you are so street-savvy and interested in new ventures. You each bring different things to this relationship, and this could be why you were drawn to one another in the first place.

Your Aries lover is full of ambition, fresh ideas, and dreams that he or she wants to make real. You think your Aries is impractical at times, and you're right. Aries are not detailed or even practical; their role in the Universe is to inspire others. Aries don't like to be hemmed in and they are continually testing themselves, pushing the envelope to see how far they can go both physically and mentally. You and Aries share the same ruler: Mars. But Scorpio has two rulers, and the other one is Pluto. Mars is called "the action planet," representing the warrior, so you both have substantial courage. You express it differently, however, because while your lover is a fire sign, you are a deeply emotional, instinctive, and even psychic, water sign.

You may be frustrated that Aries have none of your emotional depth. They live life on the surface, and don't dig too deeply into other people's feelings or motivations like you do. Full of chatter and continually dashing off to another meeting or cocktail party, you might find Aries exhausting. You need complete isolation on a regular basis to recharge your batteries, while they energize themselves by being with other people.

In love, you crave commitment and long lasting relationships, while Aries live (and love) for the moment. When things get boring, Aries move on. Scorpios require fidelity, which, more often than not, Aries find terribly confining. You are discreet and introverted, qualities your lover might see as secretive. Aries don't have the patience to draw you out the way Pisces or Cancers would; if you sulk, Aries will just grab their coat and jump ship. Both of you have quite a temper, due to Mars' rulership of both signs, although both of your tempers' explosiveness may not surface for a long time. But when it does, watch out! It would be better if at least one of you were a more patient type. As you see, this relationship could be hard on everybody's nerves unless you or your lover has a large number of water or earth planets in your horoscopes.

Sexually, you two will generate lots of heat! Both of you have strong physical appetites, but I feel that you long to have a more submissive, encouraging partner. Your Aries will make lovemaking exciting, but after time, you could start missing having a true spiritual connection with your lover and wonder why he or she is so unable to match your emotional depth. In fact, you may feel like you are locked in some sort of competition of wills, instead of a seductive embrace. In a way, Scorpio, you are. You need control; Aries need to rebel.

As you see, this is going to be like climbing Mt. Everest, but you can do it if you love your Aries. Be sure to check your lover's entire horoscope with an astrologer, because the right rising sign or moon could change this picture vastly for the better! Your best asset is your gift of intuition, which could help you see through the everyday difficulties and find a path to love.

I am Libra, My Lover is Aries

I am Libra, My Lover is Aries

Polar opposites often attract and rightly so! Your sign is all about partnering, and Aries are all about initiative. Together you are destined to have lively and active times. This is a match that was probably made because you enjoyed one another tremendously right from the start. You were having too much fun not to fall in love.

You are attracted by Aries courage, can-do attitude, and their willingness to deal with risk. Aries are strong, full of opinions and bright enthusiasm, but at times they don't look before they leap. Libras are highly intellectual and analytical, and your presence will be a good influence if your lover listens to you. You like balance and everything in moderation, but your Aries doesn't know what the word temperance means! This very trait attracts you, as you continually try to figure out what makes your lover tick. Life with an Aries is never boring, and your substantial circle of friends and contacts can help your Aries lover get ahead. Libra is a refined sign, aware of social politics, so you do hope your wild Aries cowpoke will adhere to them most of the time! Usually he or she will, but Aries have a bit of the rebellious prankster in them too, so be forewarned! Your sense of humor will help. The very thing you fear most about your Aries' lifestyle -- risk -- also attracts you. You love that lively Aries spunk.

In bed, you've got an ardent handful. Your lover will ignite you with his or her intensity and appetite. Aries are passionate, attentive, and lusty, and you'll revel in your good fortune. They can have a roving eye, however, but only if they get bored. Keep things lively by remaining somewhat unpredictable. Aries of both sexes enjoy the thrill of the chase. Libras like to get married but Aries aren't sure if they want to be tied to any one person forever and ever. You will have to make your lover think it was his or her idea to make a commitment, because headstrong Aries don't want to be "told" anything.

In all a very good match, and one that will keep you both on your toes for years!

I am Virgo, My Lover is Aries

I am Virgo, My Lover is Aries

Your Aries is an amazingly exciting lover! You are an earth sign, your lover is fire, and although these elements are not a classical astrological match, you both have so much to gain from making this relationship work. In many ways each of you has exactly what the other one lacks.

You both are very driven and ambitious so you agree: Work is important. Looking at your horoscope, I see that Aries' Sun falls in your house of other people's money and your Sun falls in Aries' house of work. Therefore, you understand each other's need to be recognized, and you both want to make money. Feeling successful and productive is a priority for both Virgo and Aries. You aren't likely to complain if your Aries is working too hard or too long, even though your beloved can get fairly self-absorbed. Your Aries will also let you work as hard as you like well into the night. In times of crisis, your lover depends on his or her resourcefulness, while you rely on your laser-sharp analysis of the situation.

Now when Virgos notice help is needed, they always pitch in and do what needs to be done -- one, two, three -- and they're gone, without any expectation of thanks. "Don't even think about it" Virgos will call over their shoulder, waving expressions of gratitude off with a casual gesture. But when Aries help out, they want a big show of appreciation. Remember that! Your Aries lover is full of enthusiasm and bright ideas, but is not good with details and organization. Those are your big strengths, so help your Aries. You are also practical, a quality, which could help your impractical lover, get things done. As you see, together you can be dynamite, especially if you work together on a project that involves money. So follow your Aries' lead and raise the stakes a little higher, Virgo.

"But this is love," you say. "What about the physical and emotional side of things?" Realize that you are true blue, Virgo, but Aries are on a continual quest for adventure, and your lover may feel the need to sow some wild oats earlier than you do. Needing to feel sexy and sought-after (as said above) is part of being an Aries, and if you are too busy to pay attention to your lover, he or she might be tempted to look for other opportunities. Aries need continual praise and reassurance. Morality, discretion, and strong ethics run deeply through your system, so Aries' play-the-field attitude could really grate on your nerves. This will be true even if realistically it is too early on in the relationship for you to have the right to be jealous. The good news is that once an Aries commits, he or she will start acting loyal and settled, and you'll calm down.

In the bedroom, you are amazingly compatible. Aries' Sun falls in your 8th house of your horoscope, which rules money and also sexual desire. Aries is full of fire and light; both male and female Aries are aggressive, funny and confident. If the Aries is female, she will know how bring out the true, erotic sensuality of your Virgo nature. If the Aries is male, the electricity will crackle like lightening between you. The Aries male is macho and powerful. Either way, Aries rules the pure energy of the life force. That alone can be bewitching when expressed by a member of either sex.

As a Virgo, you are idealistic and sentimental, although you don't reveal your feelings easily or often. You are a very private and reserved person, while your Aries is exuberant and outgoing. You will either find these differences are too much to take, or you'll enjoy the way Aries balances your quiet temperament. You see beauty in the smallest details, something that will perplex but also delight your lover. Hopefully, you can lend each other the best of your gifts and not let the differences disturb you.

I am Leo, My Lover is Aries

I am Leo, My Lover is Aries

This relationship is a yes, yes, yes! You make a vivacious pair. Both of you are spirited, energetic, and enthusiastic fire signs with a fundamental understanding of one another. Your Leo lover has the same view of the world that you do -- vast, expansive, and ultimately your oyster.

This relationship is exciting, active, busy, passionate, noisy, glamorous, fun loving and flamboyant. It can be volatile too, since both you and your Aries have quite a temper. But somehow, you love the fights as much as everything else, probably because you have so much fun making up. Passions are strong in both of you; when you two get together, you light up the sky with fireworks! Neither of you does anything halfway or without enthusiasm. You will have an ardent relationship but one of extremes.

Aries are ambitious, but Leos do not generally exert themselves unless conditions force them to do so. As a Leo, you expect things to fall into place. Your lover will marvel at this point of view. Lions and Lionesses say, "Why wouldn't I get what I want? Certainly I deserve it!" This is Leo's ego speaking. But realize that your Aries does not have this kind of strong self-image, nor the same expectations that his or her needs will magically be provided for by the Universe. Aries assume they have to struggle their way to the top. Winning, not how the game is played, is everything to them, and they are willing to put in a big effort, bashing their Rams' horns gleefully through the opposition and enjoying the spoils of their victories. Inside, however, Aries will wonder why you don't want to put in more of an effort -- an area to watch in your relationship.

You will admire your Aries' courage and ability to start new ventures in the face of adversity. There is nothing Aries won't take on if they feel impassioned, and they have a gift for motivating others to work hard on their behalf. They are terrible with details and so are you. Hopefully you two can hire some help to do mundane things, like buy soap, toothpaste, or paper for the printer.

Your creativity will get high marks from Aries, as will your generosity and talent with entertaining, partying and networking. You'll never get grief from your Aries over too much socializing -- they despise staying home as much as much as you do. They don't have your penchant for the jet set or high living, and they would rather spend money on a new fax machine than dinner in a four-star restaurant. But when Aries run out of cash, they just figure out a way to make more, so it's unlikely you will have many disagreements about finances. Aries like to be self-employed, by the way, so don't try to talk yours into working for anyone else if he or she has just started a business.

You like to give orders, whether you realize it or not. This may give you trouble, for Aries don't allow anyone to dictate to them, least of all their lovers/mates. Independence is vital to Aries, so if you want to make one do something you have to make him or her think it was his or her idea in the first place. Aries may discover that they can actually control you if he or she lavishes you with compliments. I hear you protesting, but you have to admit it works! Aries can make you feel so warm and cozy that you'll let them have their way. Aries are very clever and as children learn quickly how to get their parents wrapped around their little fingers. Later in life, getting their lovers to succumb to their charms is a piece of cake.

In lovemaking, you will find your Aries lover is the perfect blend of wild abandonment and sweet tenderness. Both of you want to be the other's one-and-only, but for different reasons. As I said earlier, the Ram wants to win. Coming in second seems shoddy and not worth the challenge. For you, being number one is a matter of pride. You won't concede your crown to any other beast. It wouldn't be fitting. My best advice to you, Leo, is to keep your mouth shut about past lovers. Your Aries isn't going to take kindly to knowing someone else has already conquered you. You like to reminisce about past love and admiration -- it never leaves your memory -- but to tease your Aries lover with this information is playing with fire. As odd as it may seem, you will come across as "damaged goods," whether you are female or male. Aries wants to feel your love is pure and unmatched by anything you have ever felt before.

This relationship deserves a "10" so go for it, Leo!

I am Cancer, My Lover is Aries

I am Cancer, My Lover is Aries

Sorry, but this tryst is going to be tough. You are the first water sign of the zodiac and therefore the most sensitive. Tenderness, care, warmth, and security are what you crave most; you bruise easily at the slightest criticism. Home and family are your biggest priorities, but, for your Aries lover, the creation of new enterprises gets top billing. Aries is the first of the fire signs, so Aries are noisy, brash, full of life and aggression, and not very tactful. If you argue with an Aries, he or she will do whatever it takes to win. If your feelings (and ego) are destroyed in the process, so be it. You will wind up feeling like you were hit by a heat-seeking missile. Aries can be ruthless and they frequently go overboard. To make matters worse, Cancers can hear insults when none have been spoken or intended.

There are more difficulties. You have delayed reactions, Cancer, while Aries are quick on the draw. You may not be able to parry and block during an argument as quickly as your Aries opponent, tearing down your self-esteem. Aries is nothing if not straightforward, but the Crab walks in a kind of zigzag pattern, prepared to quietly scuttle into and out of any subject. Aries find this deceptive and calculated. Cancers justify it by calling their actions subtle.

You want stability: in marriage, home life and children. But Aries need to keep their adrenaline pumping, and if romance doesn't stay hot, they are likely to look elsewhere for adventure. Sex is exciting with an Aries lover, especially in the beginning, but for Cancer this will not be enough. You want to be loved deeply for who you are and to forge an intimate bond that can't be harmed by the outside world. Self-absorbed Aries can't sit still long enough for this to happen. Soon you will feel that they are all fire but lacking in real warmth. Don't expect an Aries to nurture you -- they have better things to do. This will depress you, for you nurture everyone and expect the same in return.

You may stand a chance but you will need to work really hard on this relationship. If you don't want to pass up this creature, you might have your custom horoscope done and see if you have other compatible planets in common. We are only studying your Sun sign here, and there may be subtleties that your individual charts can reveal.

I am Gemini, My Lover is Aries

I am Gemini, My Lover is Aries

Aries are fireballs of energy and airsign Gemini provide the oxygen to help their flames burn brighter. To say this is a good match is putting things mildly. You were probably attracted to them by their energy and light, their bountiful ebullience and passion. Emerson once said, "Nothing great is ever achieved without enthusiasm." If this is true, your Aries lover will lead you down the road to great success. You get bored easily and Aries does too, so together you should have an exciting life! Allow your natural curiosity and your lover's pioneering spirit to lead you places you've never been.

Physically, you both groove on the same magnificent vibes. Aries have very strong sex drives, and are passionate, powerful and playful. They want to try new things in bed, and you do too, so together you can have lots of fun. Your Aries likes to lead, and since you are a mutable sign, you won't mind. Gemini long to hear the words of love and seduction spoken aloud, and your Aries will oblige you with marvelous verbal foreplay. Your Aries knows what you want and instinctively gives it to you.

Aries are adventuresome, busy and courageous. The action-hero of the zodiac, Aries initiate adventures. A Gemini's job is to communicate to the folks who stayed at home all the exciting things that happened. As the natural journalist of the zodiac, you need to be objective, rational and truth-seeking. The trouble is, neither one of you spends much time with your emotions. Gemini and Aries may literally not sit still long enough to discover what is happening between the two of them on an emotional, intimate level. Strong water planets in your individual charts will definitely make up for this deficit, though. So, don't worry. You know this liaison works, and works like dynamite! Let 'er rip Gemini, and love your Aries!

I am Taurus, My Lover is Aries

I am Taurus, My Lover is Aries

You and Aries couldn't be more different. But this may be the very reason you are drawn together! Your Aries lover is full of fire, light, energy and enthusiasm, bright ideas and fresh starts. You, on the other hand, prefer to be safe and sound. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it" is your motto. Yet your beloved Aries will never be content to leave well enough alone. Noisy, rambunctious, and always testing their physical strength and resolute willpower, Aries usually win. Don't even try to tell Aries what to do, for they don't take advice too readily. Aries rules the life force, with me-first intensity, but at times Aries' impetuousness can led them into trouble.

That's where you come in, Taurus. You are the anchor in Aries all too frenetic life -- you're the steady rock in the Aries storm. They thrive on crisis, but at times it can get too much, even for them! Your soothing voice, your tender touch makes everything all better again. Be aware that Aries' role is to initiate, and Taurus' is to react and preserve. So you might become increasingly stubborn if your Aries is constantly goading you to do, do, do! Passive resistance only gets Aries mad, so your Bull's horns may lock with your Ram's more frequently than you'd like. Don't let this happen too often or you'll derail the relationship.

Sexually, you have very different physical rhythms. Your style of lovemaking is slow as melted chocolate, and just as sensual. For you, slowly is the very best way to savor one another. Aries, on the other hand, is a bundle of energy and quite a little firecracker in bed -- quick, hot, and right to the point. This can be frustrating when you want to linger, though, and you will both have to be sensitive to one another if you are to succeed under the covers. You are so erotic, lusty, and sensuous that your chances of winning your Aries over are good -- so be confident! Few can resist falling under the spell of Taurus.

Your lover will bring you lots of excitement and show you how not to play life so close to the vest. Aries have courage to spare and you admire this enormously. Taurus, you know how to build things and make them last, so you each have a great deal to give one another. If you love your Aries, try to make it work -- and don't be too stubborn!

I am Aries, My Lover is Aries

I am Aries, My Lover is Aries

In this relationship there will be tons of energy and enthusiasm. Aries have strong opinions. Your role in the zodiac is to be a me-first life force, so this could turn out to be quite a piquant pairing! If you can weather the power struggles that will invariably occur, you both can have lots of fun. Try to be less competitive with one another and project your energy outward toward the world instead. Together you can accomplish much -- you'll light up the evening sky with fireworks. There will be no project too big, no dream too outrageous for you to tackle together -- you think big enough for Technicolor blockbusters!

Since Aries is the sign of the risk-taking entrepreneur, you might decide to tackle a new business venture together, acting on a gaping hole in the marketplace your eagle-eyes have spotted. Be warned: Aries don't want to be told anything, so taking advice from each other could be your biggest challenge. But once you deal with that, you can move on to living out your big adventure.

Neither of you is especially practical, so hopefully one of you has some earth planets in your chart to ground you. The two of you might keep raising the stakes, trying bigger risks as time goes by, so you may encounter the occasional crisis. This won't faze either of you. You've both got adrenaline to spare and can live life right on the edge.