I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Pisces, My Lover is Aquarius

Your Aquarius lover seems aloof, mysterious and inaccessible. This is attractive to you in the beginning but can signal heartbreak as your relationship progresses. Aquarius is a fixed sign, and therefore sometimes stubborn, while you are a mutable sign and therefore flexible. Guess who will have to give more in this relationship?

You will enjoy Aquarius' sparkling intellect and mastery of technical subjects, but your Aquarius needs a great deal of space to explore the world. Their sharp minds make wild, idiosyncratic leaps -- at times on the level of genius. But they can also be argumentative. Your lover could be the charismatic leader of many people, but still not strong on one-to-one relationships. After a while, you may begin to ask yourself if all that glitters is really golden. Is the relationship worthy of all the sacrifices you're your Aquarius is happy to have you make? Aquarius are objective, rational, and analytical, so they will never fully understand your strongly emotional and romantic nature.

In bed, Aquarius are inventive, innovative, and actually quite thrilling. Sooner or later, though, you may doubt that good sex alone can fuel the relationship. As your lover skips off on another quest, leaving you home alone again, you may just start packing your bags. If you stay together it is because you each have an equally strong need for space, and you, Pisces, have developed a healthy self-esteem from your own accomplishments. Aquarius can add to your life by explaining the mysteries of nature, science, and technology, but they may never be able to comprehend your soul.

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Aquarius, My Lover is Aquarius

Wow! What a combination! Two very unique individuals paired off in love! If you have fallen for another Aquarius, it is because you see so much of yourself in him or her. I feel your natural respect for others winning here, and thus, this match has a strong chance for success.

Both of you have strong opinions and views on life, and both of you can be stubborn at times. But none of this seems to faze either of you. You and your lover want to hear a wide variety of views, and you value each other's analytical streak. Tolerance comes easily to you both.

You may decide to volunteer together for a worthy cause or political party, for both of you want to do something good for society. Whether it is getting the lead paint out of the local elementary school or campaigning for freedom of speech, neither of you can sit back and watch people (or the planet) suffer and decline. You both also feel strongly about human rights and are likely to be activists in this area as well. This pairing could create the kind of bond that sets the world on fire the way Evita and Juan Peron did.

Sexually, the only problem may be that you both are such good friends that passion could die down too quickly. You will have to keep fanning those fires to keep sex lively. Aquarius never hesitate to buy interesting new toys to liven things up (whereas other signs would be mortified to be seen, even by total strangers, walking into those shops), so use your lively, experimental attitude and you'll keep your lover enchanted.

In summary, your relationship rates an enthusiastic A+!

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Capricorn, My Lover is Aquarius

Do opposites attract? Often. Do they stay together? Sometimes, but in this case your differences might be too great. The outcome of this match will depend on what you see and what you get.

Are you appalled or thrilled by your Aquarius mate's anti-establishment views and penchant for rocking the boat? While this may seem exciting at first, Capricorns are traditionalists at heart. Aquarius have none of your natural caution about ripping apart the status quo. At times your lover's interests will seem too trendy and flighty, like he or she is always ready to pick up the movement of the moment. Even if your lover isn't like that, Aquarius are a great deal cooler in temperament than you are. Their view is one of objectivity, not emotion. In time you may long for someone more stable, demonstrative and cuddly -- something your lover may never be.

There are other differences. In your heart of hearts, you are class-conscious; you want to live in the right neighborhood, wear the right clothes, and send your kids to the right school. Aquarius aren't into this at all, for inside they have the most democratic of hearts, and they live a life to match their beliefs.

Both of you are leaders, but in different ways. You gain recognition in large, formal institutions by carefully climbing the ladder of success and dealing deftly with company politics. Your Aquarius finds satisfaction by working within groups -- not necessarily corporate -- for social good. If they are frustrated at work, Aquarius are likely to do some meaningful volunteer work, perhaps for a non-profit cause. Aquarius belong to the world, so if you were hoping for a little man or woman who would be there for you at the end of the day, think again. You may have to watch them shout from a bullhorn in front of city hall, or meet up with them at a cyber cafe.

Another difference is what constitutes a great night out. Capricorns want to check the Zagat guide and choose a four-star restaurant, Aquarius want to eat vegetarian at a little hole in the wall around the corner. Capricorns want to discuss plays and literature, Aquarius want to talk about school busing or the finer points of Java script. Capricorns adore history and objects from the past, while an Aquarius may reject all that has come before -- Aquarius live for the future.

In bed, you are very sensual and so is your Aquarius lover. But he or she is more likely than you to view sex as fun and games. You may or may not be turned on by your partner's love of adult videos and other modern turn-ons. Spiritually, Aquarius have none of the instincts toward enduring relationships that you do. Their house of love is ruled by Gemini -- a thinking sign -- so their head rules their heart. You are realistic, but highly ethical too, and any kind of promiscuity will turn you off, even if you are just dating your Aquarius.

Can you work this out? Like anything else, it's all up to you!

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Sagittarius, My Lover is Aquarius

Do people notice the two of you when you enter a room? Probably! The chemistry between you and your Aquarius lover is so strong it's apparent to everyone that you two are meant to be together. You are so in sync that your Aquarius lover has put your name on the top of his or her list of "People Most Desirable to Share a Desert Island With"

Both of you care about politics, civil rights, technology and its impact on society, and how to make the planet a better place to live. You share an upbeat, positive view of the world, and love to be out rather than stuck at home. Meeting new people, mixing, and networking are what you two love to do. You see yourselves as objective, rational, thinking people, as opposed to emotional creatures, and you're right. Your Aquarius lover is a highly communicative air sign, and you're pure fire -- obviously a combination that only makes your fire burn brighter. Your near brutal honesty will not offend your Aquarius lover. As he or she sees it, your directness bears necessary feedback that can possibly used to improve his or her understanding of him or herself and the world. Frankly, other signs would flip out.

Sexually, your brain (rather than your heart) is what makes this all happen, but who cares? After all, it's been said that the brain is the most important sexual organ in the human body. Neither of you trusts highly emotional passion anyway. To you, it could seem like manipulation or just an overabundance of hormones. Moreover, both of you need a rational, high-IQ partner. Now you have one! Neither of you wants a commitment in the early stages of this relationship. You may never want one at all. Teamed with an idiosyncratic Aquarius, who also never cares what society thinks, you can develop your own unique love affair for as long as you like.

Neither of you is particularly practical, so hopefully you will work out this little detail. Should you continue? Absolutely! You've got a perfect "10" on your arm, so hold your Aquarius close!

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Scorpio, My Lover is Aquarius

Aquarius' highbrow intellect and breathtaking view of the future is sure to draw you closer in the very early stages of your relationship. Still, this pairing is a hard one to maintain -- Aquarius like loose emotional bonds, and you're just the opposite. As a Scorpio, you are a virtual ball of warm emotion and attentiveness, but your Aquarius lover may not know what to make of your mixture of passion and obsession. Aquarius are known to pride themselves on their cool objectivity. "Why can't Aquarius feel more?" you may ask. In turn, Aquarius will wonder why you can't trust the facts right in front of you, and rely less on your intuition. You will bristle at having to explain yourself.

Your sign is possessive, but Aquarius is a sign of independence; they will resist any restrictions put on their freedom to roam. Ruled by the erratic planet Uranus, Aquarius rebels against predictable routine much as a caged tiger would. But you love your routines, Scorpio, because they allow your life to flow along without ever having to think about it. Day-to-day life with your Aquarius lover is likely to jangle your nerves; he or she will never submit to the structure you impose, particularly at home. Both of you are fixed signs, so you have strong opinions -- you'll both be digging in your heels when differences surface between you. Pulling with all your might on opposite ends of the tug-of-war, you'll both wonder where you were when this all began, and what led you into this relationship.

In this match, you supply the feelings and Aquarius supplies the intellect. For a while, your lover's allusiveness will thrill you as you try to figure him or her out. However, this liaison is likely to fizzle after a while, because you will miss having the emotional intimacy you crave. If you love your Aquarius and are disappointed to read this, it is possible one or both of you have planets in your horoscopes that make this union a good one. Check with an astrologer -- this assessment only studies Sun signs. You both will have to try hard to make this work, but since you are so different, you have much to gain from this relationship.

I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius

Yes, yes, yes! This is one match you must go for! Aquarius is perfect for you, Libra. Both of you are communicators -- you're sure to have long talks, lively debates, and flashes of brilliant inspiration from one another.

Any relationship has its little bumps and yours will be that Aquarius is a freedom-loving sign whereas you want to wed. Aquarius' detachment and cool reserve may be a bit maddening when you're waiting for a commitment; you have to be patient. You have the right basic compatibility.

Libra is a refined and elegant sign. You like to go to sophisticated, high-class restaurants -- feeding pigeons on a park bench or checking out the local diner might not be what you had in mind. Just try to understand that your Aquarius is undoubtedly saving up for a new Powerbook or extra RAM for that new computer, so spending money on food seems, well, less interesting. Pull out your credit card and show them what they're missing. You may be able to distract Aquarius, even if you can't reform him or her.

Libras want to form deep friendships before they fall in love, and your Aquarius will agree. This lover could become your best pal. Aquarius are playful and experimental in bed. At times reserved, polite Libras will be shocked by some of the ideas Aquarius can suggest for lovemaking. But your good nature will lead you to listen and try practically anything once.

Libra, give this love a chance. This is an outstanding match despite the initial differences.

I am Virgo, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Virgo, My Lover is Aquarius

If you have fallen for an Aquarius, you intuitively want to be influenced by a personality very different from your own. Aquarius are quirky, untraditional, quixotic, idiosyncratic, curious, unconventional, forgetful (at times), and coolly objective. You are traditional, careful, thoughtful, detailed, curious, cautious, productive, and coolly objective. So you see, there are differences, but one or two big similarities also. Will they be enough?

You both are intellectual people, so the discussions you have will be lively and stimulating. Both of you like to absorb vast amounts of information and sort through what is fact and what is fiction. At the end of the day, you will trade interesting tidbits and stories, and have conversations swirling around the news and topical issues. You will never run out of things to say.

Virgo's gift is to create order and sense out of chaos, but Aquarius' gift is just the opposite. They take existing structures and smash them to dust, dissolving the establishment in order to eliminate what is no longer useful. Aquarius' role is to challenge the status quo, and your role is to piece together what has been broken -- the iconoclast and the conservator. Aquarius look upon the world with the critical detachment of a scientist; you look upon everything with intensity and in detail. You don't like disregarding rules, but your lover pushes right in that direction every time. Whether the two of you can reconcile your separate roles will depend on how much each of you admires and respects the work of the other.

Money can be a battleground for many couples, but not for you. You seem to agree on many levels here. Neither of you likes to be careless with money, and both of you have the ability to listen to the other when it comes to prioritizing financial goals.

The reason Aquarius are so forgetful is that they don't remember unnecessary details. If their computer can hold all the data they need, why keep it in their heads? You, of course, hold everything in your head: zip codes, the names of your neighbors' children, your next dentist appointment. They marvel at your ability to do this (at times they think you are some kind of savant). But don't scoff at your lover's inability to remember things; a genius has to be able to free his or her mind for more conceptual thinking.

It could well be in the boudoir that you two are most comfortably matched. You light up the house of sexuality in Aquarius' horoscope and thus, your lover will find you endlessly fascinating in bed. In turn, Aquarius' Uranian approach to everything is unusual, unpredictable, experimental and thrilling. Your lover is wilder and more creative in bed than you could ever be, and he or she will have to understand that this is something new to you and your natural reserve. This should not diminish your attraction to each other. Aquarius' emotional detachment might be okay with you in the beginning since you are so slow to commit. But if the relationship stays too platonic and does not grow in emotional depth (despite the wonderful sexual chemistry), it will be you -- rather than your lover -- who will cut the tie. You need romance and candlelight, and your Aquarius might think that's just cute sentimentality. Your Aquarius want a lover who is also their friend -- and you do, too, but if it's only that, you'll be gone with the wind.

As a Virgo you distrust desire. If you want something badly -- like love -- you hesitate, feeling nothing could live up to what you imagine, so therefore it probably couldn't exist. You could be surprised, so you should not take such a dark view of things. Your natural caution makes you worry that you will never find emotional fulfillment. Your lover, equally analytical in mind and spirit, feels similarly wary of marriage. Privacy and a need to retain individuality and self-sufficiency are so important to both of you that you both fear a loss of these qualities in marriage. Thus, it may take a long time to exchange rings and vows. Happily, your timetables are about the same. Your fears can be overcome in time, so don't fret; give one another enough space to get comfortable with the relationship.

Can this coupling work out? Can earth (your sign) and air (your lover's sign) mix well? This match is not a classic astrological blend, but it's still possible. Perhaps you have other planets in your horoscope that will make this relationship sing. Like anything else, your destiny is not in your stars, but within you.

I am Leo, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Leo, My Lover is Aquarius

Your Aquarius lover is a mystery to you, but that only makes you more determined to uncover his or her secrets. Fiercely individualistic, independent, and a tad idiosyncratic, it's hard to imagine someone more unlike yourself than Aquarius. Aquarius' role is to rebel, to shake up society's standards, to tear apart and renovate that which has become old and outworn. At times your lover may accuse you of being conservative and too willing to appease the status quo. You may willingly admit this (as a Leo you need approval and more importantly, respect), but inside, this challenge will sit uncomfortably with you.

Aquarius isn't very materialistic, but you are. You also wonder at his or her preference of buying still another computer, while you are aching to check out the new hot club, the latest exclusive restaurant, and a new luxury car. An air sign ruled by the electrical, unpredictable planet Uranus, Aquarius are drawn to new technology and the Information Age like magnets. Their computer purchases aren't for show or status, but to work more effectively. If Gemini needs a dial tone like oxygen, Aquarius needs an infusion of Internet like it's his or her life's blood. You may have to get used to their hours at the keyboard, while you review the arts section of the paper to see all the shows you're missing. This is one point you are not likely to win. Aquarius is a fixed sign like yours, so neither of you is likely to budge on any position. Unless you can reach a compromise (unlikely) or a truce (more likely), the problems you find early-on are the problems that will haunt you forever.

Analytical Aquarius has a cool, detached demeanor, which may initially attract your attention and curiosity. This lure may not last, however, because your nature is just the opposite. Leos are giving, warm, and need frequent displays of affection. Over time, an Aquarius isn't likely to give you the reassurance you need that you are still attractive, seductive, or alluring, although he or she will make you feel valued for your brains. Is that enough, Leo? This could lead you to feel something is vaguely lacking in your relationship. But if it doesn't seem like a big enough deal, you might just suffer in silence.

Realize that Aquarius rules the 11th house of friendship, while your sign rules the house of romance. Herein lies a big difference: Your Aquarius wants a friend first, a lover second; you want a lover first, and a friend second. Priorities rarely shift. You are ruled by your heart, whereas Aquarius are ruled by their minds. Their sign rules the scientist, who carefully and objectively proves or disproves a hypothesis. Aquarius need to be free to investigate the world, but you need to create, imagine, and enjoy. Leos tend to be designers, artists, directors, actors, and entertainment specialists. You create best when you feel loved. Aquarius do best when they feel unencumbered and will fight any claims on them. But your urge to possess your lover is very powerful. Aquarius will resist this on every count, especially if they feel you are clinging to them.

Can you work this out? Yes, if you love each other dearly. Perhaps you both have some important planets other than your Sun signs in your charts that bridge the gap. Remember, the Sun sign is only one of the heavenly bodies in a chart.

Physically your Aquarius will thrill you with their electric lovemaking and penchant for making it new and different. It is in bed that you two fit together best, for you will enjoy their devil-may-care confidence. You will also never know when they will tell you that they love you. Not in bed, when other lovers would swear their devotion, but rather, while you are on the way to the subway or munching on BLT's at the luncheonette. Aquarius themselves don't even know when the spirit will move them! Their eyes are like lasers, and when they beam at you in a serious moment you will never forget the feeling. When Aquarius reveal themselves, it is rare, honest, and unforgettable. They never do what you expect, which is maddening at times, but it's also what you love best about them.

I am Cancer, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Cancer, My Lover is Aquarius

You and Aquarius are of a different breed. You will have to work extra hard to overcome the basic problems you'll encounter within this relationship.

Aquarius live life like research scientists, gathering data and making rational conclusions. Cancers, on the other hand, know from experience that their hearts always steer them in the right direction. Cancers know that everyday facts can be deceptive depending on how they are presented, so they've come to rely on their gut reactions. As a water sign, Cancers have a more highly developed intuition than Aquarius, and this instinct will work especially well for you.

The Aquarius aloofness will trouble you. It may initially attract you to this mysterious and alluring loner, but in time he or she could break your heart. You are warm, engaging, compassionate and tender. When your Aquarius doesn't call or respond wholeheartedly, you will compare his or her behavior to your own under the same circumstances. This may not make you feel any better. The trouble is, Aquarius has a blind eye when it comes to passion and has trouble feeling like part of a twosome. Aquarius will love your capacity for deep emotions, but he or she simply doesn't feel things as deeply. This puts you forever in the role of the giver.

You want family, closeness, and commitment more than anything else in life. Aquarius want freedom, independence, and a chance to explore and understand their own identity. Aquarius resist marriage for this same reason, feeling it will impinge on their needs. In time, you may be able to reassure yours enough to get him or her to commit, but your Aquarius will never give you the warmth you crave. Aquarius find you too moody and easily slighted, whereas you find them somewhat cool and crusty at times.

But Aquarius have the most beautiful eyes and tend to be light in color. Their gaze can convince you to agree to practically anything. In bed, they will dazzle you with their electric lovemaking. Aquarius can send you to another world, but it's all fun and games, because in all the other areas that matter to them, they'll know you two don't click. And so will you.

Cancer is traditional in outlook; Aquarius cares nothing about the past, is only interested in the future, and loves to break rules. They march to a different drummer because their role in the Universe is to question all preconceptions. As a Cancer, you may find this hard to deal with over the years. In time you may ask yourself if you can sacrifice so much of yourself to their personality. You are more flexible than fixed sign Aquarius, so you are the one who will have to make adjustments. Sooner or later you could find yourself worn out.

You may be nodding, seeing the writing on the wall. If you love your Aquarius, possibly you have the moon or other planets in a highly compatible relationship to their Sun. We are only studying the Sun sign here, so have your custom chart drawn up and decide what to do about your relationship later. You need time together before you make any serious decisions.

I am Gemini, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Gemini, My Lover is Aquarius

This is a pairing made in heaven, perfect in every way. An Aquarius lover is a match for your considerable intellect and has a strong sense of social consciousness as well. Aquarius can become outraged over prejudice, civil rights, or environmental violations, and may often be leaders of groups working to combat these situations. You like the Aquarius' rebellious streak -- they have courage, and do what their heart tells them to, not what society dictates. Aquarius can seem cool, detached, and hard to get close to, but that only adds to their allure in your eyes. Gemini has considerable charisma too, and flirting gives you the unfair advantage. Gemini always gets it right with Aquarius.

Your Aquarius is a sparkler in bed too -- wickedly naughty or tenderly nice, depending on your mood. Experimentation is an Aquarius forte, and being a Gemini, you can't wait to see what he or she will come up with next! This lover will leave you breathless and permanently excited. You never need worry about becoming bored with your partner, because Aquarius is up to the task of keeping you forever sated, both in and out of bed.

Aquarius are quirky, irreverent, and fun, and find your quixotic quicksilver outlook just their cup of tea. You and your Aquarius will groove on a fantastic level that's out of this world. Let this one take you to the stars!

I am Taurus, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Taurus, My Lover is Aquarius

It is easy to see the attraction here, but "Can it last?" is the important question. Your Aquarius lover has alluring, mysterious charm. He or she is distant, cool, analytical, intellectual, and seems maddeningly preoccupied. You will respect the Aquarius mind and mastery over his or her profession. Often called geniuses, Aquarias grasp highly technical subjects with ease, and keep their focus firmly on tomorrow. Aquarius' role is to break down established structures and replace what has been swept away with something better. As a Taurus, you aren't like this -- your focus is on the here and now, with the added role of preserving what was created yesterday. Aquarius have their inherent rebellious streak: They must challenge the status quo, something which might not sit right with you. You like social approval -- something they couldn't care less about.

In personality, you are warm and sharing, and although Aquarius are too, they have a very different way of showing affection. After a while, you are likely to notice that your lover holds himself or herself at a slight distance. Aquarius is ruled by Uranus the planet of individuality. The distance you are sensing is their fear of getting too close, for it could mean the loss of self. This terrifies your sweetheart, and you need to take this concern seriously, even though it is something you can't relate to. Being ruled by Venus the planet of love and affection, Taurus find fear of closeness an alien concept; however, developing his or her identity is a true lifelong quest to an Aquarius. Your possessiveness and occasional bouts of jealousy could turn your lover off. If this pairing is going to work, you have to accept what your Aquarius is capable of giving you. Whether this will ever be enough for you is the question. You need a lot of closeness.

There will be more serious challenges, too. Because both of you are fixedsigns, neither of you is likely to make a concerted effort to resolve conflicts that crop up. Both of you learned early in life that you can win arguments by employing your steely resolve. This inevitably leads to an impasse. If one or both of you has compatible earthor waterplanets in your individual charts there could be flexibility on at least on one side. Let's hope so! Otherwise, you both are going to have to try very hard to abandon your stubbornness.

In bed, your Aquarius lover is exciting and inventive, but he or she may find you a little conservative or emotionally clingy. To an Aquarius, making love is just one more interesting thing to do, while sex is a far bigger deal to you. Aquarius are certainly capable of true love, but their need for a no-strings-attached relationship may seem just too loose and impetuous for you. You have no desire to date others (your beloved may not either), but you will promise fidelity. Yet your Aquarius won't commit simply on principle (at least in the early stages). The whole idea of belonging to someone can make an Aquarius squirm.

A parting word: We are only studying Sun signs here. If your Aquarius has lots of Capricorn planets in his or her horoscope (which is possible since Venus, the Moon Mercuryand even Marscould be close to the Sun at any given time), you will find this relationship far easier than I have described. Something drew you two together, so have a look at your full horoscopes to get the entire picture.

I am Aries, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Aries, My Lover is Aquarius

A wondrous adventure awaits you in this lover made just for you. You were drawn to their mysterious, detached demeanor, their sharp analytical thinking and innovative style. You're a rebel at the core, so with this heartthrob, you've met your match. Together you can really make your mark on the world, for Aquarius's role is to point out flaws in society's thinking and make the planet a better place to live. Since neither of you craves social approval, you can forge onward and challenge the status quo, either politically or by exploring new markets in business. You are both future-oriented, so you speak the same language. Neither of one of you will ever think yesterday was sweeter than what tomorrow will bring.

You communicate especially well, for your lover is air, you are fire, two elements that blend magnificently. You want to be the boss, which is usually fine with your other half, for Aquarius likes to pursue their own projects with complete freedom. For both of you, absence makes the heart grow fonder, so you agree that independence is to be prized. Aquarius does not want to meld identities in marriage -- they want both partners to be separate but united entities -- so they won't suffocate your spirit. However, they are far less flexible than you are, so be warned: If you hit a point that they seem adamant about, they probably won't budge an inch.

You bring just the right touch of teasing and titillation into the bedroom, for you'll adore Aquarius' impulsive, surprising lovemaking style. Your lover will do nothing the same from one day to the next, and that's just fine with you. Still, you might find him or her initially hard to get close to. This could puzzle you. Since Aquarius is so outwardly charming and friendly, you might not notice your lover is holding you at arm's length. You have the ability to break down this barrier, so I doubt it will remain a problem. Both of you will create the space you each need so badly in any relationship. Luckily, you both agree in the axiom, "If you want something, let it go. If it doesn't come back, it was never yours to begin with." You are right, for possessiveness would make the relationship claustrophobic for either of you.

Your Aquarius may be hard to understand at times, even a bit unpredictable or wacky, but this is what drew you to him or her first, anyway. This is a frisky, fresh and fabulous union, so go for it!