I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Pisces

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Pisces

Pisces with Sagittarius is not an easy or natural pairing. Still, both of you are mutable signs, which means you are highly flexible people and have the ability to work things out. Let's look at what could pop up and spoil your relationship so that you can take steps to smooth things out when (or if) they occur.

Your most obvious difference is that Pisces are sentimental romantics who wear their hearts on their sleeves. Their large and expressive eyes mirror their feelings, and even if a Pisces wanted to hide something, he or she would not be able to. You, Sagittarius, could not be more different, and at times, you will feel that your Pisces is overly sensitive. Your Pisces lover will not respond well to your brutal honesty. Pisces wouldn't dream of being as direct with you -- or anyone else -- and they are careful to surround their negative comments with positive ones to soften them. You feel that this is too much work. Pisces might respond by saying you ought to be more caring. One rule: It's absolutely critical to take your Pisces' feelings seriously. Sagittarius can too often make the mistake of dismissing them.

On the plus side, Pisces will adore your mind, especially your ability to think in broad, conceptual terms. Your lover will also appreciate that you are courageous enough to tackle the big questions in life, for this is also an integral part of being a Pisces. Sagittarius rules the 9th house of the horoscope, which rules spiritual questions. Pisces are intensely spiritual, too. Both of you care very much about others; Pisces care for individuals and you care about groups of people and society as a whole.

Pisces will not conflict with Sagittarius' need for space. Since Pisces live in the worlds they create out of their dreams, fantasies, and imaginative projects, they will not crowd you. They stay busy by themselves. You will be thrilled by the breadth and scope of your lover's imagination and his or her poetic view of life. Your lover lacks your strong self-esteem, but you might help your Pisces realize his or her full potential by building up his or her confidence. Pisces is not into self-awareness in the way an Aries would be, so Pisces aren't sure of the value of their own ideas and work. (This does get better as they get older.) Pisces are enormously self-sacrificing. This can make you wonder how your lover does it, but still, you do admire this quality in him or her.

When you make love to a Pisces, you will become transported to another world. Pisces expect -- and usually achieve -- an ethereal, transforming experience each time. To Pisces, sex is the most precious and powerful expression between two people in love -- they don't take the experience lightly. Nor should you, if you want to make this union last. You, Sagittarius, have different expectations from sex. But while you are less deep and dramatic in your approach, your intellect will permit you to absorb Pisces' mood if you want to.

Will this union work? Fire sign Sagittarius is not a classical pairing with water sign Pisces. But if you love a Pisces, you can absolutely make it work, so reel this Fish in!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aquarius

Do people notice the two of you when you enter a room? Probably! The chemistry between you and your Aquarius lover is so strong it's apparent to everyone that you two are meant to be together. You are so in sync that your Aquarius lover has put your name on the top of his or her list of "People Most Desirable to Share a Desert Island With"

Both of you care about politics, civil rights, technology and its impact on society, and how to make the planet a better place to live. You share an upbeat, positive view of the world, and love to be out rather than stuck at home. Meeting new people, mixing, and networking are what you two love to do. You see yourselves as objective, rational, thinking people, as opposed to emotional creatures, and you're right. Your Aquarius lover is a highly communicative air sign, and you're pure fire -- obviously a combination that only makes your fire burn brighter. Your near brutal honesty will not offend your Aquarius lover. As he or she sees it, your directness bears necessary feedback that can possibly used to improve his or her understanding of him or herself and the world. Frankly, other signs would flip out.

Sexually, your brain (rather than your heart) is what makes this all happen, but who cares? After all, it's been said that the brain is the most important sexual organ in the human body. Neither of you trusts highly emotional passion anyway. To you, it could seem like manipulation or just an overabundance of hormones. Moreover, both of you need a rational, high-IQ partner. Now you have one! Neither of you wants a commitment in the early stages of this relationship. You may never want one at all. Teamed with an idiosyncratic Aquarius, who also never cares what society thinks, you can develop your own unique love affair for as long as you like.

Neither of you is particularly practical, so hopefully you will work out this little detail. Should you continue? Absolutely! You've got a perfect "10" on your arm, so hold your Aquarius close!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Capricorn

This could be a good match, even though your signs come side by side in the zodiac. This position is an indication that you are opposites. Capricorn is going to give you business smarts, a plan for the future (particularly a financial plan), and a certain kind of grounding. Capricorns enjoy your Sagittarius mind, your energy, and your happy outlook on life. This is a match where you?ll both meet fascinating, educated, and successful people from many walks of life. Both signs like to mingle and draw new people into your circle. Your ability to discuss things intellectually with them is a big plus to Capricorns too, but after a while, fire sign Sagittarius may feel a little snuffed out by the conservative earth sign Goat.

The difficulty is obvious: You could feel weighed down by Capricorn?s disapproval of your more foot-loose, happy-go-lucky ways. Capricorns have goals and plans and tend to work very hard. Are you sure you want to be teamed with someone so committed to his or her giant career? Your favorite job would be to teach, then spend all summer traveling to foreign countries to relax and do research. Your Capricorn lover may not be able to travel as much as you would like, for getting away, especially on extended trips, is probably going to be hard for them. Capricorns don?t see the reason to make travel and adventure a number one priority -- it might mean giving up a promotion.

Your Goat needs to relax before he or she can get into the proper mood for lovemaking. Ply them with a fine wine to make them forget that scathing memo that came down from the boss this morning. Use a little humorous seduction at first to disarm them, then move on to more direct, nonverbal techniques and their motor should soon be humming.

Don't care what the drawbacks are, Sadge? Then go for it!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Scorpio

Before you go any further -- wait! Think about this very carefully, Sagittarius. Perhaps it was the mysterious aura, or the powerful sexuality that initially drew you to your Scorpio lover. Or perhaps it was his or her depth of feeling and passion for life, which is unmatched by anyone else you've met. As a Sagittarius, you bring lively conversation to this union, as well as the love of travel and serious study. You will introduce your Scorpio to all kinds of successful people, and your lover will be thrilled and stimulated by your influence in his or her life. There has probably been more than one night when you two stayed up until the wee hours, discussing the meaning of life over coffee.

But there will be problems. You may be sucked down by the undertow of the sensationally good sex, but it comes with a price -- and you of all signs will be unwilling to pay it. Scorpios are highly possessive, intense, and even jealous at times. They want to become one with you -- for eternity. Your sign, however, is the sign of the bachelor (male or female). Why? Because Sagittarius prize freedom of movement and a firm, separate identity above all else. Commitment does not come easily to you. Scorpio will accuse you of skimming over the surface of life, never really drilling down to the core. You might even agree with this -- you aren't too interested in experiencing all the rings in Dante's inferno. Your Scorpio lover is going to turn out to be high maintenance and the question is, are you up to it?

Jupiter-ruled Sagittarius is a happy sign, and when paired with such an intense sign as Scorpio, can feel claustrophobic at times. And then there will be those lover's quarrels! Are you ready for the gloomy silences? You may go for days without speaking or acknowledgement, and there may be hours of feeling guilty for something you aren't quite sure you even did.

Yes? Well, then, go for it! Nothing in this life is perfect, and if you love your Scorpio, know that he or she will give you the kind of fidelity that you only used to dream was possible. Your Scorpio will adore you every day of your life. When they commit they commit with near-obsession. And then, of course, there's the amazing sex you'll have....

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Libra

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Libra

If you are in love with a Libra, you're in love with someone very good for you! Libra is an air sign, you are fire, and these two elements couldn't be better together! Chances are, your time with Libra always includes friends and social events. Libras just can't sit at home. They're out and about more than any other sign, and they know just about everyone (probably a famous person or two as well).

Libras like to keep up their good looks, so count on some extra time in the bathroom for them. Libras are among the most polished, refined, and elegant of the signs when it comes to appearance. This applies to Libras of either sex. Libras also have quite a sense of style, and it comes through even if they are poverty stricken. One Libra I know shops exclusively at thrift shops, but her look usually shows up in Vogue magazine a few months later. Not surprising when you consider she takes her gorgeous look to clubs all the time -- places where the fashion editors hang out. Speaking of clubs, Libras have a knack for knowing what club, bar, or restaurant is on the verge of being discovered. If they mention a place, better heed their advice and go right now. Later, it will take weeks to get a reservation.

Libras like to get married, and, Sagittarius, we all know you don't. This is a tiny problem, which I am sure the two of you can work out. Sagittarius are known to be "the bachelor sign" because they put so much emphasis on freedom and autonomy. Once a Sagittarius marries, he or she usually stays put, simply because he or she thought things out carefully before going down the aisle.

Your home life will be great because Libras are brilliant with home entertaining. In terms of decor, Libras have a soft, elegant touch -- no harsh lights or hard angles. Libras adore music, art, and any kind of cultural activity. You have very eclectic taste, so your lover will probably enjoy learning about the art and cuisine of the various cultures that interest you. One other little trouble spot is your lack of tact, Sagittarius. Libras are supremely gracious and diplomatic, and your lover will expect you to be that way, too.

In bed, remember to be somewhat sensitive and refined; don't yell out your locker-room language too soon -- this will definitely destroy the mood. Libras like a light touch. Your lusty, playful style will be appealing, so don't hold back in other ways. Now because beauty-loving Venus rules Libra, female Libras may prefer to make love in the dark. They have curves that show up early in life, and, oddly, some of these women are a bit embarrassed to not have the slim hips and flat chest of a boy. Go figure. Blame the fashion magazines she reads for her lack of confidence. She has no idea how gorgeous she is, so why don't you tell her. Male Libras are more confident but enjoy getting praised for their looks and sexual technique nevertheless.

In all, a happy, fun relationship -- so go for it, Sadge! This one is written in the stars!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Virgo

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Virgo

The attraction between earth-sign Virgo and you, dear fire-sign Sagittarius, is your razor-sharp mind. You have finally found a lover who can hold up his or her end of a debate! You'll find Virgo detailed, diplomatic, determined and articulate -- just the kind of person to make you shine at dinner with your boss. It is hard not to admire Virgo. The trouble is, Virgos like to work, while you like to play or study. If Virgo's workaholic schedule cramps your style too much, you'll get on your horse and ride off into the sunset.

If their work schedule doesn't turn you off, their penchant for neatness could. Having a Virgo follow you through the house just once -- picking up everything just after you've set it down casually somewhere -- will prove to be just too much. Your sign is not known to be super-neat. You are too busy!

In bed, you'll appreciate your Virgo's loyalty to you and his or her surprisingly lusty appetite for lovemaking. Because Virgos communicate so well, you could soon find you are grooving on the same sexual frequency and loving every minute. In order to get them into the proper mood, you may have to indulge in lots of verbal foreplay, something very erotic to Virgo. Once he or she is home from the office, Virgo doesn't relax that quickly or easily -- but your tender attentions can get them to if you try.

You are a fire sign and Virgo is earth, so this match of personalities does not come naturally to either of you. Luckily, you both are highly flexible creatures. This is a strong plus, and indicates that if you work at this relationship, you can make it happen. A 50/50 chance of success is the estimation here, but that does not account for the bushels of optimism you bring to every endeavor, or your wonderful meeting of the minds with your Virgo. Give it a try.

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Leo

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Leo

When two fire signs unite, watch what ignites! Wow! Wonderful fireworks always result with this paring, a sure "ten." You both have a keen sense of adventure and a healthy sex drive. Wonderful chemistry is important in a relationship--and you've got it! Their sunny disposition matches your optimistic view, making them a joy to be around. They'll also boost your social life and make many scintillating introductions to people in all walks of life, including the creative arts. In turn, you will bring your Leo many educated types, some of whom may be professors.

But your Leo lover has none of your easy flexibility, something that won't show up right away, and it might surprise you when it does. Just be prepared to negotiate a little--and persuade. With your high IQ, you shouldn't have a wit of trouble talking him or her into anything you desire. Leo's can be bossy, too, but they are putty in your hands when you complement them lavishly. The Lion needs praise like oxygen to survive! Never forget that! You may find you get yourself in trouble now and then by putting your foot in your mouth, something Sagittarius is prone to do because they are so bluntly honest.

Neither of you is pragmatic--the very sound of the word turns you off. You want life as high drama, full of passion, verve, and a touch of luxury. With your Leo lover, your wish is certain to come true. Watch Leo's tendency to spend too much, however. You aren't known for being terribly frugal either, yet Leo outdoes you, still. Their exquisite, expensive taste is well known, so be mindful that one of you hopefully will have a big salary. Neither one of you is a saver, thus, you could be in the poorhouse before you know what happened!

Lovemaking will surpass your wildest dreams with the Sun King or Queen under the sheets. Nights of amazing heat and passion are sure to surface, and since Leo is so creative, you won't suffer from same-old, same-old with them at all! They love costumes, you love different outdoor locations, if you get my drift. Your Leo will admire your athletic body, they will adore your designer sheets and champagne tastes.

In short, this is a match, made in heaven!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Cancer

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Cancer

Can a Centaur (you) and a Crab (your lover) make things work? This is a hard relationship, but with some effort, you might get it working well. It won't be easy. Let's look at the obstacles.

Fundamentally, you come at life through different doors. Your lover is a water sign, highly emotional and moody. A Cancer in a bad or depressed mood for days at a time could be hard on your nerves. You, on the other hand, are a fire sign, an element that does not mix well with water. Being a mutable sign, you are more flexible than your partner. You could find your lover's hesitancy to deal with change puzzling at best, and irritating at worst. You keep your vision trained on the future, while Cancers like to look back. This would be all right, if only they didn't engage in "I coulda, shoulda, woulda" so frequently when looking back on events. You don't feel this serves any purpose, and sometimes you are right.

On the plus side, your Cancer will nurture you from the depths of his or her soul. Cancers are excellent listeners and will pay careful attention to what you say, offering their sound advice at the end. You will know your Cancer loves you -- few signs give as much in a relationship as Cancer. Cancers are slighted easily, so watch your Sagittarius' penchant for brutal honesty; it will bruise your tender Cancer's soul. Once you blurt something out that's hurtful, it is impossible to take it back; Cancers, of all the signs, will remember what you say forever. Cancer has the memory of an elephant.

Sexually, Cancers can bring lovemaking to heights you have never experienced! Be careful not to take this intimacy with your lover too lightly. This is no casual affair to him or her -- still waters run deep. Cherish your Cancer. The love you receive in return will astound you.

In all, this is a hard relationship to make work because of the differences in your temperaments. But it is possible if you give each other lots of tender loving care.

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Gemini

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Gemini

This relationship is all about brains. If you two have children, they are sure to have high IQ's with the two of you for parents! This relationship will be about broadening horizons and continuous discovery. In short, it is one that is fundamentally very right for you!

In the scheme of things, Gemini specialize in day-to-day news, which is why your lover's sign is considered the sign of the journalist. Your sign is singled out to collect the knowledge of humanity and make sense of it all -- Sagittarius is the sign of the philosopher. Gemini may tease you and say you are too high-concept and theoretical. You may rib Gemini back and say he or she is too distracted by "who's doing what, when" to see the big picture. There is a grain of truth in each position; however, every sign of the zodiac is given a piece of the puzzle of life. In your case, your fire sign relates beautifully to your lover's air sign. You both adore travel, and are ready to jump on a plane to anywhere, no matter how remote or exotic "anywhere" may be! Sharing this zest for discovery of the new will always keep your relationship fresh.

The only slight problem with this match is that you both are so brainy -- you think so much, when will you have a moment to feel? Hopefully, one, or both, of you has a few dominant water planets in your personal horoscopes to add more emotion to this relationship. Otherwise, you both will be so analytical about things that you'll give one another a headache. But this isn't really likely if you take care. This is a pairing that works naturally, without a lot of effort.

In bed, you really shine, for both of you are verbal, playful, witty, and have a delightful sense of humor. Look forward to a sex life filled with spice, variety and spontaneity. The fun only brings you closer together.

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I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Taurus

This match could prove difficult. But as Shakespeare once said, "The stars impel, they do not compel." If you want this relationship to work, you'll have to be prepared to face some maddening obstacles. Your lover is a practical earth sign who shares none of your buoyancy and wild optimism. Taurus is not a carefree sign, but one deeply rooted in family and community. Taurus' stability is what probably drew you to your lover, but it is also exactly what could blow you two apart. You could start to see your lover as too predictable, cautious and responsible -- in short, a little boring and stuffy. Taurus, in turn, can see Sagittarius as optimistic to a fault, unreliable, too carefree, strangely willing to dump everything and fly off to a foreign locale at the drop of a hat -- and perhaps just too blunt for your own good. Your old Sagittarius bugaboo -- brutal honesty -- could bite you here, Sagittarius. Taurus will want a commitment from you, sooner rather than later, and this is something that scares you to death. The more you pull away, the more possessive your Taurus will become, which will drive you crazy, too. Oh, I don't mean to get you depressed!

Just be mindful of the things that bring you closer. Every relationship suffers from what I call "the down side of the up side" -- the negative effects of the very things you love most. For example, the very stability you want can later become boring. Even though it's not your strong point, Sagittarius, having realistic expectations will help ensure a good, long-term relationship. On the plus side, Taurus usually mate for life and rarely, if ever, stray. Taurus save money and will get you to use a sound investment plan, something Sagittarius may never get around to doing. Finally, if you need another reason to give this relationship a try, making love with a Taurus is a truly memorable experience, filled with sensuous, tactile eroticism. The Taurus lover goes slowly and is so considerate. He or she is liable to thrill you to your core. You bring fun and spontaneity to lovemaking, something your Taurus will appreciate in you!

Give this relationship a try, even though at times it could require a lot of effort.

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aries

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aries

Fire with fire burns brightly through the night. Sounds like the beginning of a great poem or novel, doesn't it? It could also be the beginning of a great relationship! Both of you are fire signs, so you share each other's basic element. Because you both need much of the same things out of life, you know how to satisfy each other, too.

Adventure, risk, and passion are what you're after. "Why should life be dull?" you ask. Indeed, it needn't be! You'll supply the ideas for exciting foreign travel and advanced studies, and your Aries lover will contribute ideas for new business ventures. Both of you overflow with enthusiasm, optimism and joie de vivre. Living a practical life has never appealed to either of you because it just sounds so dull. Lively conversations about your shared philosophies and strong, successful friendships with business and academic types will mark your social life together.

Since you both do everything wholeheartedly, it isn't surprising that in bed, the heat you generate remains turned on high throughout your relationship. You both get bored easily, so it's likely one or both of you will be feeling imaginative at bedtime and will add the necessary spice to your lovemaking.

Commitment and the resulting chance of losing some of your individuality and freedom scares you both; you may be slow to tie the knot. Each of you will allow the other the time you need to make up your mind or to work out a way to make this marriage suit your robust personalities.

This is a four-star pairing. Aries is one sign that understands what makes you tick.