I am Scorpio, My Lover is Pisces

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Pisces

This is a relationship made in heaven! As a water sign, you relate to fellow water sign Pisces in an intimate, instinctual way. This relationship will be deeply satisfying to your heart and soul -- your Pisces sweetheart understands you in a way that few people do.

Both of you are sensitive and deeply romantic. At times your poetic Pisces will communicate without words. Pisces antennae are so sharp, they can pick up emotions in you that you didn't even know you had. Pisces will know when to let you be and when to draw you out of your shell. Even when you are grouchy and out of sorts, they will be supportive and understanding; Pisces is the sign of relieving suffering in others. They will never hurt you, and their delicate sensibilities will enchant and comfort you.

Pisces is one of the mutable signs, and therefore they are very flexible and adaptable, while you tend to be more rigid when faced with change. Your Pisces can gently encourage you onward and suggest imaginative ways out of any predicament. In turn, your "fixed" nature will provide a sturdy base for a sign so in need of structure as Pisces. Your Pisces won't want to be the boss, and will willingly let you get your way most of the time. Since Scorpios like control, this will suit you well.

Sex should be an out-of-body experience for you two, reaching a level of spirituality that only exists between the most greatly evolved souls. Physical lovemaking to a Pisces is the most authentic, precious, and important communication of his or her love. If Pisces picks up that your feelings aren't there, your Fish will swim away quietly, but never without cause. Still, if you love your Pisces deeply, he or she will return that love ten times over and will willingly sacrifice his or her own hopes and wishes for yours.

Confrontations aren't for Fish. Pisces will hang tough in a troubled relationship for a long time to be sure they have given it everything they've got. But when it's time to go, they're gone -- never to return. Although Scorpios don't want to reveal much about themselves (privacy is always a big issue), especially early in the relationship, Pisces always know where their lover stands just by observing their body language and actions.

Hold on to your Pisces lover, and don't let him or her out of your arms. You will never tire of discovering yet another facet of their infinite love for you.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aquarius

Aquarius' highbrow intellect and breathtaking view of the future is sure to draw you closer in the very early stages of your relationship. Still, this pairing is a hard one to maintain -- Aquarius like loose emotional bonds, and you're just the opposite. As a Scorpio, you are a virtual ball of warm emotion and attentiveness, but your Aquarius lover may not know what to make of your mixture of passion and obsession. Aquarius are known to pride themselves on their cool objectivity. "Why can't Aquarius feel more?" you may ask. In turn, Aquarius will wonder why you can't trust the facts right in front of you, and rely less on your intuition. You will bristle at having to explain yourself.

Your sign is possessive, but Aquarius is a sign of independence; they will resist any restrictions put on their freedom to roam. Ruled by the erratic planet Uranus, Aquarius rebels against predictable routine much as a caged tiger would. But you love your routines, Scorpio, because they allow your life to flow along without ever having to think about it. Day-to-day life with your Aquarius lover is likely to jangle your nerves; he or she will never submit to the structure you impose, particularly at home. Both of you are fixed signs, so you have strong opinions -- you'll both be digging in your heels when differences surface between you. Pulling with all your might on opposite ends of the tug-of-war, you'll both wonder where you were when this all began, and what led you into this relationship.

In this match, you supply the feelings and Aquarius supplies the intellect. For a while, your lover's allusiveness will thrill you as you try to figure him or her out. However, this liaison is likely to fizzle after a while, because you will miss having the emotional intimacy you crave. If you love your Aquarius and are disappointed to read this, it is possible one or both of you have planets in your horoscopes that make this union a good one. Check with an astrologer -- this assessment only studies Sun signs. You both will have to try hard to make this work, but since you are so different, you have much to gain from this relationship.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Capricorn

This pairing gets two enthusiastic thumbs up! Your Capricorn sweetheart has big career ambitions, and you can relate to that well. Scorpio is the sign of obsession, so you think it's odd when someone doesn't have something he or she is passionate about. You will enthusiastically support your lover's goals and offer him or her savvy advice about everything from corporate politics to financial investments. Security is important to you both, so there is no conflict on that score. You are particularly talented with negotiation, so your lover will gain much from your street-smart, intuitive take on situations that will arise during his or her quest for success. You will like Capricorn's realism and firm grounding, which will anchor you emotionally.

Capricorns are known workaholics, but your lover will appreciate your efforts to turn his or her attention away from the office once in a while. Sexy Scorpio has absolutely no trouble doing that! The two of you vibrate perfectly to the same sexual frequency, and so you are likely to feel deeply satisfied on a physical and emotional level. Earth signs are in touch with their bodies and highly tactile, so they enjoy lusty sex.

There may be times you wish your lover had the emotional capacity to go into the depths of your soul, but few signs could ever reach the levels as you do without even trying. Your spectrum of feelings is broader and deeper than most signs -- your lows are lower, your highs are higher. But even though your lover isn't built the way you are, Capricorn will be awestruck by how cherished he or she feels with you and will return this love to you in full. As you fall deeper in love you will demand complete fidelity, but Capricorn will commit easily and freely to you.

Your lover is an earth sign, you are water, and the mix is likely to produce a wonderful new beginning in your life. Proceed!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Sagittarius

Sometimes the most interesting relationships develop when opposites attract. You're intense and shrewdly realistic, able to see through people's hidden agendas in the blink of an eye. Sagittarius are all sunny optimism, and hopelessly impressionable. This is a hard mix, because you are a fixed (somewhat intractable) water sign in love with a mutable (flexible) fire sign. If your lover's water element doesn't put out the fire in your relationship early on, you stand a good chance of success.

Primarily an intellectual sign, Sagittarius do not have your capacity for deep emotions and passion, nor your sharp intuition. They see themselves as basically objective and rational, but you understand that facts can be deceptive. You trust your gut instincts implicitly, but still you don't want to be put in the position of having to justify your instinct-based conclusions.

Sagittarius are very communicative -- virtual chatterboxes -- and they adore intellectual debates, no matter which side of the question they're on. You find all this talk wearing. If you wanted to debate everything you'd be on Crossfire or Meet the Press. But Sagittarius watch the Discovery Channel for kicks. Good grief! That's entertainment? While Sagittarius fantasize about taking a trek through Africa, you just want to chill out in your hammock at home. You'd rather unwind in front of an action drama, a murder mystery, or even the Playboy channel. But these low-brow flights of fantasy make Sagittarius leave the room in disgust. The TV remote control wars begin -- troubles, troubles.

And it gets worse: You are a compassionate water sign, but your Sagittarius is brutally honest. Your lover's comments roll over you on occasion with the subtlety of a tank; while you can take constructive, sensitive feedback, you bristle at Sagittarius' style. You want to get married, Sagittarius isn't ready. They will delay commitment as long as possible, for they have bigger things to do first. Sexually, they want a light touch without all the opera.

Okay, okay, I have laid it on rather thick. I see you're disappointed. I can hear you protest that you love your Sagittarius. Perhaps you have a lot of fire and air in your chart, which would make this union work. My advice is to know one another well before you make plans for the future. Stay together for at least a few years. What if you already know you love him or her? Then hang on. You may be relishing the differences that would drive other couples apart.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Scorpio

Wow! In some of the astrology textbooks, a Scorpio in love with a Scorpio is a pretty potent brew! Do the two of you ever get out of bed? Talk about a nuclear reaction! This relationship is a firecracker, and all of it is powerfully good. You both are physical, emotional and expressive. Your feelings run very strong and deep. Together you build a circle of love around you that the outside world simply cannot penetrate.

The trouble here is that both of you can get a bit possessive -- so in the early stages, you may be monitoring each other's comings and goings quite closely. You each like to know more about the other than you'll tell about yourself, but you can't get away with that here. You've met your match; your soul mate knows all your instincts and hot buttons. You both are intuitive and compassionate, which is wonderful because your emotional foundation together will be strong. In this relationship, you lovers communicate without speaking, by using your uncommonly expressive eyes. With a wink, a glance, or a gaze, you can transmit paragraphs of information.

Go ahead, for this could be the love of your life. You want intensity, and you've got it with this lover.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Libra

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Libra

You are a bundle of profound feelings and emotions, but your lover is analytical and brainy; Libras are social but you, Scorpio, are a loner. Can you find true love with a Libra? Maybe, but it will be a stretch.

The Libra penchant to socialize will be hard on your nerves. You can't understand why your Libra needs to be out or on the phone all the time. Worse, your Libra will want you to be out too, socializing at his or her side. Libra is the natural sign of marriage, so Libras love being a couple and miss their partners when they're apart. Sometimes you'll be with your Libra, but still be a million miles away in your thoughts. Your Libra will keep wanting to drag you out of your shell. Then there is the matter of all the talking and conversation Libras love. Some nights you won't want to murmur a word, which your Libra will find hard to fathom. All this fuss could feel claustrophobic to such an intensely private sign like you.

Libras like to hold the power over a particular area in the relationship. If this area conflicts with a part of life you want to control, there could be a conflict. Libras want absolute fairness, everything even-Steven, which repels you. Face it: At times you want what you want, and will expect to get it without any flak. In fact, you don't want to have to explain your actions and feelings at all. You may ask yourself: Isn't expressing my needs enough? Apparently not. You also aren't sure why your Libra's opinions waffle so much -- your opinions are strong and clear. Libras keep wanting to get more information before they make a final decision.

Things go great in bed, however, which is why you may be so powerfully drawn to your Libra. Your lover is elegant, refined, and open to what you want to do. Libra is ruled by Venus, your ruler is Mars, so there is a special astrological attraction between you. Those two planets have been called the Celestial Lovers, so you could experience amazing compatibility. This is true for both sexes, however female Libras have an especially strong affinity here, for they adore being caught up in powerful and masterful Scorpio seductions. But Scorpio women, do remember: If you are with a male Libra, engage him, embrace him, entice him, and enchant him. Men love to be seduced just as much as women do.

At the end of the day, you will still have to cope with your basically different lifestyles. With you, your Libra may start to feel like he or she is single again, increasingly going out alone. Libras don't share Scorpio's obsession with fidelity when they are unhappy -- you'll have a problem if your Libra becomes lonely and vulnerable on someone else's shoulder. You will have to change your ways -- but when you truly love someone, anything is possible.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Virgo

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Virgo

Your Virgo lover is good for you, Scorpio. Virgos are patient, kind, industrious, and wouldn't dream of being too demanding. You want control, and they will give it to you if it makes you happy. Your Virgo lover is basically reserved, and your strong-yet-gentle love will thrill them. You will adore the solid grounding they bring to your life, especially when your water-sign emotions get stormy. Your lover will calm your inner seas, soothe your savage breast, and point out the practical solutions right in front of you. Virgo will not squander your money or compete with you for material gains. Your Virgo will be content with what you have together.

Virgos are organized and work very hard -- so do you -- so your lover will earn your highest respect. Virgos are very verbal, which can seem a little much to silent Scorpio at times (who won't always respond to Virgo's criticism very well), but perhaps it's good that one of you is a communicator. Sometimes we marry someone exactly like the person we wish we were.

Sexually, Virgos are very aware of their bodies and will revel in your masterful lovemaking. Virgos are refined, however, so don't become a wild animal the first few times you go to bed together or your lover will think you are a bit perverted -- lighten up! Trust that Virgo's earthy nature will provide all the sensuality and lustiness you crave. No, Virgo doesn't have your ability to scale the mountain tops of spirituality or dive to the emotional depths of the sea of love; your highs and lows are more extreme. Yet, Virgo's more level approach to life and love, in time, may prove to be incredibly appealing to you.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Leo

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Leo

This is one of the oddest combinations in the zodiac, although I hear of it working all the time. Definitely have a go at this relationship, but be prepared to put in a lot of elbow grease. You are a water sign and Leo is fire, a terrible mix if there ever was one, yet I have seen this combination flourish. My grandmother and grandfather were this mix. Oh, you can imagine the drama, the intensity, the loud arguments, and the slammed doors! But there were hours of hearty laughter, warm and cozy family Christmases, walks together in the snow, reading alone and out loud to each other on the porch, a big family full of children, and many, many nights filled with music and good food. This Scorpio and Leo shared a rich life, and it was evident to all that they adored one another.

As a Scorpio, you need intensity and will accept nothing less than grand opera for your life's script. You want to be loved all the way down to your toes -- deeply and completely. With a Leo you will get your wish. Leos have big hearts and approach everything with their arms wide open; they do nothing on a small scale. Scorpios like to be in control, but your Leo lover also likes to be the boss, so right off the bat you've got a power struggle. Both of you have VERY strong personalities, and both of you are fixed in your opinions. Be forewarned, this isn't going to be easy!

Yet if you try, this can be the love of your life and your Leo will fill your days with happiness and the intense drama and emotion you crave. This match is a yes!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Cancer

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Cancer

Are you in love with a Cancer? Then you have chosen one of your best possible matches. This pairing gets a "10!" Your Cancer is as deeply emotional and empathetic as you are, and together you will develop a rich, intimate life unequalled by any other sign match (except for Pisces and Scorpio). Both of you have your moods, but you allow that in one another, and view the changing emotional landscape as interesting and adding texture to your life. Cancer is a water sign like you, and your lover understands the need for strong, intuitive bonding. Of the two, you are the more inflexible, but Cancer's ability to flow with changing events will be an asset to you.

Sex together will be outstanding. Cancers want a family, and Scorpio rules procreation, so this could well be a very fruitful union. Cancer also rules nurturing, so you will have the kind of home life you always dreamed of.

Now a word of warning: Scorpios want one great love in their lifetime, so if they marry the wrong person due to pressures and circumstances, the results can be disastrous. Prince Charles is a Scorpio and was married to Princess Diana, who was a Cancer. But his true love was the other Cancer -- Camilla. So here you see a Cancer-Scorpio pair that did not last. The moral, Scorpio, is to be sure that you marry your one true love. Even compatible Sun signs can't override that rule!

A Cancer in love, whether in the beginning or after years of life together, offers food as an expression of love. So cook together, feed one another, make love in the kitchen. Have fun! You've got lots to look forward to, Scorpio. Don't let this one get away!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Gemini

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Gemini

This isn't a mix that is supposed to work magically, but strangely enough it does, in a myriad of ways! Your Gemini lover will bring you news clippings from far and wide regarding all kinds of goings-on, and will finally draw you out of your self-imposed isolation. Scorpio is perhaps the most taciturn sign of the zodiac, so you and your chatterbox Gemini will have to humor one another regarding communication styles. Your lover will have to give you quiet time alone each day to read, meditate, or just hear yourself think. Your lover will soon learn that this is not a rejection but time for you to regroup and recharge yourself.

Your Gemini lover's Sun lights up your natural 8th house. This house is ruled by Scorpio, which may be why this air sign lover pairs so well with your water sign. At the very least, you two should be a very effervescent mix! The 8th house governs sex and other people's money, so you and Gemini are likely to have many of the same ideas about investments and how to spend and save.

In terms of sex, Gemini like variety, but Scorpios like the tried and true, so you may have to think up a few tricks to keep your lover lively and interested. You are a master of sexual technique, Scorpio, so I don't think you have much to worry about here. Your lover will bring a much needed dose of humor to lighten up your view of the world and bring you a greater sense of fun. Gemini will try to get you out of your rut (few signs adore routine as much as Scorpio) and make you laugh. Catch your magical, sparkling twin in flight if you can, for he or she can make you truly happy.

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Taurus

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Taurus

You are salt, Taurus is pepper; you are the cup, Taurus is the saucer. As opposite as you two are, you match up famously! Your Taurus lover is an earth sign, you are a water sign, and this adds up to one fertile mix!

Neither of you is a social butterfly in the way an Aries or a Libra can be. You two love to stay home and listen to some music, or pop a good murder mystery into the VCR (Scorpio's suggestion) and pour a glass of fine red wine to have with some fruit. Afterwards, it's time to make love.

You and Taurus have a good, healthy attitude toward sex. Weekends, according to both of you, are just made to while away together in bed. Sexually, you answer one another's needs perfectly, and afterwards, you feel physically and emotionally fulfilled. Taurus are patient and like to take their time with lovemaking, much to your delight. Taurus will never rush, for they approach love the way they would approach a fine meal -- with relish, great anticipation, and a discriminating palate to make it a perfect experience overall. You, Scorpio, want to explore the depths of your Taurus lover's soul. Even though your Taurus won't have the same need to know you all the way down to your bones, being an open person, your lover will tell you whatever you want to know. This is especially good, for while you're curious about your Taurus, you don't like to reveal much about yourself in the beginning.

Both of you are possessive and prone to jealously, so luckily you understand each other. Your outbursts of temper won't ruffle this Venus-ruled lover. Taurus will just shake off your anger with a shrug, knowing these clouds will pass. You two favor a daily routine over constant changes in your lifestyle, which you both find exhausting and a waste of time.

Fidelity will be strong in this match because neither of you could bear telling your life stories to one stranger after another. Your good sex life will help sustain years of closeness, and your sensuous attitude will ensure that you continue to savor one another's charms. This combination is a positive yes!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aries

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aries

You both are so strong-minded, much of your relationship could be spent attempting to gain the upper hand! This could be a slightly better business partnership than a love relationship because both of you are so street-savvy and interested in new ventures. You each bring different things to this relationship, and this could be why you were drawn to one another in the first place.

Your Aries lover is full of ambition, fresh ideas, and dreams that he or she wants to make real. You think your Aries is impractical at times, and you're right. Aries are not detailed or even practical; their role in the Universe is to inspire others. Aries don't like to be hemmed in and they are continually testing themselves, pushing the envelope to see how far they can go both physically and mentally. You and Aries share the same ruler: Mars. But Scorpio has two rulers, and the other one is Pluto. Mars is called "the action planet," representing the warrior, so you both have substantial courage. You express it differently, however, because while your lover is a fire sign, you are a deeply emotional, instinctive, and even psychic, water sign.

You may be frustrated that Aries have none of your emotional depth. They live life on the surface, and don't dig too deeply into other people's feelings or motivations like you do. Full of chatter and continually dashing off to another meeting or cocktail party, you might find Aries exhausting. You need complete isolation on a regular basis to recharge your batteries, while they energize themselves by being with other people.

In love, you crave commitment and long lasting relationships, while Aries live (and love) for the moment. When things get boring, Aries move on. Scorpios require fidelity, which, more often than not, Aries find terribly confining. You are discreet and introverted, qualities your lover might see as secretive. Aries don't have the patience to draw you out the way Pisces or Cancers would; if you sulk, Aries will just grab their coat and jump ship. Both of you have quite a temper, due to Mars' rulership of both signs, although both of your tempers' explosiveness may not surface for a long time. But when it does, watch out! It would be better if at least one of you were a more patient type. As you see, this relationship could be hard on everybody's nerves unless you or your lover has a large number of water or earth planets in your horoscopes.

Sexually, you two will generate lots of heat! Both of you have strong physical appetites, but I feel that you long to have a more submissive, encouraging partner. Your Aries will make lovemaking exciting, but after time, you could start missing having a true spiritual connection with your lover and wonder why he or she is so unable to match your emotional depth. In fact, you may feel like you are locked in some sort of competition of wills, instead of a seductive embrace. In a way, Scorpio, you are. You need control; Aries need to rebel.

As you see, this is going to be like climbing Mt. Everest, but you can do it if you love your Aries. Be sure to check your lover's entire horoscope with an astrologer, because the right rising sign or moon could change this picture vastly for the better! Your best asset is your gift of intuition, which could help you see through the everyday difficulties and find a path to love.