I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

I am Pisces, My Lover is Libra

Libra is ruled by gentle Venus and therefore your lover is refined, polished, sophisticated and elegant. This personality profile mixes well with Pisces, even though this is not a classic astrological pairing. Libra is an air sign and Pisces is water, so if you play your cards right, you will have a bubbly union.

Libras are very social and like to go out all the time. But Pisces are self-reliant and need to spend time alone in reflection and meditation; Libras think Pisces spend far too much time alone. If you are willing to respect and go along with each other's needs, this could be a fun match. Libras adore cultural activities and fine restaurants, which will get you out and about. Libras know the hottest clubs and like to dress fashionably. Pisces base their satisfaction on emotional and spiritual contentment rather than on material gain or social competition, so they can take or leave Libras' gregarious lifestyle. For example, Pisces might like to dabble in the cocktail circuit now and then and will even benefit from all the contacts a Libra brings into his or her life, but Pisces may not want to spend as much time out and about as a Libra. After a long day, a cozy night at home reading or watching TV to unwind sounds good to Pisces.

Another possible hitch in the relationship from your perspective is the Libra tendency to over-analyze things. You trust your emotions more than Libras trusts theirs, so conflicts could arise when your Libra asks you to justify your position -- how do you explain your gut instincts to someone so supremely logical? Also, Libras can be a little bossy, but this is asserted in a charming, diplomatic way. Pisces read others' motives perfectly, and although you can see through Libras' veil of gentility, you appreciate their effort not to be too brash about pursuing their own agenda. Thus, you often let them have their own way. If you disagree, you will be sensitive to one another's positions, and diplomatic Libra will likely not hurt your feelings. Libra, symbolized by the scales, cares about finding a fair solution, something strongly in your favor.

Happily, Libra lights up your house of physical love and things could be hot, hot, hot in bed. Pisces are not likely to let the physical part of your relationship overtake the other areas. You need an emotional partner in life, and if your bubbly Libra can slow down long enough to give you the nurturing you need, this could be a great match.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Libra

This is a sassy, exciting pairing of two similar souls, sure to be a hit. You both enjoy lots of social activity, and neither would expect the other to wait at home in the traditional sense. In fact, ordering dinner in several times a week will be the only way to handle the busy schedule you both lead! Your coupling is thoroughly modern.

But even the best relationship demands that the partners accommodate each other. In your case, be mindful that Libras care about social acceptance, while you don't give a fig about it. Ruled by idiosyncratic Uranus, Aquarius' job in life is to press forward and to make all kinds of new discoveries. In doing so, you will run up against the Establishment at times. This frightens Libra, for this Venus-ruled sign's job is to bring opposing forces together. They want to be popular and will go out of their way to bring harmony to relationships. You can see how your roles differ; in many ways, Aquarius is a sign of extremes. Libra's friends are likely to be in the arts, yours in the sciences; nevertheless, your friends mix well. And Libras entertain beautifully, so your parties would be much-talked-about affairs!

Libras like to be married, but Aquarius like space and freedom; commitment doesn't come quickly or easily. Sexually, you link up in a heavenly way, with plenty of fun, wit and experimentation. You will enjoy Libra's use of perfume or cologne (female or male, this sign is a fragrance wizard) and their refined, cultured personal style. Libra takes good care of their physical appearance well into old age. Your Libra will enjoy your quixotic and playful approach to sex.

Your Libra is the romantic of the two of you, so let him or her take the lead for some starlit evenings. Physically, you are on the same plane, but you aren't as emotional as a Scorpio, a Pisces, or a Cancer. However, your Sun sign lights up Libra's house of true love, so the bond remains very strong here, even though to the outside world you may appear to have a cool, detached, and analytical relationship. Your Libra lights up your house of deep philosophical thought and distant travel.

This match gets a four-star rating. If things go wrong, it isn't because you aren't suited to one another. Both of you are air signs -- like-elements get along great together. In your case, you both know how to communicate clearly, objectively, and you share an overriding quest for truth. You will have a rich, busy, and noisy life together. Sounds like fun!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Libra

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Libra

This is not a classic astrological combination (your Sun signs are in a challenging aspect to one another), but because you share some interests, you might be able to make this work if you try. You two may have other planets in your charts that relate well to one another.

Both of you like a busy social calendar and both of you have plenty of energy, although your Libra will want to go out more than you do. Libras know just about everyone on earth and will introduce you to some amazing people. As a Capricorn, you are always looking to widen your circle of friends and contacts, so you will enjoy this quality. Your Libra lover is the essence of diplomacy and charm, an asset to you when he or she tags along with you to business functions.

Capricorn and Libra are cardinal signs, so you both are pioneers and like change. Venus-ruled Libras show their strength subtly. By use of their substantial charm, Libras have been known to be the power behind the throne.

If you experience difficulties, it will come when your Libra complains that you are away at the office too much. You may respond to your Libra that you are contributing to his or her lifestyle by earning a good living, and he or she should be more understanding. Libras are so good at networking that your sweetie might show you how to get ahead without so much sweat. Libras know how to use their charisma in any situation! Still, you might begin to wish for a more self-sufficient partner and ask yourself, "Why does he (or she) always need me there?" But Libra is the sign of partnership and marriage, and they feel incomplete without a mate to interact with on a regular basis. But since they like being married, your Libra would not leave you unless the relationship took a radical nosedive.

Another problem is that Libras are not as practical or grounded as you. You're focused, ambitious and determined. Your Libra partner may seem scattered and may not share your need for a strong, stable base. You may feel that he or she refuses to apply his or her ample talents. In time, when life inevitably adds more responsibility to your shoulders, this could frustrate or even anger you when you find you are carrying too much of the load.

Sexually, you are very much in touch with your body. While Libras are more intellectual than physical, you can bring your lover to your level of enjoyment. Good sex won't be a problem! Libras are known for keeping their good looks up far into old age, so you need not worry that your lover's appearance will decline as time goes by. And even after you're long wed, your Venus-ruled lover will continue to flirt with you and keep the fire of your heart burning bright.

This match gets a 50-50 chance of success, mainly because the Sun signs are at an obstacle angle to one another. The answer is to go slowly and get to know your sweetheart well. If after time, you decide your Libra is the one for you, proceed! You may have the right planets in your individual charts to outweigh these drawbacks!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Libra

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Libra

If you are in love with a Libra, you're in love with someone very good for you! Libra is an air sign, you are fire, and these two elements couldn't be better together! Chances are, your time with Libra always includes friends and social events. Libras just can't sit at home. They're out and about more than any other sign, and they know just about everyone (probably a famous person or two as well).

Libras like to keep up their good looks, so count on some extra time in the bathroom for them. Libras are among the most polished, refined, and elegant of the signs when it comes to appearance. This applies to Libras of either sex. Libras also have quite a sense of style, and it comes through even if they are poverty stricken. One Libra I know shops exclusively at thrift shops, but her look usually shows up in Vogue magazine a few months later. Not surprising when you consider she takes her gorgeous look to clubs all the time -- places where the fashion editors hang out. Speaking of clubs, Libras have a knack for knowing what club, bar, or restaurant is on the verge of being discovered. If they mention a place, better heed their advice and go right now. Later, it will take weeks to get a reservation.

Libras like to get married, and, Sagittarius, we all know you don't. This is a tiny problem, which I am sure the two of you can work out. Sagittarius are known to be "the bachelor sign" because they put so much emphasis on freedom and autonomy. Once a Sagittarius marries, he or she usually stays put, simply because he or she thought things out carefully before going down the aisle.

Your home life will be great because Libras are brilliant with home entertaining. In terms of decor, Libras have a soft, elegant touch -- no harsh lights or hard angles. Libras adore music, art, and any kind of cultural activity. You have very eclectic taste, so your lover will probably enjoy learning about the art and cuisine of the various cultures that interest you. One other little trouble spot is your lack of tact, Sagittarius. Libras are supremely gracious and diplomatic, and your lover will expect you to be that way, too.

In bed, remember to be somewhat sensitive and refined; don't yell out your locker-room language too soon -- this will definitely destroy the mood. Libras like a light touch. Your lusty, playful style will be appealing, so don't hold back in other ways. Now because beauty-loving Venus rules Libra, female Libras may prefer to make love in the dark. They have curves that show up early in life, and, oddly, some of these women are a bit embarrassed to not have the slim hips and flat chest of a boy. Go figure. Blame the fashion magazines she reads for her lack of confidence. She has no idea how gorgeous she is, so why don't you tell her. Male Libras are more confident but enjoy getting praised for their looks and sexual technique nevertheless.

In all, a happy, fun relationship -- so go for it, Sadge! This one is written in the stars!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Libra

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Libra

You are a bundle of profound feelings and emotions, but your lover is analytical and brainy; Libras are social but you, Scorpio, are a loner. Can you find true love with a Libra? Maybe, but it will be a stretch.

The Libra penchant to socialize will be hard on your nerves. You can't understand why your Libra needs to be out or on the phone all the time. Worse, your Libra will want you to be out too, socializing at his or her side. Libra is the natural sign of marriage, so Libras love being a couple and miss their partners when they're apart. Sometimes you'll be with your Libra, but still be a million miles away in your thoughts. Your Libra will keep wanting to drag you out of your shell. Then there is the matter of all the talking and conversation Libras love. Some nights you won't want to murmur a word, which your Libra will find hard to fathom. All this fuss could feel claustrophobic to such an intensely private sign like you.

Libras like to hold the power over a particular area in the relationship. If this area conflicts with a part of life you want to control, there could be a conflict. Libras want absolute fairness, everything even-Steven, which repels you. Face it: At times you want what you want, and will expect to get it without any flak. In fact, you don't want to have to explain your actions and feelings at all. You may ask yourself: Isn't expressing my needs enough? Apparently not. You also aren't sure why your Libra's opinions waffle so much -- your opinions are strong and clear. Libras keep wanting to get more information before they make a final decision.

Things go great in bed, however, which is why you may be so powerfully drawn to your Libra. Your lover is elegant, refined, and open to what you want to do. Libra is ruled by Venus, your ruler is Mars, so there is a special astrological attraction between you. Those two planets have been called the Celestial Lovers, so you could experience amazing compatibility. This is true for both sexes, however female Libras have an especially strong affinity here, for they adore being caught up in powerful and masterful Scorpio seductions. But Scorpio women, do remember: If you are with a male Libra, engage him, embrace him, entice him, and enchant him. Men love to be seduced just as much as women do.

At the end of the day, you will still have to cope with your basically different lifestyles. With you, your Libra may start to feel like he or she is single again, increasingly going out alone. Libras don't share Scorpio's obsession with fidelity when they are unhappy -- you'll have a problem if your Libra becomes lonely and vulnerable on someone else's shoulder. You will have to change your ways -- but when you truly love someone, anything is possible.

I am Libra, My Lover is Libra

I am Libra, My Lover is Libra

This relationship feels like looking in a mirror; you like what you see, but this other person is eerily just like you. You know one another's weaknesses and strengths, and you have the same instincts and reactions, which are pluses. But neither of you can add to what's missing. Libra is a subtly strong sign, even a little bossy at times, so you will have to watch this tendency. In this relationship there are all chiefs and no Indians, yet you both are able to get your way using your incredible Libra charm -- things will never get unpleasant.

Your union is full of intellect and objectivity, but the missing element is the exploration of deep emotions, which neither of you may have the interest or courage to investigate. Instead, you both will tend to keep safely detached to avoid getting hurt. This is a shame. In bed, you should both try to let down this guard and increase the level of your intimacy and the temperature of your passion.

You both hope marriage will be the natural outcome of dating, so you two could be on the same track. Because you both also vacillate a little, expect a "maybe," a "let me think about it," or a "jeez, do you think so?" before the date is set!

I am Virgo, My Lover is Libra

I am Virgo, My Lover is Libra

If you love a Libra, it must mean you are making a conscious effort to balance out your life with more fun. Libra can help! The two of you could not be more different. Virgos like work so much that they will give up play for it, but Libras will be resourceful about finding shortcuts at work so they can get out and play more often. To be fair, Libras network professionally while socializing -- something your lover could teach you a thing or two about. You tend to be a bit reclusive, so Libra's influence will be a breath of fresh air.

Both of you are analytical and brainy but not deeply emotional. Hopefully, you will both think up ways to keep the embers of your passion aglow. In bed, allow your Libra lover to be playful and relax you after your long day's work. They are wizards at setting the scene of romance -- the low lights, soft music, seductive gestures -- even years after you've met. Don't criticize Libra's efforts or the shape of his or her body (not everyone looks like Nicole Kidman). Be open and accepting and I guarantee your passion for one another will only grow over time. Libras are ruled by the erotic planet Venus, so how can you go wrong?

Libra is the sign of marriage, and your nature is to be giving. Since you are a mutable sign, you are flexible and open -- this bodes well for the overall health of your relationship. Libra is a cardinal sign, so you can count on your lover to push against the limitations of life, and to explore new experiences and frontiers. Cardinal signs ensure things are never dull. Libras are lively and talkative, so you can count on plenty of sparkling conversations.

You will love Libra's elegant ways and your lover will always be fun to hang out with. Air signs have more friends than anyone else, so you are sure to meet some very interesting people. Your lover has sensational taste, and Virgo is no slouch either. Your attractiveness as a stylish twosome will be a source of pride for you both. Virgo's clothing is always smart, fashionable, polished, and clean -- after all, your sign rules detail and the search for perfection. Libras, being ruled by Venus, put a great deal of emphasis on making themselves attractive and keeping up their natural good looks. As a Virgo you are careful about being healthy and fit, and you can influence your partner to take care of his or her body in ways that go beyond just cosmetics and clothes.

All in all, although you're not a classic pairing, you do have many gifts to share with one another if you open your hearts with love.

I am Leo, My Lover is Libra

I am Leo, My Lover is Libra

This is a lively combination, full of conversation, things to do, and people to see. You are a fire sign and your sweetheart is air -- the element you need to burn brighter, bigger and hotter. To say Libra is good for you is an understatement.

You will soon see that Libras like to discuss things in depth. You prefer them to agree with you, but Libra finds the entire process of debating fun (even when arguing, which Libra always does politely). This is because your heartthrob is an analytical air sign. If you detect that your Libra hasn't yet chosen which side he or she is on, your assessment could be right. It is not easy being a Libra, the sign symbolizing justice and balance. They are programmed to make informed choices, yet their substantial mental powers make it imperative to see the complexity of each and every situation. It is never easy making a decision with a Libra around, especially when opposing values are in conflict. Others make fun of Libras' inability to decide and taunt them by saying they vacillate, but Libras know better -- only fools see things in black and white. When you, sounding just like a Leo, say "Come now, sweetheart, agree with me, if only because I said so" -- stop and think. Your Libra will never just give up and go along with you. They have to suffer through the pros and cons, because that's their role in life.

Your lover is sure to be one of your closest friends, because your Sun falls in your Libra's 11th house of friendship. Lovers who are also friends can last a lifetime. Their Libra Sun falls in your 3rd house of communication, making an exchange of ideas on almost any level an activity of primary importance. Busy and bustling, your lives will continually have all kinds of news flowing in and out, whether it be about politics, business, culture, or gossip now and then.

As you see, there is so much intelligence and admiration holding you two together that should your sex life die down a little, you will still have a strong bond able to keep your relationship going on longer than the Energizer Bunny. Speaking of lovemaking, your Libra will enjoy your entire seduction, all the little things you do to get him or her in the mood, even years after you first sleep together. Libras are refined and elegant: no rushing, no tattered bed sheets, or ugly pajamas in bed -- ever. Your lady Libra will tolerate, only the best perfumes, the tiniest lace and satin nighties, and hair that shimmers in the light. A Libra guy will come to bed after a bracing shower, a smooth shave, and a splash of imported cologne, with a loose, low-slung towel around his hips. Nothing else. Got it, Leo? You've got to keep up.

Both of you are a little bossy and like to have control, but you express it in different yet compatible ways. Libras are often so good looking that with a flash of their beautiful smile they can usually have their way with you, dear Leo. You'll look into Libra's eyes and fall into a trance. All in all, that isn't so bad, is it?

I am Cancer, My Lover is Libra

I am Cancer, My Lover is Libra

It is no wonder you fell for a Libra. Libras are charming and completely irresistible. They are so refined, sophisticated (in a hip kind of way), schooled in social graces, educated, polished, and easy on the eyes. What's not to love? There isn't a rough edge on them.

The problem is that Libras interact with the world all the time. As a quiet Cancer you are private, reserved and family-oriented. When your Libra suggests you attend a mid-week cocktail party, you may be haunted by thoughts of the unpaid bills on your desk, the dust balls under the bed, or the report you have due on Monday. If you have children, you won't want to leave them either. (Cancers never like leaving their kids with baby-sitters.) Libras need to play and network, though. Ordering in or eating out nearly every night is Libra's other favorite thing to do, but you think take-out is expensive and not as good as what you can make. Most importantly, you have an image of what home and regular family life should be, and your vision isn't complete without aromas drifting out from the kitchen. "Ugh!" they say, "who wants to cook?" Your Libra may protest that if you spent less time in the kitchen you'd have time to do more things with him or her. And so it goes. Libras aren't good planners for the future, and with their Sun at cross-angles to yours, you are liable to disagree with their preparations anyway. Just try to be tolerant when you watch your Libra pack for vacation!

Not an easy mix, but any match can work if you want it to badly enough. If you love a Libra, give this relationship all you've got, and try to deal as best you can with the down sides.

I am Gemini, My Lover is Libra

I am Gemini, My Lover is Libra

This is a beautiful link of souls, because Libra and Gemini answer one another's needs as naturally as their hearts beat. Your Libra lover is polished, intellectual, fair, cultured, refined, and such a happy optimistic person, that he or she is a joy to be around. Since both of you are air signs, you are analytical communicators, so lively conversation and debate will be a large part of your relationship. Libra has the same inner restlessness you do -- sticking around the house drives you both insane. Your lover likes nothing better than to check out new trendy restaurants, clubs, and cultural activities, and he or she will know practically everyone. You adore travel and need to hop on an airplane every so often to get a new perspective on life, and your Libra is more than happy to hop along with you. After all, Libra is the partnership sign. Each of you will expose the other to stimulating new activities, and both of you will flourish for having met your cerebral match. When you and Libra get mad, you'll fight -- fairly -- and then drop the whole thing. Neither of you hold grudges.

Libras are far more marriage-minded than you, so you might have to let him or her know your intentions right up front. If you aren't ready, ask for time. Libras are happier when married and won't stray. You might, however, if you get bored. But even Gemini is unlikely to stray when partnered with Libra, for your lover will never cease to surprise you. The home Libra builds is a cozy, loving place, and since Libra entertains flawlessly, your home will fill up with dozens of guests, family members, and friends.

In bed, you and Libra instinctively answer one another's needs. Libra can bridge many moods, from funny to serious. You are ultra-sensitive and you mirror moods, so you two are easily in sync. You'll enjoy their elegant style -- their appearance is usually so ravishing it's hard not to reach out and touch! Hang on to this soul mate -- this one's for you!

I am Taurus, My Lover is Libra

I am Taurus, My Lover is Libra

If you love a Libra, by now you know Libras love to talk. Libras debate all kinds of subjects on every possible level. You have a strong, rational mind, but you don't see why you should have to discuss everything your Libra brings up. You've had a long day perhaps, or you'd like to read the paper quietly in your favorite chair. Libra is an airsign, though, and looks upon conversation as entertainment. Libras' avid mind needs fresh food for thought. Libras can be indecisive, but that is because they are seeing both sides of the issue at hand. When they ask you to give your point of view, they are looking to you for points they haven't yet considered; Libras are driven to find the fair answer, and they carefully analyze all aspects of every issue. What you think is indecision is actually their scales trying to achieve perfect balance. You won't be able to escape being drawn into these conversations, so you might as well dive in.

At first you may feel that you can get your way by being a little pushy, since Libras seem so affable, diplomatic and charming. You can't imagine why your lover would put up a fuss at letting you have what you want anyway. Think again. Libras are determined, opinionated, and not passive about anything. Libras will inevitably win every little point and gradually work their way up to the bigger stuff after they have learned your style. Your Taurus inertia and resistance to debate is something Libras will seductively use against you. So there you stand: unsure how or why it happened, but your Libra has charmed you again, and you've lost -- hook, line and sinker. Now, this isn't really so terrible, because you are kind of enjoying the process. Your Libra will discover that if you ever get REALLY upset, you will react so powerfully that your Libra could be temporarily frightened off. But you can be sure your Libra will be back later, all smiles and fully aware that yes, he or she did push you a tad too hard. You simply can't stay mad at this charming creature.

Your Libra is much more social than you are, and will want to be out and about for what you consider to be inordinate amounts of time. You are a homebody, Taurus, and don't particularly want to be friends with as many people as Libras seem to be friends with. When Libras aren't out, they are on the phone. Libras need interaction with others like they need oxygen, so you might be forced to find some middle ground if you want to spend time with your lover. Libras love to entertain, though, so here's your compromise: Have everyone come to your place. You can be home where you like it and few signs entertain with the flair and grace of a Libra.

In bed, Libras are lively and lyrical. Libras will always bring poetry and expression to lovemaking, while you will emphasize the physical side of love. You have much to teach one another in those regards and the lessons will be as sweet as honey. Your joint rulership by Venusshould create a lovely blending of souls. Furthermore, you won't have to worry about your lover's fidelity. Libra is the natural sign of marriage, so they are happiest when paired with another. Libras do not want to be dating all their lives, and you don't either.

As you see, this relationship has a few challenges but can be deeply satisfying. The eventual success of this match depends on how badly you want this relationship to last. If you do, there is nothing beyond the ability of a Taurus to attain. Just be a little more flexible, Bull.

I am Aries, My Lover is Libra

I am Aries, My Lover is Libra

You may have met your alter ego with gentle Libra. When a sign is six months away from you in the zodiac, this means your lover will either complete you or compete with you -- there's nothing in between. My bet is that it's the former with this match. Your autumn-born lover is a master at negotiation because he or she knows exactly how to bring opposing forces together. Unlike impetuous and reckless Aries, Libras like to think problems through objectively and break them down into smaller parts for analysis and resolution. Rarely will a tactless word pass their lips, for this gentle Venus-ruled native is supremely diplomatic. This is why they are such good negotiators and can help others build long-term agreements -- they don't turn people off. Libras are a communicative air sign, never short of new ideas, or things to say. You will always have a bright, lively time together, for their air element will fan the passions of your fire sign.

You are the sign of the individualist, but Libras are interested in working in teams -- theirs is the sign of partnership. This is why Libra is also known as the sign of marriage. Your lover will look for the fair solution, so you need to watch those dictatorial ways of yours, Aries. Libras are almost always happier when married and will usually not leave a relationship unless things turn radically bad. You both have very strong views, but each of you will assert yourself differently. Libra will charm you into submission, or offer to compromise. As an Aries, you tend to terrorize or intimidate your other half in order to win. You see how these different styles could get you into trouble, Aries? You may have to use a light touch with your Libra! Keep in mind that although a Libra's method is more subtle, he or she is no less determined than you are. Libras can even be rather bossy. Yet you might find yourself going along happily with their ideas, not realizing how deftly -- and enchantingly -- your lover used his or her powers of persuasion on you. You could do well to take a leaf from their book, Aries.

In bed, Mars-ruled Aries can be in too much of a hurry. Be sure to slow down and take your time with your Libra. Getting into the proper mood will be important. Watch your language in bed, especially in the beginning. Libra doesn't get turned on by the wham-bam, on-the-waterfront approach. Remember, Libras are ruled by Venus and are attracted to beauty, warmth, and a polished, refined style. Very visual creatures, they like to look their best and hope to see you do, too. Run a comb through your hair and get your shoes polished before you show up for your big night, just to be sure. Even if you've been married for 20 years to a Libra, you can never get sloppy with your looks. Keep that gym membership if you want Libra to keep you. They want to be proud of their spouses and if they are, they will continually get turned-on.

This is a great combination, so enjoy one another. When you mix your rulers, Venus and Mars, you create some of the sexiest possible planetary chemistry between two people, combining the positive aggression of Mars (you) and the erotic love of Venus (them). It doesn't get any more potent than that!