I am Libra, My Lover is Pisces

I am Libra, My Lover is Pisces

There are many ways this union could work, even though astrological textbooks might turn down their nose at it. Pisces is a creative and highly sensitive sign and would relate to your refined nature. You both love poetry, music and art. Your Pisces will want to go out and experience life with you. But your Pisces will also want to have periods of intense privacy. Pisces won't be trying to get away from you so much as from life in general; they need to make sense of it all in solitude because the exertion of everyday life can harm their psyche and dull their delicate nervous systems. Of the two, you are the realist and better at finding practical solutions, and your lover will provide you with the inspiration and vision to do so.

Pisces are deeply emotional, highly sentimental and romantic. They want to discuss the meaning of life, their feelings about religion, the suffering of others, and how to help. As an air sign, you may find these discussions stimulating, but Pisces won't care as much about what you think, so much as what you feel in your heart. Get too analytical and you'll lose them; they need to sense authentic feelings in you. This may or may not be exhausting for Libras, who like to take what they see on the surface, instead of diving down to the ocean floor where Pisces exist. Pisces is the sign of dreams and the subconscious, and will help you explore realms you never considered. This process will change you for the better, if you allow it. You are a cardinal sign, and therefore aggressive about searching out new experiences. Pisces are very adaptable, so they will give you no problems in this respect. Pisces will be happy to follow your lead as long as he or she gets enough time to him or herself.

This soulful lover will never value the material world the way you do, however. Pisces are of the spirit and soul. Faced with a financial windfall, you would buy a painting or rare jewels; Pisces would rather pay debts, buy creative tools, and give the rest away to charity or friends in need. Thus the area of joint resources could be an area of struggle, but since your Sun lights up Pisces' house for joint resources (8th house), of all the signs, you may be the most beneficial for Pisces' money. You could at least set up a good program of savings for his or her retirement -- something Pisces rarely see as a high priority.

Sexually, you will be touched by the depth of feeling you experience together, the care your Pisces takes in giving you pleasure, and the exquisite aura that will be wrapped around you.

This is one lover to have and to hold. Give it a good try.

I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius

I am Libra, My Lover is Aquarius

Yes, yes, yes! This is one match you must go for! Aquarius is perfect for you, Libra. Both of you are communicators -- you're sure to have long talks, lively debates, and flashes of brilliant inspiration from one another.

Any relationship has its little bumps and yours will be that Aquarius is a freedom-loving sign whereas you want to wed. Aquarius' detachment and cool reserve may be a bit maddening when you're waiting for a commitment; you have to be patient. You have the right basic compatibility.

Libra is a refined and elegant sign. You like to go to sophisticated, high-class restaurants -- feeding pigeons on a park bench or checking out the local diner might not be what you had in mind. Just try to understand that your Aquarius is undoubtedly saving up for a new Powerbook or extra RAM for that new computer, so spending money on food seems, well, less interesting. Pull out your credit card and show them what they're missing. You may be able to distract Aquarius, even if you can't reform him or her.

Libras want to form deep friendships before they fall in love, and your Aquarius will agree. This lover could become your best pal. Aquarius are playful and experimental in bed. At times reserved, polite Libras will be shocked by some of the ideas Aquarius can suggest for lovemaking. But your good nature will lead you to listen and try practically anything once.

Libra, give this love a chance. This is an outstanding match despite the initial differences.

I am Libra, My Lover is Capricorn

I am Libra, My Lover is Capricorn

Libras admire Capricorns' ambition, and wish they had that constant drive to reach the top. Both of you like the social scene, so attending corporate parties and client dinners is something your sweetheart won't have to bribe you to do -- you'll already be reaching for your Zagat's guide. Libras value their looks, something your lover appreciates in you. Capricorn will never reproach you for spending time and money on yourself.

The only difficulties? You are far more lighthearted than your Goat, who is all too serious much of the time. Still, your influence could change all that, and your lover will be the better for it. More difficult will be the celibate periods you two endure while Capricorn is working late and wiped out by the time he or she returns home to you. When you do finally get back to each other, though, your chemistry together will run hot and cold. The reason? Your Sun signs are at odds with one another, setting up challenging signals you will have to try and overcome.

Still, give this relationship a try. You both want a warm and loving home and family life, and this is a dream you are likely to see come true. If your Capricorn is the family provider, he or she will not let you down: Capricorns take responsibility very, very seriously -- a reassuring thought. Also, Capricorn's Sun lights up your home house, which you can make sure is cozy and inviting. All in all, if you love your Capricorn, you can make things work. Everything will depend on you.

I am Libra, My Lover is Sagittarius

I am Libra, My Lover is Sagittarius

This pairing has a good chance of success. Libra and Sagittarius share upbeat, optimistic personalities. Libra, you love meeting new people and go far and wide outside of your main social circle to reel in new friends and experiences. You like to party, and your Sagittarius lover likes to travel. You can each convince the other to join in these activities in a wink of an eye!

You'll have difficulty with your Sagittarius' directness. At times their compulsion for no-holds-barred honesty will require you wear a suit of ego-armor! Libra rules partnership and looks forward to marriage, so another little turbulent spot may come later, when you feel you're ready to wed: You'll sense your sweetheart still isn't quite sure. Don't take this personally. Sagittarius have to be absolutely certain they won't lose their individuality or autonomy. Once they assure themselves that won't happen, they'll be hooked. Meanwhile, your sex life should be lively and fun, and stay that way for years! Sagittarius likes making love outdoors under the stars, and that's just fine with you, as long as the risks aren't too great.

Hold on to your Sagittarius and surround him or her with love. This one could be the right one for you!

I am Libra, My Lover is Scorpio

I am Libra, My Lover is Scorpio

This is an interesting match. Libras are all light, polished, refined elegance, and Scorpios are all mysterious, dark, sensual sexuality. If you want to keep your lover interested, don't reveal all; your Scorpio needs the challenge and the lure of the chase. Signs that are found side by side in the zodiac are opposites -- the sign that follows makes up for what the first sign lacks. So your sign has plenty of brains and objectivity, but doesn't reach high on the lusty, emotional scale. Scorpio makes up for this.

You might say this is a good thing, and, indeed, it might be. However, you might find your lover longs for you to reach his or her emotional intensity, which could be hard. Few signs can match the emotional spectrum of a Scorpio! Libras are talkers, but Scorpios are more taciturn. When Scorpios fall into moods, they sometimes brood. Here's where you can help, by using your diplomatic Libra flair to gently open your lover up. Be careful, however. Scorpios can lash out, shouting, "I want to be alone!" Isolation is something social Libra almost never craves and finds hard to understand. Not having your lover around to talk to could kill the relationship for you all by itself.

You need to be popular and have lots of friends, but Scorpio could care less. You love to go out, but Scorpio wants to lock the door and pull down the blinds. Troubles, troubles.

Sex is extremely important to your lover. Scorpios cannot imagine a long-term relationship without lots of it, and (lucky you) they have the bedroom skills to make lovemaking a memorable, lusty, sensual experience. Your lover wants sex to be near karmic in emotional intensity, although as a rational air sign, you may find yourself scrambling to keep up. Libras tend to want marriage and commitment, and Scorpios, being highly possessive, don't want to share their lovers with anyone else. You have different views, but have the same goal.

Give this relationship a chance. This could be your dream lover and best friend, or the relationship may fizzle because it had great chemistry but no rapport. There will be no in-between, and you will know soon.

I am Libra, My Lover is Libra

I am Libra, My Lover is Libra

This relationship feels like looking in a mirror; you like what you see, but this other person is eerily just like you. You know one another's weaknesses and strengths, and you have the same instincts and reactions, which are pluses. But neither of you can add to what's missing. Libra is a subtly strong sign, even a little bossy at times, so you will have to watch this tendency. In this relationship there are all chiefs and no Indians, yet you both are able to get your way using your incredible Libra charm -- things will never get unpleasant.

Your union is full of intellect and objectivity, but the missing element is the exploration of deep emotions, which neither of you may have the interest or courage to investigate. Instead, you both will tend to keep safely detached to avoid getting hurt. This is a shame. In bed, you should both try to let down this guard and increase the level of your intimacy and the temperature of your passion.

You both hope marriage will be the natural outcome of dating, so you two could be on the same track. Because you both also vacillate a little, expect a "maybe," a "let me think about it," or a "jeez, do you think so?" before the date is set!

I am Libra, My Lover is Virgo

I am Libra, My Lover is Virgo

Perhaps it was the articulateness, the masterful sense of organization, the refined and reserved manner, or the flawless personal style of your Virgo that led you to him or her. This is not a classical combination, for Virgo is an earth sign and you're air, which is not a natural match by any means.

Still, you have such good qualities to share with one another: Libras appreciate Virgos' realism and solid practicality. Libras like to analyze things, and so do Virgos (it's too easy for both of you to over-analyze, in fact). Both of you appreciate dressing in a non-flashy, low key, and refined way; neither of you is likely to hassle the other for investing in good quality clothing.

One big difference is that Virgos are only happy when they are being productive, while Libras like to play. Perhaps you will pick up some of your Virgo's industriousness and he or she will begin to learn to relax a little -- never easy for a Virgo. Virgos can also get fairly obsessive about neatness -- this might make you want to scream!

In bed, they are very verbal, but not usually too playful. You might have to lighten your Virgo up -- this shouldn't be too hard. Neither of you is very emotional, but without one of you encouraging the other to let your feelings out, things could get dull. You and your Virgo will have a meeting of the minds -- and some lively debates -- but is that enough? After all, how long can you discuss the Congressional Budget Report over a fine cabernet? Well, okay, Virgos are intellectual whiz kids, but they're not THAT bad. Still, things can get a little dry at times between you two, and there is a way to counteract that: Allow yourselves to be influenced by one another intellectually as well as physically. Each of you has what the other lacks.

Don't be sad. If your Virgo is born with Venus in Libra or has other planets in sync with yours, this relationship could sparkle! This is a Sun-sign reading and the Sun is only one planet of many in a chart. Go slowly and get to know one another well. Give this relationship a good try before you decide if it is for you.

I am Libra, My Lover is Leo

I am Libra, My Lover is Leo

This is a classic and classy combination, a sure hit with long-running potential. Take this show on the road!

Both of you love to dress up and go out, to see and be seen at all the right events, and to throw the biggest and best parties ever. Wow! Going to interesting cultural events and discovering new restaurants refreshes both of you. You share a love of the good life, and while you may not have a fat savings account, you two will certainly have fun.

Sexually, fire-sign Leo brings passion to air-sign Libra. Too often you let your head rule your heart, and your Leo is bent on changing all that. Leo's warm, gregarious, enthusiastic, and elegant style will soon capture your interest. Their powerful self-confidence impresses you, and is very sexy. Leos have mastered the art of seduction and don't take shortcuts -- down to the bottle of chilled champagne. They feel lovemaking is one of the lost arts, and thank goodness for that! They have a strong, sure style in bed -- they're playful too -- and before long you'll be hooked on this passionate love god or goddess. Libras keep up their appearance so there are no old sweat suits or tattered T-shirts on you in bed. Your respect for yourself is noticed and appreciated by your Leo lover.

Go right ahead, Libra. This one's a sure-fire hit!

I am Libra, My Lover is Cancer

I am Libra, My Lover is Cancer

Think twice about this relationship, Libra. It can work if you try, but you may find that the temperamental differences are so great that it may be impossible for you to bridge the gap. Why? For starters, your Cancer lover is a homebody and you like to go out as much as possible. You love new experiences and meeting new people, while they find that kind of lifestyle to be a waste of their time. Cancer's domesticity might drive you up the wall, especially when you realize that your lover hoped you were June or Ward Cleaver from the old '50s sitcom "Leave it to Beaver" -- you never will be anything remotely like that. Many Cancers are walking around with an old-fashioned vision of what family life ought to be, and in the early stages of the relationship you may not see this coming. But a lovely, warm, and inviting home is something you both want, so at least that is on your side. The difference is you like to entertain friends, but they want to entertain family.

Secondly, you are an air sign -- an analytical, communicative, and intellectual creature. Your lover, on the other hand, is a water sign, full of sentimentality, romance and feelings. Now this may sound great to you at first, but in time, you may find Cancer's changing moods unfathomable. A Pisces or Scorpio would have the patience and intuition to understand where Cancer is coming from, but after a while you probably won't have the stamina or interest to figure those moods out.

Sexually, your Cancer is a talented lover; he or she will lavish you with attention and romantic gestures. At first this will be wonderful, because Cancers are a dream in bed. However, later they can become a bit possessive or even jealous of your time, asking you to explain your schedule in detail. Your lover will wonder why you can't be more emotional and compassionate with him or her, and you will wonder why he or she can't be more rational and just let you be you.

If you love your Cancer, you may have other planets in your horoscope, which meld beautifully with his, or hers -- so don't give up hope. Even if there are no such planets in either of your charts, remind yourself that astrology is not destiny. If you truly love someone, no obstacle is too great to overcome.

I am Libra, My Lover is Gemini

I am Libra, My Lover is Gemini

Libra and Gemini are one of the best combinations of all. Gemini is a fellow air sign and understands your deepest needs. Two analytical communicators teamed up might make some people say the union needs more emotion, but both of you let your heads rule your hearts anyway. Don't let anyone tell you that Libra and Gemini aren't made for one anther! The brain is the most powerful erogenous zone in the body, and you two keep yours working overtime! Your Gemini's talent for verbal foreplay turns you both on, and your ability to communicate what you want will lead lovemaking to scale new heights of passion!

You adore your Gemini's wit; he or she loves your flair with people, and together you two will double or triple the size of your circle of friends. Because Gemini falls in your sector of distant travel, you two are likely to go to many wonderful, exotic places together. Neither of you can stand the same-old same-old for long, and this match will ensure all the stimulation you crave!

This coupling gets a resounding yes! It's a "10" by any standard.

I am Libra, My Lover is Taurus

I am Libra, My Lover is Taurus

This is a great match because both of you are ruled by gentle Venus. You and your lover are highly diplomatic, refined, and enjoy the finer things in life. You both love cultural events, new restaurants, and -- believe it or not -- shopping. Libra and Taurus enjoy beautiful objects, environments and clothing, so there is much common ground here. Taurus will appreciate your attractive appearance and won't hassle you about the money you spend on yourself.

The difficulties you may have will come from Taurus' sometimes obstinate behavior. As a Libra, you are talented with flexibility and compromise, but Taurus have none of those instincts. If you want to change your Taurus' mind, you have to get in early, before he or she has made a final decision. After that, forget it. This is maddening to Libra; you cannot understand such refusal to change one's mind.

Air sign Libras love to talk, but Taurus are taciturn, preferring to take time alone to think and read. This may leave you feeling lonely and left out. But you have so many friends, if your Taurus lover is having his or her private time, you might simply pick up the phone and dial one up. If this starts happening a lot, however, you are likely to wonder what the point is of being together at all.

In bed, earth sign Taurus takes his or her time, savoring every moment, something you will adore. Taurus' voice is particularly beautiful, both soothing and stimulating at the same time (Taurus rules the throat). Listening to your lover talk never fails to turn you on. Your lover will thrill to the tender, light touch of your hands from the very beginning. Your Taurus lover is deeply sexual and lusty, so your arousal will be swift in coming.

This union can work if you love your Taurus with your whole heart and are prepared to promise your complete fidelity. Taurus can give you a secure life with all the material possessions and loyalty you crave, plus some very spicy sex as well. Give this one all you've got!

I am Libra, My Lover is Aries

I am Libra, My Lover is Aries

Polar opposites often attract and rightly so! Your sign is all about partnering, and Aries are all about initiative. Together you are destined to have lively and active times. This is a match that was probably made because you enjoyed one another tremendously right from the start. You were having too much fun not to fall in love.

You are attracted by Aries courage, can-do attitude, and their willingness to deal with risk. Aries are strong, full of opinions and bright enthusiasm, but at times they don't look before they leap. Libras are highly intellectual and analytical, and your presence will be a good influence if your lover listens to you. You like balance and everything in moderation, but your Aries doesn't know what the word temperance means! This very trait attracts you, as you continually try to figure out what makes your lover tick. Life with an Aries is never boring, and your substantial circle of friends and contacts can help your Aries lover get ahead. Libra is a refined sign, aware of social politics, so you do hope your wild Aries cowpoke will adhere to them most of the time! Usually he or she will, but Aries have a bit of the rebellious prankster in them too, so be forewarned! Your sense of humor will help. The very thing you fear most about your Aries' lifestyle -- risk -- also attracts you. You love that lively Aries spunk.

In bed, you've got an ardent handful. Your lover will ignite you with his or her intensity and appetite. Aries are passionate, attentive, and lusty, and you'll revel in your good fortune. They can have a roving eye, however, but only if they get bored. Keep things lively by remaining somewhat unpredictable. Aries of both sexes enjoy the thrill of the chase. Libras like to get married but Aries aren't sure if they want to be tied to any one person forever and ever. You will have to make your lover think it was his or her idea to make a commitment, because headstrong Aries don't want to be "told" anything.

In all a very good match, and one that will keep you both on your toes for years!